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anonymous
writes:I think I have feelings for a guy at work, despite being in a relationship with my boyfriend of almost 3 years. I know it's dangerous getting into things with other colleagues at work but on our Christmas works do we shared a drunken kiss, since then we've messaged each other pretty much every day. So 3 months this has been going on. Recently he said he doesn't want to message me anymore as its more stress in his life that he doesn't need (he's having trouble with his ex, child and suffering depression) although a few days ago he wanted to meet me again. I'm confused as one day he's nice to me and the other he doesn't want to know me. I don't get it but after him saying he doesn't want to message me anymore, that's when I realised I have feelings for him as I don't want this, I got a horrible feeling in my stomach and just wanted to cry.I mustn't love my boyfriend to start developing feelings for someone else? I'm just confused and would like help on this situation please
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2016): I know maybe a day out with this new guy talking would help you would just be talking and confiding and see how you get on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 February 2016): You are cheating on your boyfriend already. The kiss, is cheating, and the messaging everyday is emotional cheating. You need to work out what you want.And think very carefully because what your doing is not fair on your boyfriend. If you want to stay with your boyfriend, you must delete your co-workers number, block him on every social media and keep things professional at work. I understand the work thing is going to be hard, but try and keep contact to a minimum.This happened to be about 2 years ago, and it was awful. Nothing happened with the guy I liked, but I just felt so guilty that I was having all these feelings for someone else. But I stopped speaking to him, and the feelings went away. It doesn't mean you don't love your boyfriend, these things happen sometimes.Good luck!
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