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Archived questions from: August, 2007 (see latest in Trust issues category)

Trust issues: Help and advice

Is he too damaged for a real relationship???

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 5075 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - I am confused about a friendship with a newly divorced man. Need to know how to interpret mixed signals and if we can/should make our friendship a real relationship. A couple of months ago I met a man through mutual friends. At his request ...

I've been with him 10 months and he's started eyeing up women on tv and in the street. He says its normal but I've told him I dont like it!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6044 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - Should I leave my fiance? The other night we were watching a movie and everytime a "hot girl" was on the screen he would say something like "she has a nice body", etc. I've already told him that this bothers me, but he won't stop and says that all ...

How do I make myself not so clingy and insecure in my relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5631 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for over a year. The first couple of months were fantastic (as usually they are) But as the first full year together started to approuch I felt fantastic. We had lasted a year and that made me feel ...

Two months after marriage and we already have problems. Is this marriage already over?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6296 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - I am wondering what to do about my marriage. I am in my early 20's and I just got married 2 months ago. I am in Germany with my husband because he is in the army. So he works for the army here and I left everything from the States to come be with ...

I looked at his bills, he saw me and ripped them out of my hands! Is there something to this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6294 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - my boyfriend lives far from me. he visit me every 4 months. he just visit me last week and we had a great time together. but there was one thing confused me. i saw he has lots of bills from his bag. and i started to checking one by one. some of them ...

It feels very much as if I am being kept in limbo or maybe he is playing mindgames with me? How can a person go from being very attentive to nothing?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6296 days ago

31 August 2007 (F) - Can anybody shed some light please...? I split with my boyfriend just over a week ago, I ended the relationship 'stupidly' due to my insecurities and trust issues, I love him and believe he loves me, he ignored all my attempts at making up with h...

I think my guy likes his ex still. I want to break up with him but I dont think he's taking me seriously??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6297 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - hi stright to the point am i his rebound??? well ive been with my man for a year and a few months and well, he went thru a bad break up with his gf of like 9 months and she treated him real bad, i knew her. me and him where friends but i kn...

Should I wait around or should I just leave and forget about him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6297 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have lived together for about 2 years. I love him dearly, and we have had some trust issues lately. He has lied to me a few times about dumb things so it made me be a little paranoid. He doesn't like the fact that I snoop through ...

My fiance cheated and she's pregnant. He told her in front of me that he doesn't love her but will I ever trust him again?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 6296 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - I found out a few months ago that my Fiance had been cheating on me for 2years and the girl is now pregnant. He told her infront of me that he doesnt love her and has always loved me but couldnt seem to get rid of her. Will i ever be able to trust ...

I felt jealous, because I'd consider a date this invitation to lunch! Am I overreacting?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6296 days ago

30 August 2007 (F) - Firstly, thanks for reading my question and would really appreciate any advices. I am quite confused at moment, do not know what to do. I am having relationship with this guy for almost 2 years and been living together. And before this, I had never ...

My girlfriend ended the relation as I went to a festival unaccompanied by her, now she regrets it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6297 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - Hi, I have a problem with my Girlfriend of 4 years. I'm 21 now and we've been together for 4 years... We've had arguments before, but who hasn't... Our relationship was stressed by me going to university but we have managed to get throug...

How do you re-program yourself to trust someone you love?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - How do you re-program yourself to trust someone you love? I am seeing a wonderful guy but I have never trusted men easily. I've had a few knocks it's true, but my trust issues do not seem to be based entirely on past experiences or my childhood. ...

Should i be concerned about my guy and this girl?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - Okay what should I make of this? My b/f said he had to go out on a field trip with a female co-worker today. He had her come by our house and pick him up at 7:00 AM. This was a little weird, as he usually drives to work and employees take a field ...

What if she is playing me the same way she did her boyfriend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - I ain't proud of what I'm about to divulge but it was great, now I seem to be tormenting myself. A couple of years ago, I was dating a girl after a year or so, we were going thru a break up. During the break-up time, I met another girl and we ...

How can I get through to him that this episode makes me uncomfortable without sounding insecure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

29 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for three months. Recently while at his place his Messenger popped up with a loud kiss inviting him to a falling hearts chat room. Her e-mail starts off as Hey babe. I asked him about this female before and he ...

I wanted a wife and she has never seen herself as anything other than a girlfriend.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6298 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - I have been with my partner for 10 years, it has not been easy as I work away very often, leaving her with our 2 children. We seem to be always quarrelling about stupid things, mostly my insecurity in thinking she is giving out the wrong signals to ...

Is my wife being honest about going through with a threesome?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 5101 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - Is my wife being honest about going through with a threesome? I have had the fantasy of seeing my wife with another man for 2-years now. I have asked her about it and she always said no. I make little comments and suggestions all the time. Finall...

