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Archived questions from: August, 2017 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How do I move on and trust him? Or is he not trust worthy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2625 days ago

31 August 2017 (F) - I have a big trust issue regarding my boyfriend and his ex. When my boyfriend and I first dated, he broke up with his ex to be with me, but he never told her about me because she has a really bad temper and she was still trying to get back with him. ...

Is it wrong to ask for a date from him of when he will abandon the search for the dream and work to support our everyday?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2629 days ago

31 August 2017 (F) - Am I being too negative to consider a possible and positive future? Or is my gut's screaming correct? My boyfriend and I were recently laid off from our job, we're still working but our last day is approaching and then we will receive our ...

Why does my married lover not admit how he feels about me? And keeps changing his words?

This question has 24 answers - newest was posted 2628 days ago

31 August 2017 (F) - Can anyone here help me to make sense of my married lover's words? Why did he tell me he loves me? Then the next time he says he likes me. Then he says he likes me a lot. Then the next time he says he adores me. And the next time after that, it's...

Why are people so impersonal? My friends don't care

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2628 days ago

31 August 2017 (F) - Is it ok to only see friends every 2-12 months? Have only 5 "friends" who are well liked in their job, busy,work, (I work too!!) one is married with kids, they all have better friends, family neaby, and a good life so only have time for coffee o...

How many chances do I give my daughter's father when all he does is hurt her?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2630 days ago

30 August 2017 (F) - How many chances should I give my ex to be a father when all he does is hurt our daughter! We had our daughter (now 7) when we were 18. He made it clear to me he wasn't happy about having a child and that is what caused us to break up. He the...

Should I go meet my baby's father's family or have them come to meet us even though we really don't have the room?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2631 days ago

30 August 2017 (F) - My baby father just turned up after not being present for two months. And right now I have been dealing directly with his mom since he apparently doesnt want to deal directly with me So the thing is his mom invited me over one day becauss she had ...

After my awful experiences with men, I'd rather date someone who's got a low sex drive than one who's oversexed.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2630 days ago

29 August 2017 (F) - I am a 28 year old female that has had mostly bad relationships up until this point. All the guys I've dated seem to have had major anger issues and/or were players and I assume this is in part due to male horomones. I enjoy having a partner and ...

How can my boyfriend have all these text messages to other women? I feel like I'm on another planet

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2625 days ago

29 August 2017 (F) - Im just so upset and not sure what to do. My partner and I have been together now for 6 years, it has been a struggle as after the first 8 months of us being together he slept with someone else. I managed to forgive him for this and after time and ...

He waits for me to leave and then mastubates!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2628 days ago

29 August 2017 (F) - Sometimes (often enough) my husband masturbates as soon as i leave the house. I dont care that he masturbates but this really annoys me. I know because he leaves evidence on my computer. I know most of the time its stress and he does it to calm ...

I'm worried my friend might in a controlling and abusive relationship.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2632 days ago

29 August 2017 (F) - This weekend I was on a hike with some friends and witnessed something that makes me uncomfortable and a little afraid for one of my friends. I would like to hear your opinion on this situation. It was my first time having a chance to talk t...

Is my wife sleeping elsewhere?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2628 days ago

29 August 2017 (M) - I am a married man who was in a monogamous relationship with my wife for seven years. I was a virgin before marriage. My wife was the first and only sexual partner. I went to a massage parlour in an inebriated condition while on a business trip to a ...

Our fighting has gotten worse, could this be the final breakup?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2632 days ago

28 August 2017 (M) - My long-term girlfriend and I have had many ups and downs over the years. Unfortunately, we're both hard headed and when we disagree, we fight. More unfortunately, those fights usually result in her breaking up. Within a few days I am always the ...

Break-up, Make-Up Cycle and After a Loving Weekend, He Hasn't Called. Why?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2633 days ago

28 August 2017 (F) - I recently left my boyfriend two weeks ago, and now we aren't talking. My purpose in leaving wasn't necessarily to break up,but because I wasn't going to tolerate the verbal and emotional abuse. He can be extremely controlling and gonon tirades. ...

Married 11 years and my husband is now wanting details of my sexual life before him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2632 days ago

28 August 2017 (F) - Hello i'm a 37 yo woman and me and my husbant are together now for 11 years. Everything started when i met him 18 years ago and i fell in love with his misterious eyes. We became friends and eventually a few years later i got my nerves together and ...

My boyfriend says my friends took advantage of me.

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 2631 days ago

28 August 2017 (F) - Hello Everyone! Just wanted some insight on this situation. Last night, my boyfriend and I had friends over (my friend and his girlfriend) to watch the Game of Thrones season finale. I cooked a lot more than my boyfriend thought I should have but ...

I am getting cold feet about my LDR moving in.

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2632 days ago

28 August 2017 (F) - My LDR boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years. We will be moving in together by the end of this year. He will be packing his bags and moving across the country to live with me and my two teenage children. I'm having second thoughts...

