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Archived questions from: December, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

I need help, should I keep talking to him, or should I back off?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - heya, i need your help. There is this boys.. and he moved to my school and into my form a couple of months ago. Me and my best friend welcomed him with open arms and we were really nice to him. He then began to make friends and thats when the trut...

He is sweet but lacks the initiative, does he really care?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - Which one says the truth about my ex who I recently reconciled with? When I am with him, he doesn't want me to do anything but sit or lie beside him. He stares at me all the time and like to cuddle the whole day. When I am not beside him, he g...

Its complicated...please some objective input?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - Hi there I've searched for and read so many of the emails from guys in the similar situation to me. I can never find one "relationship situation" that is exact to my particular situation, but at the end of the day, the expected answers I will g...

I'm not cheating so why doesn't he believe that?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - my boyfriend always accuses me of cheating. i have have done everything i think i can to show him i would never ever do that. i have tried begging for him to beleive me, told him all my secrets to get trust, been 100% honest about my past, alot of ...

What do I do in the meantime while my boyfriend is in jail?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

30 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend is going to jail. I'm very confused about what to do. Here is the thing: we had dated previously and had had a very rocky relationship which ultimately ended badly. It had been a relationship full of lies and cheating and both ...

Is it normal for him to view porn?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

30 December 2009 (M) - my boyfriend looks at porn and he dose not know i know he dose but it realy bothers me bc it makes me feel like he dont want me anymore. is this normal for him to look at it or am i just over reacting about it...

Should I let the ex see his baby, even though he says it's not his?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - ok so im new here and just want to know wat u people think i should do? ok here goes... i have a three yr old child and im currently pregnant again my babys dad and i arnt together he left me wen i was pregnant. hes a dumb @ss. n e wayz about a yr ...

I'm staying for my son basically but I Want to know how to remove myself from this guy?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have only dated my bf for a little over a year. He had previously dated the girl before me for 4 years. 4 months after we started dating we found out I was pregnant and 3 months into pregnancy I started having nightmares about his ex, ...

I like him but am afraid to be his girlfriend...he says he'll wait til I'm ready but he didnt....what do I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - me and this guy have liked eachother for almost 7 months but havnt kissed yet but sometimes he holds me and when he walks me home we hold hands, but we havnt kissed because im afraid to cause im almost 15 and he just turned 15 this october but i ...

Is this a lost cause? I feel threatened by his best friend, she will soon come here and I'll study in another city.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - Sorry about this being so long. I honestly didn't realize I went on this long rant until I was finished. Anyways, I hope you have the patience... My boyfriend and I have been together for about a year now (January 1, 2010 will be our one-year). A...

Girl texts my boyfriend at odd hours late at night. Is she more than a colleague or a friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5296 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - I have been dating my boyfriend for approx. 8 months now. We belong to different cultures. He is an introvert and likes his space. He does not share a lot about his friends. I assume that is because he wants to give them their privacy. Quite ...

I cheated on him and now he won't respond to my texts!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - I like my ex boyfriend and I’m unsure whether he likes me or not. We have a bit of a history so I don’t know whether to say anything to him or not. We’ve been out 3 times and I know that sounds really bad. The first time we went out things just did...

Boyfriend doesn't trust me and I'm sick of it!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - I just saw the search history on my boyfriends computer. We've been together for almost two years, and I have never once been unfaithful or lied. I reassure him constantly that he is the one I want to be with. He tells me that he trusts me and...

I'm so worried my boyfriend is cheating on me.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5336 days ago

29 December 2009 (F) - I'm so worried my boyfriend is cheating on me. At the same time I'm reluctant to fit the whole paranoid-woman stereotype, but I can't help it. For starters, he cheated on his girlfriend before me. Multiple times, with multiple girls. While I ...

I am obsessed with my wife's ex-relationship... how do I let it go?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - I have been married for 19 years and my wife has been honest, loving and faithful. But, one of her (2) past relationships still haunts me. We were in college and she broke up with me to go out with him, then we got back together. Then she broke ...

How do I accept my bf looking at naked pictures?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5433 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Hi there, need some help! I have low self esteem and I have just found out my boyfriend has been looking at half naked girls on the internet through his phone. I am totally annoyed at this n feel abit angry. Is this wrong? I don't want to say anyt...