She's very affectionate with her male friend..trying not to jump to conclusion but struggling here. Any advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6116 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - Hi, I've been with my g/f for 3 years and although we're currently living 50 miles away cos of my work, I hoped she could move to be with me soon, We get to see each other at only weekends, I haven't been pushy asking her to move as I know it would ...

She's cheated in our past, so is her recent behavior making me paranoid or was she just teasing?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6298 days ago

29 August 2007 (M) - My girlfriend cheated on me while she was on vacation. I forgave her because of certain circumstances. last night however I got the vibe she was sending mixed signals. she wouldn't let me touch her like I usually do and accused me of being "clingy"...

Is she dating someone else or is it just hormones?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6286 days ago

28 August 2007 (M) - I have a pregnant ex girlfriend who may be seeing someone else. She won't even discuss us or getting back together. She just says it's over and I need to get used to the fact. Is it just hormones? Most of my guy friends think she has someone else ...

My hubby's jealousy has gotten worse since knowing about my affair 6 years ago; I'm afraid to leave him, as he'd kill me and my potential lover...

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6297 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - My husband has always been really jealous. He's always wanting to fight with me and other people if I even talk to another guy. But it has gotten worse since he found out that I cheated on him with his best friend six years ago. We had not seen ...

My boyfriend hates other guys looking at me and chases them. Yeh HE can look at other women????

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - Why does my boyfriend look at other women but he goes crazy if another man looks at me. He's even followed guys home to confront them. I asked him what's the difference in him looking at another girls and another guys looking at me?I dress very ...

Can't seem to stop looking through his e-mails, though my conscience bothers me as he's the best man I've known.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

28 August 2007 (F) - I am in love, and have been for 2 years. but I have serious trust issues, I even see a therapist about my turst issues. I recently learned my boyfriends email passwords and have been looking in his email and its making me crazy. I can't stop. I ...

He's got to go to a stag do at a strip club, I'm not happy about it...help!!!

This question has 20 answers - newest was posted 6283 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - My BF is going for a Bachelore party next month - yeah,that doesnt sound like a big deal to you guys, but to me - I AM GOING NUTS! I don't agree with Strip clubs at all. I don't unerstand why guys go there. To me its the biggest disrespect to th...

My guy doesn't like me going on dear cupid! He says it's porn with words!But i enjoy it..

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend gets mad at me when I go on Dear Cupid! I am a stay at home mom, and I'm pregnant so I don't have much of a life. I go on Dear Cupid and I like to try to help by giving people advice. My b.f. gets mad at me and says that the ...

Rang on this stranger who told me was playing a gig this week, my bf didn't take it easy! Advice, pls?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6300 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - Hi all (again) I wrote just a few days ago ,regarding my 3 year relatonship with a widower. I did somethinig really stupid in a time of uncertainty, and was chatted up by another man, who gave me his number. I rang him as he said he was in a band, ...

Is it normal for boys to stare at other girls while out with their fiancees?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 6105 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - Is it normal for guys to stare at girls while out with their fiancees? I understand that looking or glancing at someone of the opposite sex once in a while is natural, but my fiance just stares at girl for more than a few seconds while he is right ...

In a casual relation with my ex; does he think I didn't trust him, am I wasting time?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6300 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - I have been having a casual relationship with my ex (from three years ago) for just over a month. He is 25 and I am 24. He wants to keep it quiet and have some fun as fuck buddies (knowing that I love him and want more eventually) and see how thin...

How can I read his texts? He is sending suggestive texts to other women!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6301 days ago

27 August 2007 (F) - Can anyone out there with a recent Sony Ericcson cellphone instruct me how to open the text message box and go to the in box to read the texts. I tried to do it today but couldnt quite work out the keys. My boyfriend recently changed his phone and ...

I've been dating him for 3 months, he's not working, I dont really want to be supporting him! Is he using me?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - I have been dating this guy for three months now, he is awesome and adorable, he is the best thing that has ever happened to me. We are happy in this new relationship of ours. The problem is that he is not working (unemployed) he resigned from his ...

I lied to him in the past, now he doesnt treat me well!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 6301 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - hello out there..my ? is this..we have been 2gether 2 yrs I love him, but i have lied in the past (not anymore) he says we are done. He knows the lies, for awhile i used drugs, i was caught by him, they were to take away the pain of him reje...

I can't help thinking about his four one night stands from the past, it displeases me...

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6274 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost a year. I'm his first official partner, he has a dark past. Anyways, he's had four one night stands before and am a virgin, I really don't know what to do, he hasn't pressured me into having sex and ...

Told my boyfriend's sister something secret about his sexual history... will he forgive?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6302 days ago

26 August 2007 (F) - I was angry at my boyfriend and crossed a boundary that I shouldn't have. He told me something in confidence about his sexual history, I had been angry with him earlier and in while in that angered state, I told his sister. He has every right to be ...

I've a long distance relation, my boyfriend is very insecure, misinterpreting my friendship with the ex and is jealous in general. How do I cope with this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6302 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - Hiya, I have a problem with my boyfriend. We've been dating for quite a while and I love him very much. He's incredible in every possible way, except for one - he's very insecure and gets jealous easily. I feel that I'm at the end of my rope he...

