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Archived questions from: 2 December, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

How to make her trust me more?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5472 days ago

2 December 2009 (M) - hello, well i just need ur advice on how to get the trust of the girl i like which i do and its not a lie !!, ok i know her for a while now, we are almost together, i like her and she likes me back and everything is going well between...

He wants the benifits of marriage without the piece of paper

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - Dear Agony Aunts, I'm a woman of 35 and have been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 years. I have never lived with anyone but he has been married before (amicable breakup though, a long time ago). He wants us to sell our properties and live togethe...

My Latin Lover has become a Latin Monster

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - I am a Canadian woman, late-20’s, and dated an Italian man for just over three years. At first it was magnificent, the hand holding, gentle face touches, dancing in the dark, romantic romantic romantic. We moved in together and it was downhill from ...

My boyfriend watches porn and masturbates, why am I not enough for him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - Since my last writing, I was a bad girl and figured out how to hack onto my boyfriends computer. Looking at the history on his computer it said he was looking at gay porn,BIG women porn, and old woman porn. He said that that is just what comes up ...

I snooped on my boyfriend, should I confess?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5472 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - I did a really silly thing and snooped on my bf, and found out his ex is pregnant. We have been seeing each other for 6 weeks, however the relationships been pretty intense and we've already discussed long term commitment. In fact I can truly sa...

He saw a photo taken before we met and flipped!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - im one of those troubled by a recent broken relationship after about 1.5 yrs and i dont know what to do. it was VERY suprising and sudden for both of us, he saw a pic of me before we met with some guys and he flipped and left. he wanted to be ...

My b/f sends me poetry, but he doesn't write it himself!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - Every so often, in an e-mail my bf will send me a poem. Call me a skeptic or whatever, but I usually google the first few lines to see if this was original or if he copied it from somewhere else. Most of the time, they're copied from somewhere e...

I want to date her but am worried about what will happen if I then dump her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

2 December 2009 (M) - I've been talking to a girl recently after a terrible long-term relationship of mine ended. This new girl is kind, loving, quiet, and has a heart of gold, but she also has flaws. She was raped as a child by her own mother and her mother's countless ...

I am in love with a player who doesn't give a damn

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2 December 2009 (F) - I have been with my guy for five years. He refuses to agree to have a monogamous relationship but says that I am the only one. I have knowledge that he has cheated several time. He wont say that he loves me but wont say that he dosent. Our lives are ...

I am 14 and worried my love for my fiance is fading fast

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - I've been with my fiance who lives 750 miles away for 1 year and almost 2 months (who was also my first boyfriend), and I feel like my love for him is gone. I an't explain why I feel like this, I just startd to feel like this after I came back from ...

I am marrying one man, while pining for another

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - I'm not sure I know how to go about explaining myself and I'm sorry for making this too lengthy but it is a long story. Here it goes: Before you start there are a few things you need to know about me:1) I am from a culture where family is everyt...

We met online, we met in person, now I hear nothing from him, why?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3720 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - I've been out of the dating scene for a while, anyway, i met a guy online, and we went out on saturday and chatted in a bar for 3.5 hours, i knew he was interested because he kept reaching over the table to hold my hand, or touch me, he would stare ...

I was Drunk and Dancing and am now on facebook

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2 December 2009 (F) - when u go to a party and people take picturez of u dancing when u were really drunk! and posted them on myspace and a guy u like saw them he parties too but always knew u as a good girl does girls that like to drink and party develop like a bad ...

I am new to the sex scene and worried I am not good at it!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5472 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - i'd likfe to know what i'm doing wrong , when i give my boyfriend oral he would star hard and after like a minute he would start getting .. flacid ,he wont be orgasming or finishing just flacid . i am new at it so i know i'm not good but can i be ...

How do I know what is more important

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - Which do you think is more important? Marrying your best friend, or someone who is great in bed?...

I want to go back to the way things were before we split

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2 December 2009 (F) - Me and my ex boyfriend have been together for 5 years. we broke up about a month 1/2 ago. we love each other very much. we were living together. we had a good relationship, but also had fights. we even bought a car together last years and still have ...

We were doing great, until I said I liked him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - We never met, we talked for hours, he was clearly intersted until i told him i liked him, and now he doesnt wanna talk to me, he told me he got freaked out and scared, that hes not ready for that (that hes not as mature as me) and that hes not as ...

I think I am his stop-gap girl

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - Recently I was dating a guy for two months. Instantly we connected. He immediately asked me for another date after our first date. He called me everyday, texted me everyday, and we saw each other maybe 2-3 times a week. We became intimate a little ...

He looks at other girls and I'm not sure he's fully committed like I am!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We both know we love each other everyday, and I know he means it. However, I tell him things like "I only want to be with you and nobody else. I want to spend the rest of my life with you because ...

He broke up a week before moving to my city

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2 December 2009 (F) - Hello everyone. I have been with a guy for about 15 months now, however most of this ( over a year) has been long distance, as he moves about for work each year. He is due to move to the same city as me in 3 days time! I thought everything was f...

I don't believe pretty women with breasts make good wives!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

2 December 2009 (M) - Dear Agony Aunts, There's a song that goes "If you want to be happy for the rest of your life, never make a pretty woman your wife.." Homely women aren't as sought after and they're not as likely to cheat on a husband or boyfriend. It so...

He is blowing hot and cold and I am left confused

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

2 December 2009 (F) - I was dating this guy for a year and everything in our relationship was great. We were loving and romantic to eachother and the physical part was good too. Then during the last month of our relationship he was acting weird like not saying i love you ...

He wants me to sleep over but we have never dated!

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2 December 2009 (F) - A friend recently introduced me to a man (57 yrs. old). He invited me for dinner at his house along with my friend. He is a gentleman. The problem or what I see as a problem is that he keeps asking me over to cook dinner for me and then wants me to ...

I think he is setting me up for a night of sex

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