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Archived questions from: 10 December, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

He's a senior, I'm a freshman, and he blows hot and cold

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - Today, I was walking with my friend to go outside because of a fire alarm, and I saw him and he clearly saw me. I waved at him and he ignored me and said hi to my friend. Then afterwards when we were walking inside, I tried waving again but he ignor...

I feel worthless, upset and unloved because he doesn't like me

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - My guy friend and I talk to each other a lot. He used to wink at me, joke around and flirt with me a lot. I really thought he actually liked me. Sadly enough, I like him a lot. On the contrary, he's always distant with me when he's around his ...

How can I accept that I can never be hot for my b/f?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5462 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - I'm not a hot and sexy female. I know this because ever since I hit puberty, I've lacked the attention my friends got. Then I got a boyfriend, and I felt secure... until time passed, we started getting more comfortable with each other and I started ...

I feel so insecure after his female friend came to him for advice!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - well, I have been in a relationship for more than a year now. I love my bf so much. I can't imagine living without him a sec. One his friend is getting divorce( a woman). She came to talk to him. he was giving her advice, and i was here too. before ...

I want to trust him, but I also don't want to look like a fool

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend told me he had a past of cheating not long after we got together. We've been together for over two years now. Throughout his twenties, he always had at least three girls at a time. There have been deaths, etc in his family that have had ...

I'm afraid to pursue a girl who likes me because of what my friend says

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5465 days ago

10 December 2009 (M) - So I'm talking to this girl who likes me, and I really like her. Its been almost a week, and things are going great but my best friend is getting in the way sorta now. He just found out today that we are talking and the first thing he said was "don...

My boyfriend broke up with me saying he didn't love me. Now we're back together but I'm afraid he'll leave again.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5464 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - ok....... i have been with my boyfriend for almost a year now and at the beggining everything was great, we had split up once or twice in this period but only once was major!! he claimed he did not love me..... but after a couple weeks he realis...

I found pictures of nude women on my b/f's computer!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5453 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - I found a bunch of pictures of naked women on my boyfriend's cd and a small sex video. Is there something I should be worried about? I feel that he has a problem? Or also feeling that he's not getting enough sex in our relationship which leads me to ...

I like a girl I don't know, and I don't know if she is gay or straight either!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - Hey all...I have a rather immature question, I think. So this year at college, I noticed this other girl in a couple of my classes, and from what I can tell, she is my definition of awesome. I've only talked to her a few times but she's been nice to ...

I get all uptight around women and I want to unbend a little

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5465 days ago

10 December 2009 (M) - Guys and gals, I have a problem. For a long, long time I've convinced myself that I'm just incompatible with women. That I'm not handsome enough, fit enough, funny enough etc to draw the attention of any females. I've also told myself that women ...

I don't want history to repeat itself!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - I'm about to break up with my long distance boyfriend when I come home for Christmas break. I can't stop crying. It's light crying, not excessive but it still hurts so much. I love him but things between us have only been getting worse, although he ...

He is the sweetest guy but after a month I don't want to date him any more!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5464 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - I have the sweetest guy ever. He's the one every girl wants but the thing is I don't want him and I don't know what to do because he's so in love with me. We've known each other for a year but just started dating a month ago and now Im just tired of ...

He wants to break up with me over my labia hanging looser!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5460 days ago

10 December 2009 (F) - I'm in dire need of explaining to my boyfriend that I am not cheating on him. He says that when we have sex that sometimes my labia hangs and is more loose than other times. Is that normal? I don't know why it is that way sometimes, and I am so ...