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Archived questions from: February, 2016 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Did my boss proposition me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3178 days ago

29 February 2016 (F) - I had this wiered convorsation with my boss. Think he might have propositioned me but not sure. I now feel very awkward at work. Him: Do you ever think about doing something you shouldn't do? Me: No never I'm a saint. Do you? Him: All t...

Beautiful girlfriend makes me feel worthless

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3179 days ago

29 February 2016 (M) - I really need help. My girlfriend is threatening to break up with me and it seems all I do is not enough. Right now she's telling me she's broken up and that she doesn't want me. But come later that may change. It's the same yesterday. We agre...

He says I lack spontaneity. I hate lies. He lied to his family. Was my reaction right or wrong?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3179 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - Dear friends, I've just had a stupid argument with my husband. We made up, but I would still like to hear your opinions as I strongly believe that I am right. Here's what happened. I hate lying. But, I agreed to support him with this particul...

Have I rushed into dumping him ? How can I ask him for another chance?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3180 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - I dont know if ive made a mistake , I dumped my boyfriend yesterday because i came last in his life. I know work and family come first. I wouldnt expect to come before them, but he couldnt give me the time i wanted. I'm not demanding. I'd be ha...

Any ideas on what to do about my Bf who stares at women too often and for too long?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3179 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for 3 years we have a baby girl together. The problem is everywhere we go he stares at other women and it makes me feel so unattractive and unwanted, as he never shows me any affection nor love. Nor tells ...

Communication issues with my 21 year old partner. What am I supposed to do in this situation?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3180 days ago

28 February 2016 (F) - Hi So i'm getting pretty desperate for someone to talk to about my relationship problems, and i've put off asking for help so many times because there's so much that needs including in the explanation that you would end up reading an essay. So ...

Why why do girls dump guys who treat a girl like an angel?

This question has 29 answers - newest was posted 3175 days ago

27 February 2016 (M) - I wonder why ladies, I never hear a woman, talk about them dumping a nice guy, on here. I here all the time,How they get hurt, by the guy who treated them bad. It does happen all the time, a guy treats a woman fantastic. Then a woman, breaks t...

I made an awful first impression, how can I 'correct' it?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3181 days ago

27 February 2016 (F) - Hi i need advice on a dating matter . i am an extremely shy person and i went on a date with a wonderful guy the problem is i drank before meeting him it gave me too much confidence i know how to handle my drink but wanted rid of all the nerves. ...

Should I continue a relationship with someone who doesn't want children?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3177 days ago

27 February 2016 (F) - I am currently at crossroads in my life. I found a guy I truly love and loves me for who I am. We seem to be made for each other. In fact, I feel that we are soul mates if not for one terrible flaw in him. He hates children! I have seen the wa...

I'm appalled at his disrespect, but what can I do? Is it time to breakup?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3180 days ago

26 February 2016 (F) - My partner of 3 years goes out each thursday night with friends, this is usually fine but i am at work on a friday so do prefer him not to come in too late. He usually comes in about 1am. Weve had a number of arguments about this mainly because ...

Facing sibling rivalry and family disinterest in my wedding. Should I delete them from my life?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3158 days ago

25 February 2016 (F) - Its not that I'm an attention seeker I'm the opposite but I'm starting to feel a damper on my wedding and its affecting me a lot lately. Had I known my family would not care about the wedding I would have eloped if i know how much it affects ...

Is this a break-up? Boyfriend and I haven't talked in 3 days after argument. Please help

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3179 days ago

25 February 2016 (F) - On Monday me and my boyfriend got into a fight over something small and now he hasn't said one word to me in 3 whole days ! I'm worried. I don't want it to be over I just wanna work it out . yesterday he called and let it ring 3 times and hung up ...

How do I contact this married man to tell him I'm pregnant? I want him to help support me!

This question has 21 answers - newest was posted 3180 days ago

25 February 2016 (F) - Dear Cupid I'm the op of this post "He lied to me..he was cheating on his wife with me. Do I tell her?", which I posted a month back. I found out that I'm pregnant few days back and I'm positive he is the father since I didn't have sex with an...

My girlfriend is unhappy that I'm watching porn so she retaliated by posting photos of herself on the internet!

This question has 30 answers - newest was posted 3182 days ago

23 February 2016 (M) - Ok I'll get straight to the point. Like most women my girlfriend hates porn. I told her when we got together that I didn't like it either, but recently she caught me watching it. We've now been together for 3 years. Needless to say she got really ...

I have feelings for a co-worker but what about my boyfriend of 3 years?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3184 days ago

23 February 2016 (F) - I think I have feelings for a guy at work, despite being in a relationship with my boyfriend of almost 3 years. I know it's dangerous getting into things with other colleagues at work but on our Christmas works do we shared a drunken kiss, since th...

I get anxious about my fiance and his female friends

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3183 days ago

23 February 2016 (F) - I am currently engaged to a man with whom I have been together, on and off, for the past 8 years. In these 8 years we have gotten together and broken up about 4 times. Inside of these 8 years I had a 2-year relationship with a woman (during the off ...

