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Archived questions from: 6 December, 2009 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

Does anyone feel my husband can be trusted?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - I have been married for a year and I just had my first child with my husband. 2 months after my son was born I found out my husband was sending text messages to other women. He says he never cheated or even texted them back (which I know is a lie ...

Could my boyfriend be a compulsive liar?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - So, I've been dating a guy for about 3 months now. He's incredibly nice, sweet, caring and good looking, and he always makes sure to treat me right. He calls me up to check if I'm okay, buys me things even though I told him not to, and keeps trying ...

Do wonderful relationships just "happen" or do they take work

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 5500 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - Just curious on what your take is on this, because I've heard two different camps. A lot of people on this site say relationships take work and you need to work at it to keep it in good order; then there are other people who say that when you're in ...

My five minutes of fame are bringing a lifetime of shame

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5490 days ago

6 December 2009 (M) - I've had real problems with self-esteem and subsequently booze for quite a few years. I have forced myself on a downward spiral and i seem to dwell on my problems more and more. It all began when i was 20 and booze enabled me to be 'popular' (at the ...

My mum wants my weekends!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

6 December 2009 (M) - OK, so my parents hav split up. Not legally but they dont live together and dont love each other anymore. I have a girlfriend which im really seriosu about and want to be with her as much as possible. The thing is that my mum wants to see me almost ...

I don't want to ask or accuse him of cheating when I'm not sure but I don't want to be played!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - hi i'm amanda, i'm 17 and so is my boyfriend, josh. we've been dating for 7 months. ive been really upset lately and i don't know what to do about it. i have a feeling that my boyfriend is cheating on me. He's always around his ex girlfriend, ...

Will he go back to his first ex or stay with me? Or am I being paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - I looked up stuff about my boyfriend's first ex. theres plenty of stuff about him and her. and how much he loved her and how much she wants him back even though its been a year since their break up. and I've been scared ever since. what if he leaves ...

Is he letting me down softly?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - I don't know where to start but here it goes... A year ago I was going through a separation with my husband. I began seeing a fellow co-worker as a casual fling. He pursued hard and we eventually began dating. We broke up on and off over the cour...

He has a baby and I tried to keep in touch with him, but now he wants to be friends

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - I started talking to this guy in June 09 and he kept wanting to take it further. when he i didnt want to until july i agreed to and we spent time together. he always called me when he could since he got his phone stolen on july 4th. we spent time on ...

I think my girl is going through a phase and I hope she gets over it soon!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5499 days ago

6 December 2009 (M) - I know this is really long to read but it was the only way to get you to know what is exactly going on and exactly how I feel. Thank you so much for your time. I am 21 years old I have had many short term girlfriends and relationships with gir...

We are sleeping together but he wants to keep his options open

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5499 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - Dear Cupid, I recently started seeing this guy and he's been really sweet but I'm afraid I'm reading into things far too much. I'm pretty sure he cares about me to some extent since he's been there for me through some tough ordeals, and his atti...

A girl I like says she has a big secret, and I think I know what it is!

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6 December 2009 (M) - listen to me... i have recently been talking to this amazing girl. we were talking today and she was telling me about how she was crying all the time and how one person does it to her and all this. she said it was her one secret she never told ...

I want to ask a co worker on a date, but have been told its a bad idea

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5496 days ago

6 December 2009 (M) - For the last 2 years I have had this crush on this girl from my job and she has had a crush on me as well. Recently she ended her relationship with her long time boyfriend due to some ongoing problems. I really want to date her but I am being told ...

When she is out of sight she is always on my mind

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

6 December 2009 (M) - Hi, I have a problem whenever I don't see my GF for a few days I get the feeling she is cheating. I have told her I don't trust her and she was very hurt by it (I said this in anger) but still I told her I will stay on my toes! she has assured me ...

I broke up with Sam, and I kissed John who told me Sam still loves me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5501 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - Recently on a night out, I began talking to my friend John. We had kissed once but he has been going out with his current girlfriend for over a year. This doesnt bother me, but as i was the designated driver that night i remember everything he said ...

I havent heard from him for two weeks, and am thinking he has forgotten me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5498 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - My male friend, I have deep feelings for is enlisted in the USAF and one month ago he told me he was getting deployed and couldn't reveal the location. He told me to contacted him on Facebook and his email account. We have been Long Distance since ...

He wanted to get engaged but when it came to the crunch he cooled off

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for over two years now, we moved in together after just two months of knowing each other, which is quick but I didn't have anywhere else to go at the time. He has been pretty open about the fact that he wants ...

My girlfriends family keep trashing me

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5502 days ago

6 December 2009 (M) - ok down to the question like always im dating my 18 year old girlfriend i love her and all but her family is always getting in the way i mean her dad talks trash about me as well as her grandmother and grandfather... and it annoys me and just ...

My boyfriend went out with the guys, now I can't contact him

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 5501 days ago

6 December 2009 (?) - My boyriend told me he was going to a casino with two of his guyfriends tonight and that they were gonna sleep at a hotel. I called him a couple times tonight and he didn't answer. I sent him a text and he didn't answer, and now i after a couple ...

My boyfriend admits to being a massive flirt and says I just have to deal with it

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - My bf says he is a massive flirt and I have to just deal with that? Should I have to? He's my BF!!...

Sweet 16 and in love with Dad's 61 yo boss

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5494 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - hey wat up, well i'm 16 and i'm in love with my dad boss. we lived close by so we knew each other well i mean very well he would tell me about his life. We started talking more deeper and deeper and only time he told me he doesn't love his...

He has had another girlfriend, but through it all still seemed to like me!

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6 December 2009 (F) - hey jsut a curious question here because its happened to me. This guy really seemed to like me well used to and kind of still does. Is it possible for yoy to really like someone, maybe know that it can never happen(things got made difficult for us...

We broke up due to cheating, but now she is cheating with me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5502 days ago

6 December 2009 (M) - 5 Months ago, I broke up with my girlfriend with whom I'd had sex with and with whom I'd been with for a year and a half. She was too jealous and too clingy, and as a result of this, she split up my whole group of friends, as they felt they couldn't ...

He seems to have lost interest in me, but not football

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5473 days ago

6 December 2009 (F) - Me and my fiance have been together for 3 years now. He is the best man i've ever met. Although for the past year i've felt a little neglected. We live together and we hardly spend time together he is always watchin football. I feel discusting and ...