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anonymous
writes:I like my ex boyfriend and I’m unsure whether he likes me or not.We have a bit of a history so I don’t know whether to say anything to him or not. We’ve been out 3 times and I know that sounds really bad. The first time we went out things just didn’t work, the second time I did cheat on him but he forgave me and things were lovely for a couple of months then he broke up with me for no apparent reason. The 3rd time, I told him I missed him and that I still liked him so he said we should give it another go. The next day he broke up with me saying that we shouldn’t go out again. That was 6 months ago.I was texting my friend about this the other day, asking her what she thinks I should do and I sent a text I was meant to send to her to my ex. The text just said that I missed him and things. I apologised to him for sending it and he didn’t reply for 3 days. And his reply just basically said “If I meant so much to you, why did you cheat on me. Twice.” This shocked me. I had cheated on him once, and people had told him it was twice. I corrected him and told him how much I regretted doing what I did.He’s been ignoring all my texts since then and I don’t know what to do. :/I still really like him. And I don't know if he likes me.Any advice on what to do?Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI made out with another guy.
But he was texting me last night, like we used to, about little things and private jokes.
Should I tell him I like him?
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2009): I just wanted to agree with the others here.
If you loved him, wanted to be with him...
Cheating wouldn't of even crossed your mind.
You would of never even been in the situation to act on it.
And you never would of done it.
Your best bet...
Quit stringing yourself along and lying to yourself about how you "feel", and him before you damage yourself or him for life.
I think you are more than likely just a type who doesn't "like" to be alone. It's not about care. Or love.
It's about the "someone being there".
And thats not fair to anyone. You should take your time to find someone who suits you completely,
that you can't see life without,
and allow this fellow, to do the same.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 December 2009): What exactly do you mean you cheated? If you were just making out with someone else, then he should probably forgive you. But if you actually had sex with someone else while you were with him, then yeah, I would probably have said goodbye to you as well. All the trust is just gone...
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 December 2009):
Let him go. This is not the guy for you. It's gone wrong three times, and that's a sign if there was ever one. When you did cheat, why did you cheat? If you truly loved him, you wouldn't have cheated. I'm afraid it's not over and he's making it clear it's over. You have to move on.
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