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*elpingHand7
writes:I'm getting so sick of this!!!!my girlfriend gives me absolutely NO privacy she knows all my passwords to everything including this one. If i tell her to stay off of something like my email she either blames herself or thinks im cheating. I'm at the end of my rope and im feeling more and more like i cant be in this relationship any longer.What should i do Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): ok like everyone else has said just tell her that you need to be trusted and that your going to change all of you passwords and you wont give them to her until she can trust you and give you some privacy. If she truly loves you then she will understand that you need this. If she cant handle find someone better your probably not right for each other just try and work things out before you do anything.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): Tell her you need some damn space! Tell her she's being completely paranoid. Show her that you are dedicated to her so she'll stop bugging you. Show her you aren't a cheater.
Change your passwords, tell her you need space, and if she can't handle that, dump her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 May 2008): Petty as it sounds, perhaps you could spend a week calling her at all hours of the day and night demanding to know what she's up to. When she complains she wants to be left alone, tell her you will if she will do the same to you.
Change your passwords. Don't tell them to her, or write them down somewhere where she might find them. There must be trust in a relationship, or it won't work.
I think you deserve someone who will respect that you do not need to be smothered.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): Honey, you simply need to tell her nicely that you're a private person, and need space. Reassure her that you won't cheat, you just need privacy. She should value this! But if she's unwilling to work it through with you, maybe you just don't suit each other much, and you could suit a different girl more. Good luck :]
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