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anonymous
writes:me and this guy have liked eachother for almost 7 months but havnt kissed yet but sometimes he holds me and when he walks me home we hold hands, but we havnt kissed because im afraid to cause im almost 15 and he just turned 15 this october but i have always been scared of commitment, but i think i do love him and he says he loves me and he means it, i can tell because why would he wait this long for me and he knows im not ready and he said he can wait. what should i do? im afraid to kiss and i dont know why, and im afraid to say were in a relationship and i dont know why either even though were already sorta in one, cause we have the "traits" i guess of boyfriend and girlfriend because last week he was really drunk and on e and did stuff with his ex, but he was really sorry and stuff and like idk, what should i do.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questioni posted this and i just wanna say, hes only a couple months older then me, its no big deal. and still so what if he drinks does drugs and is sexualy active, im not sexual active but i drink and do e too so its no big deal. and you dont know half the stuff he does for me, he did it one time, and hes been waiting for me to be ready for 6 months and he tells me he can wait till i am so im sure if he didnt love me and wanna be with me he would have left along time ago
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reader, Pip24d  +, writes (30 December 2009):
Look if i have learned anything its that you can always find another guy, your heart might be broken for a while but it will heal.
Now on to my point, this guy is not good for you, he is 15 and drinking and sexually active. He probably doesn't even know himself yet and what he wants from life.
You need a guy that respects himself and you.
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reader, Stranger. +, writes (29 December 2009):
 hm, if a guy will wait that long for you he must love you.
no other guy would wait that long for a girl.
as for the drunk thing.
from, what i understood he did something with his ex?
if thats true then maybe its bcuz he really wants a kiss and since your not giving them to him he got it from someone else.
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