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Archived questions from: May, 2008 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

He's giving me confusing signals. Help!!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I knew this guy about half a year ago from some classes we've been taking and even right from the beginning he kept trying to ask me out but I kept rejecting him. I eventually went out with him a couple of times and then once we went over to his ...

All his ex-GF's are gorgeous. How can I feel better about myself?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6043 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I feel so dumb and childish asking for help about this... My boyfriend's exes are all beautiful. Really beautiful. One of them was chosen the most beautiful/hottest of the class when he was in high school, the other one has tons of admirers, and...

She broke off her marriage proposal, but still I feel insecure!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6052 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - I've been in to seven year relationship with a girl, but year before she had a relationship outside our relationship with the guy in his office they got along very well and guy proposed her marriage, but maybe she realised that its not good and ...

I was forced to lie because my boyfriend thinks even a simple hello to a former crush is something major!! How can I regain his trust?...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - I've got a problem. I know, though, that it's mostly my fault, really. See, my boyfriend and I have a troubled relationship. I broke the trust, and now it seems impossible to get it back. Ok here it goes... From the beginning of the relationshi...

Her ex boyfriend called her. She is trying to re-assure me, but I don't know if there is more going on.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6054 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - Hi guys, Ive been seeing my girlfreind for about a year now, and a few months back her Ex boyfreind called her up out of the blue and asked her if she was still single. She was with this guy for 4 years, and it ended on good terms she said. So, I ...

Something happened while I was asleep. Should I end the relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - So i fell "asleep" on the couch while a friend was over with me and my girlfriend. I heard them talk about sex and then i heard masturbation noises. I woke up and the guys fly was undone. Then when i confronted my girlfriend about the whole thing ...

Is this very suspicious or am I being paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - i was on the phone with my boyfriend yesterday afternoon..while talking i heard something so i asked--you have another call and he said yeah but it can wait..after a minute or two i said why didn't you take it? and he said it wasn't his brother or ...

Is my girlfriend really cheating or is my jealousy out of control?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

31 May 2008 (M) - im 19 and my girlfriend is 17 we have been together for about a year 1/2 the relationship was a lil rocky during the first year because she cheated on me and it was some really dirty stuff she did but im not going to go into detail anyway there's ...

Could my fiance be cheating on me if he hasn't had sex with me for 2 months?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

31 May 2008 (F) - Should I be worried if my fiance hasn't had sex with me for 2 months? I give him oral sex, but it also, is very rarely returned. I didn't think a male could go for that long without it. Is he cheating on me?...

'Truth or Dare' game leads to an awful revelation by my wife! Am I over-reacting?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 5517 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - I've been cruising this site on and off for a while. I like to read the questions and have even given my own advice a few times. Now it is my turn to ask for advice. My wife and I had a party last weekend. After the group dwindled down to 12 or so...

I'm having trouble trusting him completely after he cheated. I know he's been in contact with her because I snooped! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6055 days ago

30 May 2008 (F) - ive been with my b/f for bout 7 years. he cheated on me 3 years ago, i found out we broke up and got back together. ive been trying so hard to trust him again but just cant do it completely. i check his emails and he doesnt know this, i feel bad but ...

What can I do to make him trust me again?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5885 days ago

30 May 2008 (M) - My partner and I are going through some tough things. We've been dating since Sept 2006 and I did wrong to him. I always said I would never cheat on him n I did. I kissed his best friend and talked to another guy behind his back. We weren't a couple ...

I cheated… Now what???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6039 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - I cheated on my boyfriend last weekend, I was completely drunk out of my mind, not that that is an excuse. Needless to say the guy I cheated on my boyfriend of a year is our friend and was over for dinner the night before we had a party. I ended up ...

I feel like I wasn't good enough to keep him and I'm having trouble dealing with this.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - I think my boyfriend broke up with me because he didn't want to wait till there was enough trust in our relationship to have sex. He has a history of sleeping around and going out with girls who get into bed with guys within the first week of ...

Worried about this girl and my boyfriend... am I right to be worried?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5933 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - hi everyone ok now i might just b goin crazy or im reacting the way i should! my boyfriend is going out 2nite 2 watch hockey with a bunch of his friends he couldnt find a ride(his car is crap) so he resulted in calling one of my friends well ...

What do I need to do about this married man?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6053 days ago

29 May 2008 (F) - Well what it is i met a guy and talked to him for a while and then found out he was married well i let him alone, but he kept calling me over and over telling me him and his wife was splitting up, so my bad mistake was that i believed him, he left ...