I need space after an argument, but will it make things worse?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2632 days ago

28 August 2017 (F) - Is it okay to turn off your phone after having an argument with your boyfriend? I feel like I need some space but at the same time I'm worried it will make the argument worse. ...

Tempted not to take part in an activity because HE will be there!

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 2631 days ago

28 August 2017 (F) - My love interest and I have known each for years through a walking group but we have never dated due to a communication breakdown. Recently we have started to become closed again. It could possible go somewhere but he is a cautious as the last few ...

My friend drunkenly ranted into my voicemail. Do I call him or wait for him to contact me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2633 days ago

28 August 2017 (F) - So last night I was sat alone minding my own business when I received two phone calls , both left voicemails from a good friend of mine. He has helped me through a lot of relationship problems, he has made it clear he fancies me but he knows th...

Am I meant to be alone? I just don't understand why

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2633 days ago

27 August 2017 (F) - I am a 47 r old female. Divorced since 2012 and I have not one friend in this world... honest to GOD! I have been on a dating site and have found 2 guys that I have dated. One was a jackass and his free time was always consumed but never with me. ...

Is it ever ok for your boyfriend to insinuate that you're fat? Feeling hurt and ashamed, how do I react?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2630 days ago

27 August 2017 (F) - Hey guys :-) I was just hoping for some advice. I've been with my boyfriend for 7 years and I think of myself as a really good girlfriend to him. When we first got together we were both in very good shape. However over the years we've both put w...

I'm craving attention and wishing for a double life

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2632 days ago

27 August 2017 (F) - Before you read this. Please try not to pass judgement. I know it may be difficult for some of you and you may not understand the way I am feeling. To be honest I would pass judgement on people like me before I actually felt this way. I have be...

Barmaid I like who I'm friends with has gone off me because of other friends stirring

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 2630 days ago

27 August 2017 (M) - A female called lorna who fancied me at school was really into me, but I wasn't into her as much, as back then I wasn't into girls, not because I was gay but they were more trouble than they were worth. I recently saw her again at a working ...

My LDR says we are just prolonging the inevitable end.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2632 days ago

27 August 2017 (F) - I have been in an LDR for 8 years, and in that 8 years, we have only been physically together for a total time of 3 months on 4 occasions. The rest of the time has been spent talking almost daily on video skype and various chat apps. In recent...

I'm wondering if my b/f is into men. What are some signs to look for?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2633 days ago

27 August 2017 (F) - What are some of the signs that a guy is gay or likes men on the down low? I caught my bfs watching shemale porn. I looked into it and found the mostly straight guys watch that type of porn. He also has a friend who is gay, he said that he didn't ...

When my boyfriend makes sarcastic comments how should I react?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2632 days ago

26 August 2017 (F) - When my boyfriend makes sarcastic comments how should I react? Recently I asked if I looked fat in some new jeans and he replied "No fatter than usual!!" and then laughed and hugged me. I know its a classic "Does my bum look big on this"? question ...

I'm starting to feel like men don't think of women as anything other than meat

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2633 days ago

26 August 2017 (F) - I'm really looking for advice on how I can come can better accept things in life and see a more positive side . I'm finding my life experience is that the men I have known have seemed exceedingly caught up in women's appearances and only concerned ...

Boyfriend dumped me but when I date someone new he wants me back again

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2633 days ago

26 August 2017 (F) - So I've been dating this guy for a month but I've been starting to have dreams about my ex who I dated for a year and a half, he was a guy i could never forget but he dumped me but he keeps trying to get back together all the time and when I'm with ...

I want my boyfriend to be more tactile!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2633 days ago

25 August 2017 (F) - I am just back from a lovely weekend with my bf of 45 of one year. Things have been strained as he has joint custody of two pre-teen children and he works away twice a week plus there is 50 miles between us. There is no drama with his ex or ...

I'm shocked at being ghosted by him! How did you get over a situation like this? Advice?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2634 days ago

25 August 2017 (F) - Hello everyone After 3.5 years of a LTR, my ex dumped me over the phone because he said it would be easier and that his mind was made up. He said he didn't want to see me upset or risk going back on his decision. The only thing he kept saying w...

How do I fix this verbally abusive relationship?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2632 days ago

25 August 2017 (F) - Hi, I'm really am confused by my relationship. I am 27 and my boyfriends 29. I've been with my boyfriend for over 4 years. It's not been an easy four years tbh. When we met I just finished university. He was living with his parents, getting...

Does my situation have a future or should I give up on him?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 2636 days ago

24 August 2017 (F) - Dear Aunts, I hope you all are doing well. It has been a while since I have asked for your wise advice, but here I am again... I broke up with my boyfriend for the second time. The first time we dated for about one year and he broke up w...

Password to his personal account. Is it okay to share or not?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2628 days ago

24 August 2017 (F) - My bf and I have been together for 2 years. In the beginning of our relationship he broke trust a few times, nothing major but enough for me to lose some. The Main reason was about his ex. He got upset that I had my ex phone number still stored in ...

