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Archived questions from: 20 May, 2008 (see latest in Trust issues category)

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Trust issues: Help and advice

She is amazing but her past puts me off...

This question has 37 answers - newest was posted 6025 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - Im in a relationship with someone. I love her. She is amazing. She is, ultimately, what I have ever desired about in a woman. Except, I fear she is a slut... Slept with about 20 people, one a couple weeks before me... A couple months before that ...

Her ex-boyfriend still has some hold. How do I break that hold?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6033 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - My girlfriend's ex-boyfriend seems to still have some hold over her, even after over a year now. He calls her about once a week and while she says she "hates when he calls", she does return his calls. She will text reply to him when we're sitting in ...

When is what appears to be "something" actually "nothing"??? Am I in denial, blinded by love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - Found this text from a chat log on my PC: "Hi Sexy Man!!!!!!!!!!! Are we still on for Memorial Day weekend?" At first I thought it was my daughter to her new boyfriend (since she shares my PC) and so I asked her if he was coming down for that we...

I just want things to be good between us! I broke her trust, she was kissed by another guy...I'm heartbroken!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6033 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - My girlfriend and I have recently had problems. She doesn't know for sure if she is in love with me. And I broke her trust on something, and so she is mad at me. But we are trying to sort things out. She has a crush on some guy. That's fine, I m...

My online girlfriend is starting to ask for things that make me feel uncomfortable!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - Ok well I suppose it's like this I began internet dating over a while now and I found a good one I made some friends on it and got to know people well. I met a girl on there and we got to talking and everything was going fine she sent me a photo of ...

I need to know how I can move on from all this and stop the cycle of bad relationships and lies.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6033 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - I am totally and utterly dispairing of my own behaviour. I got married very young at age 21 and was never very happy from the outset. By age 24 I had a brief affair with a married man and immediately told my husband. He was very calm (almost not ...

I'm interested in a new guy, but this knock to my self-confidence by the long-distance ex has me doubting things! I don't want to be hurt again!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - bit mad here, as Im usually answering the qusestions, btu here goes....Met a guy and we dated for 2 months it was a long distance relaionship, I met him through my friend who was his cousin. Well he started going on about wanted to move down with ...

Should I cool off for a while and not make an effort to see what he does?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6024 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - Ok, I have been to this site before for advice and go some really good answers, so I am back! I have been seeing my bf for about 18 months now. When we first started out he was so into the realtionship. He bought me flowers, send random cards say...

Husband is considering divorce because I snooped and acted paranoid about his co-worker!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6030 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - Few months married, and I feel that something strange is going on with my husbad. We have been fighting more frequently nowadays in our marriage. Few months ago, he msgd his female coworker nonwork related saying have a great day etc. I know that ...

We've been together for 6 years after meeting on line. I dislike his on line activity and do not trust him, should I end it?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - My boyfriend has been chatting online to strangers. I know that he has done it in the past and he promised that he wouldn't do it again. He has said that he hasnt and doesnt want to meet any of them but I feel I cant trust him. Should I try agai...

He called another woman his "sex toy," now he is repentant and swears he hasn't cheated physically. Your advice, please!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 6032 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - me and this guy have been dating on and off for like 5 years i should also probally state there is a huge age differance between us about eighteen years i am in my thirtys .i recently found a message where he is calling another women baby and his ...

Why is this happening to me? Why is my girlfriend this way???

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6026 days ago

20 May 2008 (M) - (background info)Me and my girlfriend met back in Sep of 07. We worked in the same town and I would often see her at her job. I fell in love with her smile and how she always made me laugh. She said she was talking to someone and that she was not ...

I'm so worried I will be cheated on due to the case of cheating in my family, although my BF is great!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6033 days ago

20 May 2008 (F) - ok so my one year anniversary is in less than a week. about 3 years ago my parents went through a rough divorce because my dad cheated on my mom. i've been so worried that that was going to happen to me. i really don't know what to do. my bf is ...