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*ane
writes:today my girl and i had a very good day laughs and jokes. so after i drop her off at home,she calls me and tells me that she loves me and that she had fun today, about 3 hours later she calls again and says she loves me and thanks me for everything and for me to take care of myself. i tell her thats it sounds like we are not going to see each other again, that kinda upset her a little and she told me to get off of the horse thats heading the other way and get on the one next to her and ride together and shes not going anywhere. i tell her that i want to be with her, she said that we will and that shes at home and safe she loves me and for me to take care of myself. am i being paranoid about our relationship or is she dropin signs that its over?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): I think you both need some communication skills training. You're both saying it's over.... and neither of you mean it.
That's what's confusing you.
Good luck.. :-)
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reader, Dreaming  +, writes (28 May 2008):
Sounds like she thanked you for a good time, and is a bit confused when you said if you are going to break up. Maybe you need a bit more clarity in your communication. Stating to her why you thought that, ie when you say take care of myself, I wasn't sure if you meant it just as a normal way to end a conversation, or if you were saying end it, Or just ask her out again. If she says yes, you know it was not to end it. Who knows why she said it, only she knows if it meant something.
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reader, kane +, writes (28 May 2008):
kane is verified as being by the original poster of the questionyou guys are right.thanks.
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reader, dearkelja  +, writes (28 May 2008):
 I think you should stop over analyzing things. If she said she had a great time, thanks, she loves you, take care of yourself, etc, then I think that's what she meant. Just because someone tells you to take care, it doesn't mean it's over. It just means they care about you and want you to take care of you til they can see you again.
She might also be hinting that she'd like to go on a romantic horseback ride?? Let it go and enjoy.
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reader, Queeny  +, writes (28 May 2008):
 Yes you are being paranoid.. don't act like a looser... coz that's what will put her off. she was just being a lady to thank you dah...
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