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writes:Hey, I met this girl probably about a week ago now. She had previously dated one of my co-workers (not really a friend) so I knew who she was and she recognized me. We started talking on msn and we went out together. We hung out and by the end of our outing, we were holding hands and when I got her home, we briefly kissed and said good night. I talked to her on msn when I got home and we both had had a really good time. So we've hung out a few times since then. She's really afraid of getting close and I want a serious relationship but am very new the this entire world... She thinks we went too fast and should slow down and be friends. She doesnt want to get hurt like she did by my friend and other guys before. Is there any advice you could give me, I'm pretty confused and don't wanna screw this up and I want to do it right. Thanks
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reader, kenny  +, writes (25 August 2007):
 I think from what you have said this girl does like you, but she wants to take things at her own pace due to a previous bad experience which is understandable.
If she thinks you went to fast then slow down abit, there is no rush. Keep seeing her as friends, be there for her, go out and do stuff and prove to her that you are a good guy that won't hurt her.
She will respect you alot more for taking it slow and keeping it at the pace she wants. Keep it like this and over time her feelings for you will gradually build up and a possible relationship could materialise. Some of the best romances stem from friendships.
Good luck
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reader, jm81690 +, writes (25 August 2007):
 If you like her and she wants toslow it down and be friends I think you should make it clear to her you want to be more than friends, just don't rush her.There is nothing worse than really liking someone and not being anything more than just friends.
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