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age
26-29,
anonymous
writes: heya, i need your help.There is this boys.. and he moved to my school and into my form a couple of months ago. Me and my best friend welcomed him with open arms and we were really nice to him. He then began to make friends and thats when the truth came out. He was a 'Chav' and he smokes drugs. Also he says that he has lost his virginity. But we put all that aside and we still laughed at his jokes and spoke to him. I have began talking to him a lot now and am really good friends with him.. I really get on well with him. But even though we talk on the phone at night and i can be myself around him.. I cant stop thinking about his chavviness and he isnt the best looking :S He said he is stopping smoking and hasn't had one for ages. I think Im really falling for him.. is this a good idea? please help.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): Sounds like trouble to me. Being a girl at your age, you will enter into his world and change to fit him. Do you or your parents want you to be exposed to drugs?
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): whats a 'chav' and 'chaviness'?
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (30 December 2009):
Not at all. You're friends with a bad boy, and he offers excitement and fun. But he is what he is. A bad boy who has taken drugs, supposedly lost his virginity, and doesn't sound like a great guy to be honest. My advice would be to enjoy your crush on him, but leave him well alone.
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