They call me the ice maiden cause I wont let any guy too close

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6302 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - My parents divorced when i was only 9yrs old, after moving back to his home city, my dad had his "2nd childhood". We often seen him with different women. I have had a few relationships in the past(one of which gave me my two beautiful daughters!)All ...

All the girls I've been attracted to seem to be incredibly unfaithful and unable to commit!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6301 days ago

25 August 2007 (M) - Why can't I find a good girl? Every girl I encounter who I seem to get along with seems to be promiscuous. I know that sounds harsh, but it's true! All the girls I'm attracted to and likewise seem to be incredibly unfaithful and unable to commit...

She thinks we went too fast and doesn't want to get hurt as before. I want to make this right...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

25 August 2007 (M) - Hey, I met this girl probably about a week ago now. She had previously dated one of my co-workers (not really a friend) so I knew who she was and she recognized me. We started talking on msn and we went out together. We hung out and by the end of ...

He forgave my infidelity but I am overwhelmed with guilt and feel like I don't deserve him!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6302 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - I cheated on my boyfriend of 2 years about 8 months into our relationship with him... He found out and decided to forgive me and we are actually now planning on a future marriage but i am still overwhelmed with guilt. I love him more than anything ...

He's visited masage parlours in the past and paid for sex, now I feel worried about our future!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6302 days ago

25 August 2007 (F) - I'll start off my saying i'm very much in love with my boyfriend. He's a good guy with a lot to offer, one that i can see a future with, so far, still a lot to learn about each other. We've been dating for over year... and conversation cam...

What can I do and say to convince him I'm not having an affair and I just want to read my messages in private?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

24 August 2007 (F) - My boyfriend is always over my shoulder when I receive a text message. It is really annoying becasuse I can't text my friends without him interrupting. I don't read his messages, so why does he read mine? When I tell him that I don't like him read...

He doesn't like me talking to other males and I have lost all my male mates because of him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

24 August 2007 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been dating for nearly a year now, we were really happy, but now he doesn't like me talking to other males and I have lost all my male mates because of him. Also he turns violent when he doesn't get sex and he really wants ...

Men, do you know what he really means by his comments? Does he want me or is he not sure?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6299 days ago

24 August 2007 (?) - I'm really confused as I'm not sure what this phrase means... and don't understand men at all!! I have been with my man for a year and a half. We have always had rows, but stuck by each other as we both said we loved each other and wanted it to...

Even though he has a relationship with my children he will not let me meet his daughter!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6302 days ago

24 August 2007 (F) - I have been dating a man for 2 years even though he has a relationship with my children he will not let me meet his daughter, also he can be so loving and then all of a sudden he starts to ignore me, if I finish with him he wants me back. I do not ...

Is she just being cautious? Is our relationship doomed? What do you think is going on?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 6303 days ago

24 August 2007 (M) - Dear people, I met a girl in a chat room on New Year's Eve this year. Since that day we have spoken on the telephone without fail every day, morning and night when we are in bed till we fall asleep. After approximately a month both of us...

I want to believe that he loves me but I don't trust him! What should I do?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 6301 days ago

23 August 2007 (F) - Thank you all for the advice you gave me. I realy appreciate it. At is time I tell you all what the problem is. This is how it happened; I met my first boyfriend 6 months before entering the Polytechnic. He was a good guy. He showed me love an...

He accuses me constantly of cheating but I'm not! Is this truely a case of "the guilty doing all the blaming?"

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6304 days ago

23 August 2007 (F) - I am 20 years old and have 2 daughters. Ages 1 and 2. I have been with their father for almost 4 years now and since the beginning he has been a very jealous person. He is constantly accusing me of cheating on him and I just recently started going ...

I checked her phone and found explicit sexual texts from a couple of guys, one who I had met in my/our home.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6302 days ago

22 August 2007 (M) - I'm a 55 year old man and I've been in a relationship with a woman 25 years younger for the last 10 years we live together and have an 11 month old boy. Recently her behaviour was particularly guarded towards her mobile phone, constant buzzing of ...

Is there something going on between his co-worker and him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 6305 days ago

22 August 2007 (F) - Hi I think that my bf has something going on at work with his co-worker whom just recently started there. Within 1 month, he knows so much about her already. Also, he's been getting in earlier to work and stays a bit longer than usual. And, wh...

Am I being a little too paranoid?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 6302 days ago

22 August 2007 (M) - I recently moved out from my girlfriend of 2 years. we were very much in love, but within a month she had invited two other men over for coffee she had met online on seperate occasions. then we started speaking again and decided to give our ...

How can I trust my fiancee when she said she loved someone else?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 6306 days ago

21 August 2007 (M) - my fiancee admitted that she loved another guy, but now feels that it was a mistake. can i trust her and in forward with her?...