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writes:I have been with my girl friend almost 2yrs. This has been my best relationship no arguing no fights. So far the only beef we have had has been about her going with a male friend to the mall, which I felt was bullshit, seemed like a date to me. So we moved on, maybe I did and she hasnt mentioned him. But I still feel like she is cheating on me. Lately Id say for the past 2 months she has been going out every week end and coming to my hm at 2, 3, 4 in the mourning. This past sat. she called and said she was going to a bbq @ 7, I didnt hear from her until 1230 and she hit me with the, had a long nite, tell you about it when I get home. I couldnt tell if it was the fake angry voice or not, but it sounded like one. Especially since I sold her girlfriend the car that they broke down in, she probably should have said something like , you need to get her a new car, or something about fixing the car. She tells me that both of their phones died but she called me from her girlfriends phone. Unless her girlfriend is sighned up to the Jesus network how did she call me from a dead phone? Does anyone think she is cheating or am I buggin? Reply to this Question
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reader, gmoney +, writes (18 June 2008):
gmoney is verified as being by the original poster of the questionMy girldfriend was 26. Also to add to the story. Recently I broke up with her and on the same day her grandfather died. So I felt bad she came over of coarse with no sex. But I noticed that her mall friends name was written on her car. Which bugged me out so I broke up with her again, Im trying to ease away. But I want to just disappear. Should I just disapear and forget her or should I ease away because of her grand dad
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (28 May 2008):
 Hi,
You definitely have something to worry about here. Generally there is a reason any change of habit in a persons lifestyle, if your girlfriend is vague or uncommunicative about this it will mean she is hiding something.
If she is as young as you I would say its most likely she is spending time with someone she doesnt want you to know about.
At the very best its that she wants to spend her leisure time with her friends rather than you.
Both situations are not good.
You need to have a big heart to heart with her, tell her you deserve to know the truth and if you two are over then the least she can do is let you get on with your life.
good luck mate.
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reader, Showstopper +, writes (27 May 2008):
hello, i think that she's doing something that she doesn't want you to know about. How old is she? Have she ever lied to you in the past? if so, then she might be cheating. Tell her that you want to go out with her the next time and she what she says then. your heart is already letting you know deep down whats going on. sorry to break the news but it seems that she doing something that she has no business doing
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