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female
age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: So i dated this guy for the longest time. About a year and 6 months. We argue a lot but we only broken up once and it was for a long period of time, we got back together but i never really had time to talk to him as much as i would like...Not only that but he begin to call me 12 times in a row and text me at least 3 times in 5 minutes. So I finally had time to talk and he just stopped calling me and texting me period, and he sent me the wrong text message that said stop messaging your ex on facebook. And i simply brought this issue to him and asked him if he was seeing someone else, he tole me know and i confided in my best friend that i believe he may be seeing someone else. She takes it upon herself to message him and pretend to be his girlfriend and he kept saying who is this? and she was saying i said its your girlfriend so you tell me and he says another females name so she tells me and i tell him what she said. He says its a lie and he says I'm going to be honest with you, it was just a friend and nothing more nothing less, she had time for him and talked to her about his issues but he never touched or kissed her and he never told her he wanted to be with her. He swore that he would never do it again and that he didnt date her, should i give him another chance, Idk if hes being honest, He's never done this before so what do i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2012):
Hi,
I think that there is something going on with this boy that is not entirely honest with you. They always get found out in the end and I think between the text message he sent to your phone and the fact that your friend emailed him and said its your gf and he used someone elses name - and NOT YOURS. That would set off any girls alarm bells.
When you confront him he is in pure denial mode.
If he was completely honest with you then maybe you could move past this but he is not being completely honest and therefore I would say it is better to leave this guy and choose a guy who you are sure of and completely trust because love is trust - without that, this is just a recipe for heartache.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 May 2012): Leave him now before things get more complicated. He sounds like a very needy guy if he can't leave you alone and calls like 12 times. The fact he said another girls name is obvious red flag and he will use all the charm in the world to sweet talk you around. Don't have any of it. You've broken up and tried again, he's not being 100% honest with you. Enjoy the memories of good times you had and move on. You don't need someone so complicated in your life, especially when you're so young relationships should be fun and exciting not leaving you worrying you never have enough time to talk or if your partner is being faithful. Save yourself the hassle!
Best of luck x : )
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