He says he loves me but doesn't really show it. Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - Ok.. So I've known my "bf" for a long time. We used to date about 2 years ago, stopped talking. And now we started dating again. We have been dating for about 2 months now. He is nice and everything. But he has a problem. He doesn't call me much. ...

What's keeping me from telling my best friends who I like?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 May 2008 (?) - Heyy Why can't I tell my BEST friends who i like ? If they are supposed to be my best friends (as i have 2) I should be able to tell them but something holds me back when it comes to it. Do i trust them ? x...

I think he wants to love me, but isn't capable of doing so!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and I have had ongoing issues for the full term of our relationship. We have been together for almost 8 years and have a beautiful daughter. The way he is behaving towards me is causing doubts in my heart as to whether he really loves ...

I am really confused... my boyfriend has said he'll turn over a new leaf.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6056 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - Been in a relationship for about 5 years. We attended the same university. In school,he asked me out and always told me he loved me.I decided to give it a shot after a year of being friends with him. I told him i needed time to fall in love with ...

I trust my boyfriend but I don't trust other people.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - I'm in a weird situation, I've been with my boyfriend for 2years and I trust him but I don't trust other people. I don't like it when he looks at other girls because i'm scared he will leave me for someone else... I really don't know what to do x...

My boyfriend has been acting distant. Is it me being paranoid?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has been acting distant these last 3 weeks but he hasn’t told me why. He is the best boyfriend I’ve had. He told me from the get-go that he didn’t like talking much, yet at the same time he always wanted to sort things out if either ...

Should I forgive him after his drunken cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - Hi, I caught my boyfriend on cheating. We were at friend's wedding. he was utterly and almost unconsciously drunk. He didnot know who I am when I entered the room he was with this awful girl. Trousers down, she was correcting her clothes, not sur...

I want him back but there's religion, third party and character differences.. help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6005 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - My BF and I for 2 years always fight for petty reasons. We belong to different religions. We have huge character differences. His parents have long wanted him to severe ties with me but he risked it all for me and still pursued the relationship. We ...

How can I find out if my bf is meeting girls on the internet?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - i have been told my boyfriend is meeting girls off the internet. how do i find out if this is true?...

I can't seem to put the past behind me and I'm scared that if I do I'll be back to square one. I need help but don't know where to turn!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6017 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - I'm avoiding relationships and I admit I need help. (Well at least I said it). I'm 30 now and really want to be in a loving relationship, marriage, kids the works but I feel I'm past the point of no return. I can't bring myself to go through mo...

We have a son together, and I just found out he's been married for two years!!! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6056 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - What should I do? I met John 6 years ago. We both worked for the same hospital. Within first year of dating I got pregnant. He always said we were going to get married and be family. In time I got pregnant 2 more times but miscarried. Shortly after ...

How can I learn to trust him and get past all this?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6058 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - ive been with my boyfriend for two and a half years and before i was with him a guy cheated on me and messed me up very much. now i've been trying to trust him but the past has hurt me so much. now he has been going out twith his new friend thats ...

Argh! My boyfriend is planning to go out partying when I'm teaching!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend is so... argh! I can't quite describe just how angry he makes me! See, I broke his trust, because last year I told him I wouldn't talk to this certain guy who used to have a crush on me anymore. But the thing is said guy is in my cla...

I hate everything about my boyfriend but I love him more than anything in the world... should I leave him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4973 days ago

28 May 2008 (F) - I hate everything about my boyfriend but I love him more than anything in the world... should I leave him? I used to trust him, I used to feel comfortable with him in public, I used to enjoy having him around, I used to like doing things for him, ...

Can exes be best friends? I'm a bit bothered by this...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

28 May 2008 (M) - Hey all, quick question for anyone listening, Do you think that its ok for ex's to be best friends? my new gf is bestfriends with her ex and it just makes me uneasy, she assures me that its all over between then but i still cant help but be bothered ...

Should I name this horse 'noid' or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - today my girl and i had a very good day laughs and jokes. so after i drop her off at home,she calls me and tells me that she loves me and that she had fun today, about 3 hours later she calls again and says she loves me and thanks me for everything ...

I'm not sure what to do with what I've seen on myspace!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6058 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - hello aunts i need your help well i have a boyfriend who i love very much and i kno he loves me but he does some things i do not approve of well he has this so called friend and when i went on myspace today i looked at her pictures and i saw ...

