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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I am still involved with my ex boyfriend after being broken up with him for a year now. Prior to us breaking up, we were together close to 5 years. There were a lot of financial issues and arguments because of it constantly for the last 6 months of us going together. After we broke up, less than 2 weeks later he met another girl and eventually they took part in a relationship; while we were still living together. To make a long story short, we have never completely left each other alone but now I want to be back with him and always have and he is telling me the same; however I know he still has contact with the other female but he tells me they are only friends!!! I do not believe him because he still has access to the bank account, he goes out with her, she has pictures of them on her myspace page, etc. My question is, should I move on and let him be with her?
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reader, Hurt4life +, writes (25 May 2008):
 Question how do u know, about their pic in myspace together? How old is this guy? Do you love him enough to tolerate him talking or going out with his ex, do they have any kids together, that they may maintain a type of relationship...Will get back to u, as soon u answer this question, but just go back into time and see everything he has done wrong to u, do u thing he really deserve you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 May 2008): It sounds as if he is telling you that it is over between the romantically. If you don't believe him and he is trying to prove this to you, then ask him to bring the girl to a meet and greet (you two meet each other) if you want to be back together with him then ask for the commitment that you want and don't settle for less...
Remember they call them exes for a reason, do you really think you want him back? What has he changed about himself to warrant his reappearance back into your life?
Ask these questions of yourself too, what do you need to change about yourself to make the relationship work the second time around?
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