Why am I so untrustworthy?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - trust is a huge issue in this situation. I feel like people don't seem to trust me. Like my friends and family. At school every time i have really good friends, trust becomes a big problem. No one seems to belive me! and i'm sick of it. I'll prat...

How can I make my g/f trust me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - How do i make my girlfriend trust me that i dont smoke anymore? I have lost her trust because my best friend's girlfriend lied to her that i still smoke and now i have lost her trust due to that....

I don't want to feel jealousy and have trust issues about my g/f!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - Im lesbian and have been with my girlfriend for nearly two years, prior to that we were best friends for four years and i can honestly say i've never been so happy. She's perfect, but im just so jelous and paranoid and i dont know why. I find myself ...

Are the things he says to me normal? Do other women accept this?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years. Aside from all of the false accusations of infidelity (that seem to be habitual for him...and kill me inside), he uses depression and unemployment as excuses for his harsh words about me, my ...

I'm feeling very guilty about my boyfriend and work and feel so alone, please advise.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - hello all, ive let my problems pile up over the years and now ive got to sort them, i want to completely change my life because everything in it is wrong ive been in an on off relationship with my daughters dad for 12 yrs and im tired now he was ...

Should I wait for her to commit?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - ok. there is this girl whom i fell in love with. We've been together these past months. Still she wont make a commitment. She told me that she was scared of being hurt. I told her that i wouldnt hurt her cuz i reaaly love her. She's still 16 years ...

I can't find a girlfriend, the issue is bringing me down, any help?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - I am good looking guy 27 yo , i have been told many times from different people that i am very good looking and i have friendly and down to earth personality , but the point is that no one interested on me anymore ,, i don't know why i feel ...

Young male, pretty overweight - how should I dress to hide this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - I'm a young male, but I'm pretty overweight. Not morbidly obese, but pudgy. How should I dress/appear so that I am more attractive to women?...

My boyfriend is emotionally cheating on me...

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28 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I will have been together 2 months now apart from the 6 month break we took from eachother. we were together for 6 months before that and broke up because i cheated. I was devistated and felt horrible and he told me he couldnt see ...

I never had any problems making friends at college. What's wrong now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5476 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - INTRO: I live with my parents because of chronic unemployment. They spent Christmas Eve and Christmas at a distanced city with our extended family and I refused to go as usual. I'm the only Christian in the family, and I'm in my thirties and still ...

I don't feel anything when I kiss or hug her

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - im confused about something ...this girl is very close to me and i have broken off with her twice because of my confusion telling her that i need some time and im kind of committment phobic(which is true perhaps because im confused)....still she has ...

Could a four or five-way relationship even work?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - Im in a really difficult situation at the moment. There is currently 3 women in my life. At this point you might be thinking right what a ba***rd an ye maybe i am. I have been engaged for 3 and a half years to a very money driven career woman. Sh...

Why is my girlfriend giving the impression she is available to other guys?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

28 December 2009 (M) - heyy just found out my girlfriend, who has previously cheated, has told two different guys that shes hung out with (one of them was the guy that she cheated with and second a new guy shes been hanging with alot) that she is single and me and her ...

How do I confront him without it turning into a major fight?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I have been going out with my current bf for just a little over 2 years. He has just gone back for two weeks during the holidays to visit family and he assures me that he is not going to meet any female. We have had problems in the past about ...

Does he deserve a second chance?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - The other day I ran into the guy I was seeing over the summer. He ended it with me because he still had feelings for his ex. Well he went back to his ex and ended it agaaain with her. He has been chasing me ever since Aug. He said it was a big ...

Could I love him too much? I'm terrified he will leave me...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - 7 weeks ago I got back together with my ex boyfriend whom I am very much in love with..He has said he loves me but only whilst he is drunk never whilst sober. I really do love him but I dont want to be the first to say it. He has not mentioned the ...

Finding it hard to forgive and forget my partner's cheating..advice?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5477 days ago

28 December 2009 (F) - I found out one month ago that my partner of 2 years has been cheating on me, by talking to girls online, on cam, swapping rude pics, flirting etc. I couldnt believe it... but I forgave him, for a few reasons. The first is that i love him. Secondly, ...

