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Archived questions from: 16 December, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

I am having second thoughts about my up coming wedding

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - I've been in a relationship with my fiance' for 5 years now. We have a 3 year old son together who has major health problems, he has already undergone 5 open heart surgeries. My fiance' and I are getting married in March 2010 but I'm really having ...

I fight to get my anger out now he has walked away!

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - Okay, so i just had a huge fight with my boyfriend, we are very very serious, we've already discussed marriage.The problem with me is that i fight to get my anger out. We have been fighting for over a week now, everyday. It is always my fault and i ...

My unemployed b/f has anger issues, and I want to confront him about them

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5452 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend doesn't work and has a bad temper; how do I confront him about this without him breaking up with me?...

He worries I wont 'get over him' so we cant even be friends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - long story short, long distance thing, never met, but knew eachother from a friend, talked for 4-5 months (not every day) but wen we did talk it would be for 6 hours straight (like once a wk) and maybe a few minutes everyday) Got along real well, ...

How can I feel like a martyr because my married lover makes me feel misled and used

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5447 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I am very confused and I need your advices. I am with an online relationship for 3 yrs, and I met a senior married man of 65 and I am 34 separated woman. I know it is wrong to involve myself to a married man but I just couldnt r...

I need some feedback about a questionable friendship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - Re submitt question on my internet friend, I found this person on a looking for friends site , that was all i wanted just someone to e mail.I retired six months ago so i was bored i just needed someone to talk to. Nothing sexual i just wanted t...

He kept ignoring me so I broke it off with him. How can I get over him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5457 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - This is abit long please read til the end It all started out with him forgetting to call me at times and his excuse for this was "i fell asleep", and we went from speaking 3 to 4 hours a night to just 2 and i didn't see him on msn much. He had...

We are happy, our mothers are happy but what will the wife say when she finds out?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - Had a wonderful friend in high school, I knew he was in love with me but I just wanted to be friends, 4 years after graduation he comes back into my life,by then I am a young single mother to a 1 year old son and he said he would be honored if I ...

My b/f's party animal mate is back in town

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5459 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I started dating awhile ago,and before we did, he was a party animal. His best friend and him would go party almost every night, and this was when we were in the first stages of our relationship, so it wasn't a big deal to me. His ...

The most amazing man is my boyfriend but I worry that I might lose him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5459 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - Hi, This might be a bit silly, but I need some advice. My boyfriend and I have been together for a year and a half, and everything is AMAZING... He's sweet, kind, caring and everything is great. We broke up once unexpectedly, because he wa...

I've been dumped, but am unsure if I should leave the door open for him

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - I just got dumped by my boyfriend of 9 months. He said he didn't feel the same way about me that he did when he first got together with me, and he thinks the relationship is pretty much doomed. He told me he wants to think about things and call me ...

I said "no way! no more! so he blocked me on myspace, why?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5459 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - We've Ben together for 9 months, kinda off and on. We got back together Sunday night and I thought everythin was fine now. We talked about life and kids ad marriage and then bam! Last night I find iut he's cheating on me.. For 3 weeks with this girl ...

I cant fit the mould my parents have waiting for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - (This is long, sorry.) I feel like such a misfit in my family. I'm 16 and the middle child (I have an older brother, whose 17 and younger brother, whose 10). First of all, my parents favor my brothers. Honestly, I've felt for a long time that m...

I am hooked into cheating with a man just married

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - I had an affair and now im lost. I am married n he wasnt, he was engaged but never told me when he was getting married. He even called me the morning of his weddin to tell me he loved me. He is a newlywed cheating on his wife and I dont know about ...

I called it quits but now want him back!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - I was with my exboyfriend for 2 years. We lived together and were seriously talking about marriage. I made a huge mistake and moved out. I was really stressed out and thought he was the cause. Now that I have moved out, I am miserable and want him ...

After 12 years of friendship I have been dumped because God told him I wasnt the right woman

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5456 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - Today wasn't really a good day my boyfriend and I broke up a couple days ago and this is really hurting becaus him and I have been friend for almost 12 years so Ialready loved him well u see he's started getting into church but in the process he ...

He has me confused, is he messing with me?

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16 December 2009 (F) - I need some advise. I dated a guy for about two months. When I met him things moved at his pace. I met his fam right away and he made me his girlfriend. I thought nuthing of it, but i knew things had moved to fast since I had been in a long term ...

I gave some gifts to my professor, but apart from sying thankyou I havent heard further from him

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5450 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - I gave a gift to my ex- professor, actually there were 3 gifts, a box of brownies, a box of caramel sticks and a gift wrapped, which contained a Parker pen and a note written ''remembering you this season... thanks for being nice'' my name, and my ...

Long distance and separated but both still in love. Maybe.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5457 days ago

16 December 2009 (M) - Long distance "relationship" I dated my girlfriend for a year and things were perfect. The entire relationship, we always had this tension hanging over our head. I'm 23 years old and told her right off the bat that in a year, I'd be moving to LA ...

Who should I believe, my dream guy or everyone else?

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16 December 2009 (F) - I met this guy a couple weeks ago and just the first time I layed my eyes on him it just felt right and like I knew I wanted to be with him more than anything.. He's smart, sweet, incredibly sexy, ect(pretty much everything I want in a guy).. ...

Am I correct in thinking he used his son as an excuse to cancel our wedding?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5458 days ago

16 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend asked me to marry him a few weeks after his son left for Afghanistan for 1 year. Two days before our wedding he told me we had to wait for another year. He could not get married without his son being present. I was in total shock ...