Boyfriend's friend comes over when I'm not there, now they slept in the same bed. What is going on?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2637 days ago

23 August 2017 (F) - when I first met my bf he had this girl that was his friend but they also hooked up a lot. And she wanted to have a relationship with him. But he didn't want to be in a relationship. She found a bf. And after a few months me and my bf started ...

He's nice but I'm not sure if I'm being hurtful or I should scram

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2638 days ago

23 August 2017 (F) - Need help deciding to stay or go... Ive been dating a very sweet man for the last four months. We met at a job so I've known him since Feb. and I admired his hard working attitude. He is not good with money tho (at least as far as I am concerned) ...

I don't want to marry a man that doesn't understand when he is being hurtful

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2638 days ago

23 August 2017 (F) - My relationship is a jumbled mess, and I don't know if I should stand by any longer or make a break for it. We both treated each other badly for a long time, but to be fair, neither of us had standards back when this all started. 10 years ago, ...

Letting things go and agreeing to disagree

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2636 days ago

22 August 2017 (F) - How do you agree to disagree with your partner. We had a conversation the other day and he said something which he is down right refusing to admit to. I know he said it as it was the last thing he said. I know its not the end of the world but i have ...

How can I fix this? I'm in a rocky LDR and I am catfishing another woman!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2639 days ago

22 August 2017 (F) - Hi Aunts and Uncles. I'll try and keep this short. I'm a 30 year old female in a longterm and longdistance same sex relationship. Since we moved apart about 8 months ago, things have become boring. When wectalk it's generally quite negative a...

I'm ready to leave, but how do I take my dignity with me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 2638 days ago

22 August 2017 (F) - Ive been seeing a 34 year old guy for two full months now. He treats me well, takes me out to nice places well until i saw him texting other girls on social me. I caught him once flirting with girls the one time we went shopping together. I told him ...

My boyfriend is asking for more than I can afford.

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2632 days ago

22 August 2017 (F) - Dear Aunts, I have been visiting my boyfriend for a week now so today im leaving ive decided to take him out for lunch. He just told me that it would be better if i buy him grocery. Im a student I don't have that kind of money. All i wanted was to ...

Didnt cheat but feel guilty ?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 2638 days ago

21 August 2017 (M) - Me and my gf have dated for about a year and a half. A few months ago. I've never flirted or talked to or tried to cheat on her (never even thought about it. Me and her were going through an extremely rough patch, constantly arguing, and bei...

She didn't like my solo comment to a girl online and now she won't speak to me

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2637 days ago

21 August 2017 (M) - Been seeing this girl a month , I like her she is the good girl sweet type.. It took her forever to have sex with me.. she hasent had sex in 4 years had an abusive ex .. long story short I was on Facebook chatting up another girl I wasn't hiding it ...

Dealing with my son's father?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2640 days ago

20 August 2017 (F) - My son's father never wanted to know anything about his son when I tried to reach out to him when our son was born. Now at 2 months he finally responded to my texts and his mom actually was the one to speak to me. She has been kind this whole time ...

I've been snooping and finding messages my boyfriend has sent to people on Craigslist

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 2639 days ago

20 August 2017 (F) - Hi everyone My boyfriend and I have been living together for 2 years dating for 3. This summer we moved to a new town for his work. He really hated the job but had to do it to move up. One week, our sex life was amazing, he was tired but came h...

Do couples have to be united on everything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 2641 days ago

19 August 2017 (F) - Do couples have to be united on everything? my boyfriend is frustrated because he feels like people treat him as less than. When I first met him, I saw that he was the butt of peoples jokes. That was 10 years ago. We've been together for 5 y...

We've fallen out over nothing. What do I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2642 days ago

19 August 2017 (M) - I've been hanging out with this girl for the past 2 months(i know im slow). We have a pretty good friendship and I could tell it was heading towards a relationship. We had an awesome couple of days planned(aka dates) and basically we broke down and ...

Family problems blighting my future with him

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 2640 days ago

19 August 2017 (F) - Me and my fiancé have been together for over 2 years now. During his past relationship with his ex' this women had already had a child by someone else. This child was very little when they started dating. During the time they were together he got ...

Am I too sensitive or he just rude?

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 2642 days ago

18 August 2017 (F) - Would you be upset at your BF for ignoring a "Thinking of you" text you sent to him? I can see he opened it but he didn't respond. About an hour later, I saw he was on Facebook for 45 min til 11 p.m. While he was on FB I sent him a heart on ...

His ex randomly pops up!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 2643 days ago

17 August 2017 (F) - My .... ex? current bf?... I don't know what we are... we dated for a year,he cheated several times, I broke up with him and 6 months later we are seeing each other and acting like a couple. To him and his friends and immediate family, he introduces ...

How do I talk to him aboug where we stand?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 2643 days ago

17 August 2017 (F) - I've been dating a lovely man for 23 months and no sex. He says he has libido problems but does nothing about it. We have good times when we are together and he phones me every night to discuss his work. I know that I'm more attracted to him, ...