What are my options? I can't tell my gf because I don't want to break up with her

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3185 days ago

22 February 2016 (M) - Hi, so I’m in love with girl that I’ve been with for 4 years, were 20 years old and we’ve been living together in our own flat for the last two years. She’s an orphan and has little contact with her family and does not have a lot of friends. She’s ...

Is this worth saving?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 3184 days ago

22 February 2016 (F) - Me and my boyfriend have been together for just under 2 years. I have recently been under some stress at work. I have a lot on at uni. We live an hour away from each other so its difficult to just see each other - a couple hours here and there. So ...

Was it reasonable for him to get that worked up because I looked so upset by how bad I looked on a photo?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3185 days ago

22 February 2016 (F) - I had an argument with my boyfriend yesterday and I'm wondering if people agree he did it as an excuse not to see me today. We took my daughter out for her birthday yesterday and he ended up taking photos of me when I wasn't looking, he took...

Is it OK to make my girlfriend choose between me and her friend?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

21 February 2016 (M) - Ok my girlfriend has a female friend, but this friend hates me for no reason and gets "bad vibes" from me. This friend has tried to break our relationship many times and spreads horrible rumours about me even though I've never been mean to her. The ...

Nearly 5 years and he says it was a relationship of convenience

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3185 days ago

21 February 2016 (F) - My guy just told me it was a relationship of convenience and nothing beyond. I am hurt, shocked and heartbroken right now. It is not what I expected to hear after nearly five years. I don't know what to say or how to react. ...

Should I leave home because of my mom? She expects me to clean and help with bills and I think she needs to be told off

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

21 February 2016 (F) - I need some help dealing with my mum. I moved back home a couple of years ago and she makes me contribute financially and she complains when I make noise and wake her up but I am nearly 30 so I need to be able to come and go as I please and I don't ...

What suggestions can help me in my situation ? Pregnant and with an abusive husband

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

21 February 2016 (F) - I am 29 years old and married since two years. Also I am 6 months pregnant with our first kid. My husband Ill treats me. He used to do so before my pregnancy and many a times I had thought of leaving him. But now after I got pregnant he had ...

How should one deal with a narcissist in the family?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

21 February 2016 (F) - My husband grew up with a narcissistic mother and father (should he start playing lottery ? ;). Father is out of the picture. He was a liar and a thief. I've seen him steal in a shop and deny that later. We live far away so his mother does not rep...

Is there a better way to try to date girls who'll like me, and not see me as their 'second choice'?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3179 days ago

20 February 2016 (?) - What's the point of dating/settling down with girls who have dated/had sex with better guys before you? In high school/ college the loud fratty tall guys were getting looks/getting talked about and relationships/sex while I had to struggle for ...

Should I continue to trust my BF? My gut instinct is not to.

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - Hi Cupids, I have a worry that has been giving me sleepless nights for nearly three months now. All my intuition tells me not to believe my BF anymore. And try hard as I might, I find it very hard to trust him now. All started at the beginn...

Have you ever done anything on a date that caused the other person to never call again?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3163 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - I did. And I keep beating myself up for it. Any stories about doing something on a date (or even just in the dating process) that led to never getting called again? Please share! I will feel a lot better...

An ex, a breakup. Why is he acting this way, now?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3187 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - I fell out with a close friend I became romantically involved with briefly a few years ago. It was a complicated situation but resulted in is not talking for 2 years Then he started making the odd text messages occasionally and even after how he t...

I lost my baby and family disagreements and making me feeling sad and disturbed

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3186 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - I just lost my baby and now I feel very sad,aside from that I've been haveing very disturbing dreams and I feel so scared of losing my boyfriend. Now, family's are involved and my boyfriend and I are having disagreement between a argument that ...

My husband chose this other woman over our daughter and me and now wants a divorce

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3189 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - Hi everyone hope you can help me out today. Well I'll start off by saying I'm recently separated and in the process of divorce. I was married for the last 8 years to a man who I really thought was the love of my life and everything I've ...

Its getting on my nerves that my boyfriend tries to act like my parent and hes the same age as me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3188 days ago

20 February 2016 (F) - So my boyfriend is a complete know it all. I'm a big of a laggy in high school, only in my junior year though I'd like to transfer schools. He said I'm being an irrational child over this, and that I'm just mad over failing a class. I actually have ...

I believed my married boyfriend's lies until I could no longer deny the truth. Now I am broken!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3179 days ago

19 February 2016 (F) - Recently broke up with my boyfriend after two consuming and loyal years.I was bought up with utmost moral but seemingly started my relationship with my ex while he was separated from his wife.The constant struggle between my inner conscience and ...

Am I wrong for over reacting when my ex asks me daily whether I'm on my period?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3188 days ago

19 February 2016 (?) - My ex asks me every single day whether I am on my period yet. He butters me up before he does it, asks me how I am, calls me beautiful, says he wishes we were still happy together before he pops the question. Its either: "Are you on yet?" "Are you ...

