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*ail..
writes:Hello ..Well my boyfriend has broken up with me,and this isn't the first time it's happened. He said he couldn't trust me,i've never cheated or lied but he has and he thought i would try to get back at him for it,but i wouldn't have done anything like that.He was very controlling like taking my iphone away because he didn't trust me with apps. Or having a Facebook,Yahoo, or any other social site to be honest. I know it was my fault for letting it get that bad.While i am accepting of the fact that we won't be together anymore i know it's better for both of us.I just want to know when you guys think it's an appropriate time to start doing things again. Like going and hanging out with friends, activating my facebook again? All of that stuff.Any advice would be great thank you very much (:
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reader, Fail.. +, writes (31 May 2012):
Fail.. is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you guys,it helps to know im not a bad person for wanting to live,i think i will hold out on the whole facebook thing for a couple of days just cause i'm not very comfortable with the thought yet,but i will be soon i can feel it. Thanks again (:
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (30 May 2012):
 Today is a good day to start reconnecting with friends. Start up the Facebook page and set your privacy settings high, so he cannot harass you. Make a phone call or two, send an email or two, text a friend.
You are no longer a prisoner of this guy's controlling and abusive behavior.
I think getting support after a rough break up is a GREAT idea. When I had to do it, I lined up some of my friends to support me as much as I needed! People are very generous and giving if you ask for help. Go ask for support.
I'll bet there a lot of friends who will be so happy to hear from you!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (30 May 2012):
 I think you should start straight away. You should never allow a guy to control you like that, and you should never get back with him or else you will always be lonely and miserable. It is now time for a new start. So activate your facebook and social networking sights straight away and get back in touch with friends. Explain to them how controlling your boyfriend was and try to make it up to them, hopefully they will be willing to remain friends with you after you explain. Its time for a new start good luck.
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reader, ImmortalPrincess +, writes (30 May 2012):
 Now is a very good time, start living your life IMMEDIATELY! Sounds to me like you are very lucky to be rid of him, men who are that controlling, don't usually like to let go. Go out, have fun, be with your friends, do all the things a girl your age should be doing......and date, there are plenty of men out there, who will treat you right, and you deserve one of them. Don't ever let this loser back into your life.Be happy and live! :=)
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