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Is my girlfriend really cheating or is my jealousy out of control?

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Question - (31 May 2008) 2 Answers - (Newest, 1 June 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, *evin_15 writes:

im 19 and my girlfriend is 17 we have been together for about a year 1/2 the relationship was a lil rocky during the first year because she cheated on me and it was some really dirty stuff she did but im not going to go into detail anyway there's this certain person that been there through the whole relationship and that's a bad thing shes always starting drama saying that my girlfriend is doing such an such with this person and i dont know what to believe

i get so upset when i hear things like this that i don't think about it or talk with my gf and i snap on her but she denies it i'm not sure what to believe because of what happened in the beginning

half of me believes her then the other half think she's just totally evil and wants to hurt me, i dont know why but anyway she's changed this last month and i think it's because of my jealousy and i don't know what to do please help!!!

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A male reader, Kevin_15 United States +, writes (1 June 2008):

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Well i talked to my girlfriend and she said she doesnt feel the same about me and we broke up i found out she cheated on me 5 times that i know about since weve been together there could be more times but i dont know for sure i only have proof on 3 of the times i dont know what to do i want to try and make things work i dont care about her cheating i know why she did it there some things that have happened to her and shes been hurting a lot longer and worse than i am right now but its still no excuse shes been living with me for the time weve been together so its been hard im thinking if she moves back to her moms and is on lock down and has a good influence maybe things will change i just dont know what to do i truly love this girl i wanted to marry her and have kids someday, now i dont know im just so confused i want to move on but half of me wants to make this all right and make things work i need a help it just hurts so bad i cry myself to sleep every night i really think i need to find someone better but i really loved this girl we will find out what happens when she moves back to her moms today 6/1/08 ill keep yall updated

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2008):

u need to ask her if shes ready for a relationship and ask her if she really wants to be wit u and learn more about wat ur friends and people are saying maybe there trying to protact u

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