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Archived questions from: 3 December, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Is he lying to me? WAS something going on behind my back?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - Me and my boyfriend are driving and his phone keeps ringing, he asked me to answer if I wanted. I did and it was a female who says she had the wrong number. I questioned who she was calling for and she said her cousin gave her the number. I asked ...

Boyfriend doesn't trust me with his internet passwords

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - Okay, if this is weird or I'm being irrational, please let me know. My boyfriend and I have been dating each other for four years and have been living together for roughly 3 1/2 years. (Yes, we took things a little fast, but it worked out.) We ...

Are relationships just about love or is there more to it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - My ex and I broke up about six months ago, but all the feelings are still there. Lately he and I have been talking about getting back together, but I told him I wanted to wait to meet up in person and see where things stand (I'm at school 800 miles ...

Why do I have to be the one to contact him and give him attention when I get nothing in return?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - SO i am so upset right now, I dont know whether its my fault or not. I haven't heard from my bf for the past week, from monday till now. And my bday was just the only last day Ive seen him. He was online a couple days ago and was "busy" and he ...

The shine has worn off our relationship

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

3 December 2009 (M) - Wanted some help, me and my ex started our relationship really happy and we were for about a year and a half then we started arguing and got worse till we were arguing almost everyday over things that didnt even matter. She is very insecure and ...

I am frustrated because I cant decide if he likes me back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - dear people of dear cupid, i feel i have a massive problem, but before i tell let me just say i am 15 and never had a boyfriend. my problem is that i feel that i am in love with the guy at school he is really nice most people tell me just to tell ...

She mixes with celebrities but I am just a ordinary guy

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5470 days ago

3 December 2009 (M) - Greetings everyone. I'm here to ask a very strange sounding question; just make sure you read everything I have to say or it may seem a bit confusing. See, I've been seeing this girl long-distance for almost two years now. Where I live, I'm fairly...

I was lost, then found on facebook, and now discarded!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - My ex boyfriend found me on facebook. He wanted to meet again after 9 years. I told him I was in town and he never responded. I responded today saying he got the messages but he said alot has been happening in my life right now. What does this mean?...

Is this what a normal relationship is like?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - Hi, I have been in love with my BF about 2 years +, I feel my relationship is not normal. He is a White guy and he is a Boss of one factory in asian (Switzerland), I am Asian girl (Chinese), he always told me their culture in Switzerland is d...

Since being played I cannot trust

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

3 December 2009 (M) - im a 22 year old virgin.my whole school experience was pretty terrible for me i always felt insecure missplace and low because i was always being made fun of, plus my first relationship ever was a sad wreck i got played! as a result im unconfident ...

At first I said no, then I said yes, he disappeared and now he is back!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - I was 13 when I dated my then boyfriend who was 16 at the time. He was a pretty boy and came from a wealthy family,so did I,meaning he was the player type. We dated for abt a week before he asked me to come over to his place. I made it clear before ...

I daydream constantly about kissing my guitar teacher

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5471 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - I have been dreaming of playing the guitar ever since i was 6. I didn't actually get a guitar until i was 14. I am now 16 and have started taking guitar lessons 2 months ago. During that time i have for some reason started to have a crush on ...

My girlfriend wants an open relationship

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5467 days ago

3 December 2009 (M) - Hey all, I've been off and on here various times these last few months, seeking random tidbits of advice for my ongoing relationship with my gf. Let me start off with a bit o' history. Notably, answers from the 'net have barely helped and in my...

I have forgiven him, but was I just gullible?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5472 days ago

3 December 2009 (F) - My bf and I have worked through so much in the last six years and finally this last school year (he is actually graduating in a few days and I have another semester) we have had the time to do a lot of fun things. We pretty much live at my place, ...

Trapped in a situation and I don't know where to turn

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5472 days ago

3 December 2009 (M) - I have been in a relationship with my fiancé for the past 3 years and we have 2 children, the eldest who is 3 and a half is from her previous relationship and we have a child together who will be 2 in a few days time. I love each of the children ...

I am only 17 so I told her I was older

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5471 days ago

3 December 2009 (M) - OK story time! Here I go... I met a girl the other day who I got along well with and we have been messaging back and forth since; she is 19. I feel like an ass I said I was 18 when I'm really only 17; anyways I am going to be 18 in like 3 months. I ...