Should I euthanize my daughter's rabbit to save on vet bills? And not tell her? Help!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

27 December 2009 (M) - Thinking of killing my daughters pet rabbit! The rabbit is ill, it has a tumor (possibly or an abscess behind the eyes) which is visible about the size of one eye and oozes puss. It requires twice daily eye drops and medication which I administ...

Could she just be playing games?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5476 days ago

27 December 2009 (M) - I really need help I am going mad with all this!! I have been seeing this girl on and off for 3 years now when we both started seeing each other we were involved at first it was just whenever we were out together like one a month or so, after abo...

Her brother is trying to break up our marriage...what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

27 December 2009 (?) - hello....okay Well i taken leave and went home. im in the military. I went to this party and we was all drinking. i seen this girl named J. who was sitting at the table. i didnt really think much about her but i know her from a really close fre...

Am I worthless??

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - Evening everyone.I just feel so worthless at the moment....You know how everyone has something they are good at? Well im rubbish at everything. I failed my driving test, i didnt get a work promotion despite working late and training up several ...

This jealousy is killing me!! Please help. Any advice!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

27 December 2009 (M) - I have a real big jealousy problem about my ex. She split up with me about 4 months ago as she said she no longer wanted to be with me. It hurt me a lot and im still not totally over her. I've read all the advise and done the things to get ov...

How can I convince my bf I am not cheating!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - what do u do to let your boyfriend trust you and believe you are not cheating on him....

How can I make my breasts bigger, apart from surgery?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5478 days ago

27 December 2009 (F) - I have an extremly small breast and it makes me feel so shy when i see ma friends with big ones. Im 21, if there is any means of making it bigger apart from going for surgery. I'll really appreciate ur help....

Why are we too jealous of each other?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - Me and boyfriend are too jealous over each other. Neither one of us have cheated or done anything. we have been together for 2 years. Is there a reason why? and what can we do to change this?...

I'm pregnant and can't decide whether to be with the father, be with the ex, or go it alone?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5443 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - I am 30 years old. My live in boyfriend of 2 years cheated on me, and moved out and into his new girlfriends place in May 2009. A very good male friend of mine, split from his wife, and I let him stay with me until he could get on his feet. He ...

She is willing to give me one more chance but I'm afraid it won't work!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

26 December 2009 (M) - Hey, i really need help. I am very lost. My girlfriend wanted a break because we had a big fight. basically i bottled up anger about something that was bothering me about her and vented all out on her, threatening to break up. She broke down and c...

Suffering from retroactive jealousy! Any tips?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

26 December 2009 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been going out for about 6 months now. We have known each other through work for 3 years prior to getting together. We have an awesome relationship but there is something that still haunts me after 6 months, and that is the ...

Should I tell my boyfriend I lied about my past?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5474 days ago

26 December 2009 (F) - I have lied to my boyfriend about my sexual past. I did so early in our relationship out of fear of rejection and judgment, but ever since I have felt absolutely terrible. I told him I had only slept with 2 people, but the truth is that I have slept ...

Can this affair work? I am planning on divorcing my husband.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5479 days ago

25 December 2009 (F) - I have asked my husband of 18 years for a divorce about 7 months ago. We have 2 kids, over the age of 10. I have had several affairs because for years I haven't been attracted to my husband, and married him dishonestly-because he seemed like a good ...

How can I stop being clingy and possessive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5480 days ago

25 December 2009 (M) - i have been with this girl since 2 years...she has always been very excited and caring to me since the beginning....we dated for 6 months and broke off and again dated and broke off for some reason ...even though we are(perhaps were) the bestest ...

I don't feel the same so should I break up with her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

25 December 2009 (M) - I'm with a girl now who meens a lot to me. She is my first and only girlfriend. We dated in highschool, she cheated on me and I forgave her, but the then she broke up with me when we went off to college. I eventually quit talking to her though I ...

He hunts for girls that are tight like virgins. How do I make myself like this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

25 December 2009 (F) - I am in relationship with a divorce man whose got kids as well. He lives in a city and I work for a project in another province, comes home only twice a month. I have a long term relationship with him as well as in business. My favourite past t...

Trust issues with the boyfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5481 days ago

24 December 2009 (F) - hey there i need alot of edvice on this one...i have trust issues with my bf and i really think that our relationship is getting rocky but i dont want to loose him, we both think we have a some what un healthy relationship becuse of trust isuues, ...