Why does my lover play the push and pull game?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3189 days ago

19 February 2016 (F) - Why does my lover push and pull? I am actually quite fed up with it. After 5 years, I don't want to be ignored and sent minimal three word texts. Have told him as much. I would much rather be told if he needed his space, didn't want to message. Not ...

The problem is that after ten years of marriage we never have sex !! How to deal with this stress?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3189 days ago

18 February 2016 (F) - I need some help. I've been with my husband now for 10 years. I'm 27 and he is 43. Obviously there is an age gap but it has never been an issue up until now. The problem is sex. We never have it. Its very rare and he says its because of stres...

What have I done to these women? How should I respond if a similar situation arises?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3189 days ago

18 February 2016 (F) - Does anyone else struggle in social settings? I'm a young mum and my 3 year old was invited to her friends Birthday party. We went along and I seen none of the Mums I speak to from the Nursery were there, and I was the youngest Mum. I tried b...

My boyfriend is stressed and depressed and wants space but I don't want to leave him alone to deal with things

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3190 days ago

18 February 2016 (M) - Hi everyone, So I've been with my boyfriend now for just over a year, but a few days ago he announced out of the blue that 'things had changed' and he wasn't sure if we could be together anymore. He was crying this whole time and saying how he st...

Am I over reacting with my fiance's behavior?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3188 days ago

18 February 2016 (F) - Okay so a little background, we have been going out for three years, engaged for six months and getting married next year. We do have a great relationship and I know he is the one for me. We do have our small arguments like every other couple. ...

My married boyfriend is acting distant but he still wants to be with me. I am not sure what's going on?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3190 days ago

18 February 2016 (F) - Please no judgment. I have been having an affair with a married man for close to 3 years. It's been amazing. But lately he seems a little more distant. His texts are less frequent and shorter. He says he is just being cautious. He sexted me ...

I have feelings for a guy that I work with

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3190 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) - I have feelings for a guy that I work with!! On our works Christmas party we kissed, before this we had a laugh and banter together. Since the kiss, we have spoken everyday since. Just general chat, the odd compliment, generally just getting to ...

Am I silly for being disappointed and upset that my much richer boyfriend got me absolutely nothing for Valentine's Day?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3190 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been dating for close to two years. I am upset , disappointed he didn't get my anything for Valentine's Day. I got him a cute bag with his favorite candy , card , along with shoes. I would of been happy with a thoughtful ...

We've been dating for 2 years and my jobless girlfriend depends on me for everything!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3191 days ago

17 February 2016 (M) - Here it is! My girlfriend and i have been together for two yrs. She has no job, no car, and depends on me for her children's appointment s or shopping and the like. I have no problem helping her as she had let me stay with her in the begining...

How do I politely tell this man that I don't wish to stay in contact?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3190 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) - How do I let someone know politely that I don't want to be in contact with them any more? So there's a guy who I used to be kind of friends with in another city. I've met up with him a handful of times and we chatted occassionally on skype. For the ...

Is it love or just habit? Can a husband truly love his wife if he cheats for years?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3191 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) - Can a man cheating on his wife for four plus years really love her? Even if he was straying because of sex- something that he is not getting in his marriage? He doesn't love the other woman- don't know if he cares for her or just using her for ...

Trapped by love I can't return

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3191 days ago

17 February 2016 (M) - I've been with this girl for over a year. She loves me like no one has ever loved me before. She wants children with me and wants a life with me. We've travelled together and we get along great - we have fun together. She can make me laugh, I can...

Where do I draw the line with LDR BF who is becoming provocative and sexually disrespectful?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3191 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) - Hi there, I’m after some advice about a new relationship. It’s long distance and we met online. He’s a bit older than me and has been married before. He’s not really my type but pursued me, was incredibly lovely to me at the beginning, we ha...

What can I do about this situation? My male friend is too controlling

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3189 days ago

17 February 2016 (F) - My male friend is very controlling I think. He wants everything to be on his terms. He decides when and where we hang out. If he doesn't have time, we don't do anything and won't even try to compromise. I was having a party last week and he said...

How do I get the strength to leave the boyfriend who has been violent in the past?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3191 days ago

16 February 2016 (?) - I've been in a 12 year relationship with my boyfriend. We never married. I'm 36 years old now and we don't have kids etc. We have had loads of ups and downs and yes I'm ashamed to say he's been violent in the past. I have little money etc, ...

I used a fake name on the website because I had been stalked in the past, now my b/f wants to end things!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3173 days ago

16 February 2016 (F) - I met an older man about 14 years older then me on an online dating site. I went by my username since I met him, however I started a physical relationship with him 7 months ago. I just recently told him my real name because I started falling in love ...

I want my boyfriend to be romantic again! He's gotten too comfortable

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3192 days ago

16 February 2016 (F) - Dear cupid me and my bf have been together a year and 4 months.We are pretty happy 80% of the time. But lately I feel taken for granted.Sometimes he seems irritable with me for no reason and im getting trust issues from this.I feel like he's getting ...