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Archived questions from: 18 December, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

We broke up 3 months ago and he still isn't ready to be friends

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5438 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - i broke up with my boyfriend 3 months ago--- why isnt he ready to be friends..? im reallly in love with him still. and im over the whole boyfriend-girlfriend thing but i really wana be friends with him and he wont let me in.. he says it hurts too ...

A conversation with a friend gives me more questions than answers!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - Hello, One of by best mates is a girl, we are very close. We finished school early today as it is the last day of term and we decided to go on a walk together. it was snowing so we had alot of fun. after a while of talking we randomly started ...

My GF hangs out late drinking with her many guy friends...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - Hi, I'm not sure if this is me being insecure or overly protective. My girlfriend and I have been going out for 2 years. Recently in the past 2 months, she has been hanging with guy friend(s), I say this because she is not clear who she hangs ou...

Does my girlfriend's family suddenly not trust me anymore?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5456 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - Hi i'm 17 and have just come back early from my first visit to my girlfriends house. This was an interesting experience. I've been going out with my girlfriend for 3 months now and she's been round my house a lot and we've been out on a Friday ...

I feel hurt, trashed and betrayed, I need to move on!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Hello. I am 34 years old. I have been in a relationship for about 11 years with a 46 years old man. Last May I found out that he was taking to this 28 years old girl, married. I spoke with him and he said he stopped. Last month I found out that not ...

My friend lied to me now I don't want to trust her again

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - So I trusted my friend but she lied to me. I feel stupid because I can not believe I couldn't see through her. I believed everything she told me - yes everything. Now I feel upset, hurt and very angry. The lie was small but still hurtful. She kept ...

She's telling me one thing while wanting something different!

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18 December 2009 (M) - ok here goes 32 yr old male here and need some advice..been with this girl for about 9 mo. now and we have had our ups and downs..i live about an hour away and have alot more responsibilities in life than her..i'm looking to settle down and find ...

ITs going too slow for me and I am worried his ex wife is on the hunt!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I posted before but was asked for more context/ info, so I'm re-posting with more detail. I split up with my long term partner a few months ago - we broke up after a big argument which was involved some big misunderstanding then we both sai...

Did the last 12 months mean nothing to him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - any suggestions or comments would be grateful please so i can find closure... i met someone 3 months ago, all has been great, i do have children and the person i was dating they hadnt of met my children yet we have just been enjoying the dating and ...

Dramas with thieving ex boyfriend and his parents threaten me!

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18 December 2009 (F) - can anyone help my fella has stolen all my jewellery, he has admitted to it to me, but lied about where it is, i have been to the place with police. we are not in contact anymore, i have a phone number i beleive is the man he sold it too in the pub, ...

My husband wants to watch me with another man

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I have been married to my husband for 13 years and during this time he has hinted off and on that it would be a turn on for him to see me have sex with another man. I remember at first feeling repulsed by even the thought of being with someone else ...

I just dumped my married b/f he says I am being childish!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Good day all and may u all have a blessed xmas and prosperous new year :-) . Well i'm in need of TLC i just dumped my married boyfriend of 3 half years via sms .. thing is i went on his facebook and saw pics of his wedding day and of him and soon...

Drawn to him even though I know he is only there for the cheap thrills

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5454 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I can't understand why I am being so stupid and why I keep doing this to myself. I am a shy 26 year old who has never been with a guy sexually, everyone who knows me thinks I am sheltered and basically thinks it's funny, which is fine. I am tryi...

My guy wants to keep our relationship a secret!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5456 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - How do i make my guy be more romantic?he never even hugs me when we are in public..i mean he never asks me out anywhere..nor does he wanna tell his friends about us! how can i make this happen without directly forcing him to tell his friends!i feel ...

I just want to know what do I do to stop being so attached to him!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - well, i have been in a relationship for 1 and a half year. day after day seems like he doesn't want me anymore. i have to force myself on him. i beg for attention. this morning i knew he starts work early so i rung him so many times but his phone ...

How do I ever trust him again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Ive, been in a relationship for 18 years, we have three children. My partner has always flirted with other women even in front of me which has been hurtful but when he kissed a girl in front of me four years ago I told him to leave, he swore it ...

Hes broke and I think hes hiding things from me.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5456 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend mentioned a welcome home party fro his friend this Saturday, and I told him I worked. I then suggested he pick me up from work, and we can go together. He replied with: "Maybe,I'm running low on cash though." He buys things all the damn ...

I know about his affair, but I want to win him back. Should I tell him I know?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5431 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I've been with my fiancee for 6 years. He is the only man I have ever been intimate with. He has been with several other girls before me... and now he is seeing someone else. He has been cheating on me for the past 2 months (or so? I don't know for...

I put my life on hold but now I want to get it back

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5457 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I have a huge problem and I would appreciate some much needed helpful advice and an insight into what the heck is going on. I'm 21 years old I had a very troubling past but got my life on track. My partner and I got together two years ago. Just ...

Dumped before the baby was born, I found a new guy but now the ex wants back in!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I was seeing this guy awhile back, we both weren't ready for a relationship and very immature. After that broke off I found a new guy and ended up falling in love with him. We ended up having a baby on December 4th [ yes just 2 weeks ago ]. But that ...

I find it difficult to move on!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5457 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - A couple of months ago my girlfriend broke up with me. It didn't last long, but it was the first relationship I've had that was in any way conventional or actually desired. And once we both seperated to go to university she ignored me for two ...

Three years on I haven't met his kids, aged 11 to 17, because he doesn't want to unsettle them

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5455 days ago

18 December 2009 (F) - I have been in a relationship for three years,my boyfriend has four children and was seperated from his wife for 18 months before we got together,they were divorced two years ago. I can truly say that he is the love of my life and is everythi...

She did me wrong and I broke it off, but why isnt she begging for me to come back?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

18 December 2009 (M) - So, my ex has done me wrong--undeniably. I broke it off. She cried and still wanted to be friends. I said no. She got angry. It's been 4 days. Why hasn't she called me back begging? I don't really (only kind of) want to talk to her, but it sure...