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writes:dear cupid,soo, about a month ago, i asked for advice on here after i found out that my ex-boyfriend (with whom i am basically back together with now) was hiding things from me on facebook; the name of the question was, "should i not make a big deal out of what is on his facebook?"we were out to lunch not long ago, and he just happened to ask me if i had seen something that he posted. i casually responded that i actually hadn't been able to see very much of what he's been posting in the last several months, and he acted confused by it--like he didn't know what was up with it. it's weaseled itself into our conversations a few more times since then, and each time, he has acted like he doesn't know why things are hidden from me.like i said, this guy and i are basically back together now; things are going well enough to the point that he chose to invite me to go on vacation with him and his family and some friends in a couple of weeks. we've been spending a lot of time together, and he completely freaks out if i don't text him every single night.i'm really happy with the way that things are going...but at the same time, this whole facebook fiasco is really bugging me. i hate to say it, but i really don't believe him when he says that he has no idea what happened. but then again, i don't really see why he would be lying about it.do you think it's a big deal? or, should i just leave it alone?
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reader, Puffalapeno +, writes (30 May 2012):
Honestly, it's not a big deal. Facebook's privacy settings have gotten things so jumbled and messed up it's not even funny. My husband will frequently like or share things that his friends post and ask if I saw it, which I didn't because of the privacy settings that his friends have. If things are going well otherwise, don't sweat the Facebook stuff, it'll drive you crazy and cause drama that doesn't need to occur.
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reader, SHANTELLAH  +, writes (30 May 2012):
 I no the feeling but please dont let facebook things distruct your relationship,just ignore it and concentrate on your relationship.
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