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writes:hello aunts i need your help well i have a boyfriend who i love very much and i kno he loves me but he does some things i do not approve of well he has this so called friend and when i went on myspace today i looked at her pictures and i saw comments on there from him sayin she so sexy and thats his wife also he loves her so i looked at his pics and saw the same type of comments from her mind you this not the first time i saw things like this on myspace he sends all these messages to different females i dont kno wat to do can somebody please help me
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reader, Tremor  +, writes (28 May 2008):
 The best thing to do would be to talk to your boyfriend about this.
Tell him you understand that he has female friends, and that you trust him (I'm assuming you do?), but that it makes you feel uncomfortable when you see messages like that. Tell him /why/ it makes you uncomfortable - do you start comparing yourself to these girls, do you feel inferior? Let him know. Leaving compliments is one thing, but there's a difference between 'Gosh, nice pic' and 'You're so sexy, I love you'.
He may not even realize he's hurting you. It's always best to talk it out.
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reader, Shaunananana +, writes (28 May 2008):
Ask him about it. (Myspace has always causes so much drama...)but if you think somethings up you should ask..See how he replys.. and judge on what you think you should do by how his reply makes you feel (Be cautious of very sly replys and very defensive ones.)It all comes down to whether you can trust him or not.Good luck. :)
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reader, Queeny  +, writes (28 May 2008):
 You know wat, guys always do this the better if they do it openly... if he loves you he's just admiring other galz.. which is normal.. the problem comes when he its only this one gal that he keeps on commenting on.. but guys do flirt even when they love their galz.. just talk about it with him and if you are gifted in reading between the lines ... then swee... the nearest exit, take it!
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