Is my girlfriend cheating?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6036 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - I have been with my girl friend almost 2yrs. This has been my best relationship no arguing no fights. So far the only beef we have had has been about her going with a male friend to the mall, which I felt was bullshit, seemed like a date to me. So ...

Is this bachelor party a celebration of marriage or cheating?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - hi so i found out my bf went for a bachelore party. he told me they had normal strippers. unfortunately i found out, that those "strippers" were fingering each other and using other stuff to please themseves infront of the guys and also giving d...

I'm so sick of this! My girlfriend gives me absolutely NO privacy!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6057 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - I'm getting so sick of this!!!! my girlfriend gives me absolutely NO privacy she knows all my passwords to everything including this one. If i tell her to stay off of something like my email she either blames herself or thinks im cheating. I'm a...

His ex came back into his life, and now I'm wondering if I should be there for the DNA test on my husband!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6059 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - ive been married for 3 yrs and now got a 2 yr old son be4 me and my husband got married he already know that i have a child of my own so its not a problem to him. me and my husband is always far from each other coz of his job he is in the military. ...

Is my problem insecurity or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

27 May 2008 (F) - is my problem insecurity or not. i love my boyfriend very as he loves me. at times i know that he loves me and at times i just think he's out just for the physical thing. well, he is very charming and galz do love his company... he likes making ...

Did she sleep with him?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6052 days ago

27 May 2008 (M) - Hi, About two years ago my girlfriend cheated on with with her friend from London, over about 3 months. My g/f says it never went any further than kissing all the time they were together, but i have a feeling that sex was involved. The...

I can't help but think that I don't satisfy him. Please, it's ruining our relationship, what should I do?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost 9 months now. I love him very much but every time he's alone he feels the need to watch porn and masturbate. 5 times a week at least. When he doesn't have his computer at his house, he even goes as f...

I met this guy on the internet...should I see him again and can I trust him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 6054 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - I am 15 year old female. I recently met up with this guy i had been talking to on the internet. I know it sounds stupid and that I shouldn't trust someone off the internet, but I really like this guy and I was wondering whether I should see him ...

My ex's cheating has left me insecure and worried about the size of my chest, can you help?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5630 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - i've been with my boyfriend now for almost a month and we really like eachother, i have never had a good relationship before. the last boyfriend i had, he was my first serious relationship, the first boy i felt i honestly loved.i lost my virginity ...

Please help, the long distance is causing lots of problems for us!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6059 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - I just finished my freshman year of college. My boyfriend in high school and I dated for 4 years and I went to college in Florida and he went to New York. To say the least, we didn't make it past a few months away from each other. I have been with ...

He's too attached to his ex, should I break up with him over it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - Hi, Just need some advice on what to do. I've had been in a long distance relationship for about four years. The problem is that my bf had never stopped talking with his ex nor had he talk her that he is in a relationship with me. They are not ...

Is it too late for me to try and get his trust back? What should I say the next time I see him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

26 May 2008 (F) - Me and my ex broke up 3 months ago. I pushed him away from me. I've learned a lot in these last 3 months that I didn't know before. I've been going to church and attending bible study, not for my relationship, but for myself to change my attitude ...

How can I get over my paranoia about my girl going out of of town on a works night out?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

26 May 2008 (M) - my girlfriend is going on a works night out and because she works out of town and the night is at a hotel i said she should get a room. to which she replied "just imagine all the lads from work would be init" this just burnt my head out. i said if ...

Is my wife attracted to her best friend who is male?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

26 May 2008 (M) - I want to know if my wife is attracted to her best friend who is male? They have been friends for awhile know and I didn't really think anything of there relationship till we got drunk one night. All her attention was on him all night and they even ...

I don't trust people, but I just realized how lonely I really am

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6060 days ago

25 May 2008 (F) - Hello everyone, Well my problems has nothing to do about sex. I know a lot of people and im a pretty fun person to be around but I have a problem trusting people as friends because from multiple past experiences friends have been fake back stabbers...

I've heard that cheating usually involves sex shorty after the first kiss. Did they?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6059 days ago

25 May 2008 (M) - Sorry for the long post. About 2 years ago my girlfriend started a relationship with her friend for about 2 months behind my back (we had been together for 3 years at the time). They had been online and phone friends for years before we were t...

Should I move on, and let him be with her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6061 days ago

25 May 2008 (F) - I am still involved with my ex boyfriend after being broken up with him for a year now. Prior to us breaking up, we were together close to 5 years. There were a lot of financial issues and arguments because of it constantly for the last 6 months ...