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writes:Why can't I find a good girl? Every girl I encounter who I seem to get along with seems to be promiscuous. I know that sounds harsh, but it's true! All the girls I'm attracted to and likewise seem to be incredibly unfaithful and unable to commit to a reltionship.The only girls I've ever been with who weren't this way I haven't really been attracted to (nothing in common, etc)... Any advice on how to find a good girl who'll stay faithful? Reply to this Question
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reader, Lizz  +, writes (26 August 2007):
 Well, you sound like you're on the right track then. You just haven't found the right one. give it time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionWell, I do try and go slow because I don't want any girl to get the impretion I'm just a horny pig.
But most girls I meet are at parties or w/e. And my type wouldn't be in a church or public park, atleast not likely.
Mind oyu, my "type" isn't a slutty girl neither, just someone who's outgoing, open minded, and likes to have fun.
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reader, LadyKeylon +, writes (25 August 2007):
I would say that patience is the best path, but in the fast pace of teenage life my best advice would be to slow things down when you are attracted to somebody, get to know them a little better before advancing into the relationship.
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reader, Lizz +, writes (25 August 2007):
Have you considered where you meet these women? Perhaps you should try church or the library or even the city park. There are plenty of nice girls out there if you look in the right places.
If you pick up a woman in a bar/club or at a frat party you can't expect a fine relationship to come of it.
What your "type" is has a lot to do with it. If you like women who dress like playboy bunnies wearing halter tops and mini skirts that could be part of the problem too. A woman who dresses like she sleeps around usually does.
Also, if a gal sleeps with you on a first date it's a bad sign. Give yourself some space and collect your thoughts before diving into another catastrophe.
You'll find someone that's right for you when the time is right.
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