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41-50,
*pumie
writes:Am I jealous or insecure. I was visiting my bf. As I was busy preparing breakfast, my sixth senses told me to look outside of the window as I was watching I saw my bf passing something to this woman. When he came inside the house I asked him what was it and he told me that the lady asked him to buy her something just to eat and he used his money to buy that thing. My problem is they don't look or greet me but their friendly with my bf. I'm not staying with him as we are not married yet I'm only visiting once or twice per week.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2012): that shows you r very insecure if the situation is like you r telling us... u can not be with someone...is just kind of paranoic.
do u really think your guy is kind of the guy who exchange numbers or something with someone random at the street while his gf is upstairs making breakfast?? seriously??
if you think he is that kind of person...I dont know what are you doing with him?.
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reader, no nonsense Aidan  +, writes (24 May 2012):
I’m slightly confused. You only saw him pass something to a woman as you looked out of the window, which he says was food he bought for her. Why would he lie about that? It’s not like you’ve found any evidence of cheating, evidence that there’s anything beyond friendliness going on with another woman. It is a bit rude of people he knows not to greet you, but that’s their failing, not your boyfriend’s. Jealousy and insecurity reinforce each other: insecure people get jealous, jealous people are made insecure by their jealousy. But from your post it doesn’t sound like there’s any grounds to feel either jealous or insecure.
I wish you all the very best.
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