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writes:my boyfriend looks at porn and he dose not know i know he dose but it realy bothers me bc it makes me feel like he dont want me anymore. is this normal for him to look at it or am i just over reacting about it
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 December 2009): Starmonster888 is entirely right, there are so few guys left who have even an ounce of respect for women. Maybe one in a hundred , if your lucky.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): It seems to be the norm for a lot of men and women to watch porn now, so hes just one of many that do it. Its ok not to like it though and if you dont, you should tell him and explain why. The reason you dont like it may be because you see him looking at other women that make him sexually aroused and hes `sorts` himself out while watching them. And in your mind that might feel like one step away from cheating. Thats a common feeling amongst those who dislike their partners watching porn. If that is how you see it, then obviously you arent going to be very comfortable with it all. Try and explain to him how it makes you feel. If hes at all sensitive he will understand and consider your feelings. Possibly he might then keep pornography to a minimum and pay you a little more sexual attention instead.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): If he has even an ounce of respect for you, he won't use porn.
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reader, meg2989 +, writes (30 December 2009):
 If you don't like it you really should tell him how you feel. Its not really a question of wheather or not its normal, its matter of making you feel inadaquate so ask him to stop. If he loves you and realizes that it hurts you, he'll stop. I hope that helps.
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