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Archived questions from: June, 2015 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

How can I resolve this problem? My trust in him has gone as I have a suspicion that my husband may have taken nude pictures of me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3383 days ago

30 June 2015 (F) - In the past my husband has snapped pictures of me in the shower and changing. I told him to delete the pictures each time. I have told him he can't take nude pictures of me without my consent. This all started after we got married. Recently...

Am I nitpicking or are these various issues, such as her very bad breath, deal breakers in our relationship?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3422 days ago

30 June 2015 (M) - Hiya Agony Aunts. There are a few things that nag at me about this girl I just started dating, and I'm not sure why. As y'all are likely older and more experienced than I am, I'd like your perspective. We started dating about 3 or 4 week...

Was this breakup just a rash decision? Might he change his mind about breaking up?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3423 days ago

30 June 2015 (F) - Last night my boyfriend of 4 years and I had an argument and he broke up with me. Then he texted and said he loves me, etc. But i haven't heard from him today. We have a great relationship 95% of them time and when we argue he sometimes makes rash...

My boyfriend speaks English but uses his language most of the time. I don't like it!

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3423 days ago

30 June 2015 (F) - Hi, I have been dating a guy over 2 years and in the first year we communicated in English and then after a year I noticed he started talking in his native language to everyone his friends,his parents(which he always did)his sister,his best friend w...

He's kind of a jerk but the man I think I deserve at this stage in my life. Is it wrong to think that way?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3423 days ago

30 June 2015 (F) - For five months I've known him and we've argued more than I have through any previous relationship! He's stubborn and selfish with anger issues-he knows this. I'm secretive, vindictive and have issues I haven't yet dealt with...my first boyfriend ...

Am I wasting my time even though he claims he wants me?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3423 days ago

29 June 2015 (F) - I've been with my partner for 7 years. We are both divorced, have families, baggage if you like. It hasn't been easy but we have some good times in our social life. The problem is he doesn't want sex, not with me anyway. I have caught him 3 times ...

I didn't care for g/f getting heavier but suddenly our sex life has become awesome. Have I conditioned myself to like her body?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3422 days ago

29 June 2015 (M) - Hi. I'm in a bit of a strange place with my love life and wondered what people thought. I've been with my girlfriend for coming up to six years now, 3 of which we have lived together. I used to absolutely love her slim, toned figure but after we ...

Is it best to distance myself even though I love my family? I can't stand all the bickering

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3421 days ago

29 June 2015 (F) - How can I stop resenting my family. I love them but can't get on with them? It has got worse as I have grown up. Too many clashing, strong personalities, every wants to be right. There's too much to go into but I can't breath around them anymore,...

My friend is heart broken and I don't know how to help her

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3422 days ago

29 June 2015 (M) - Hi , Its been one year since my best buddy has fallen love with her colleague.Beside that her colleague has a girlfriend with whom he wants to get married. She knows it but can't help getting depressed about it.Beside that her colleague tells ...

I'm so nervous about dating that I can't show this guy the real me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3424 days ago

29 June 2015 (F) - Hi, I am really into this guy, you'll know this if you have read my previous questions. He used to work next door to me and would come to visit me everyday at work and would make it very clear that he liked me. We kissed last week but we're not to...

Long distance lover suddenly acts weirdly

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3421 days ago

29 June 2015 (M) - I love a woman in a long distance relationship. we met once in my country. everything was ok for last three years, until from recent times she started to behave weirdly. ok so the basic problem is, i cannot have sex with her while we met for just ...

I love my boyfriend but its mentally draining to be with him

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3423 days ago

29 June 2015 (F) - Hi all, Thank you in advance for taking the time to read my question. I am having some trouble with my relationship and would really appreciate some help in figuring out the problem. I met my boyfriend 7 months ago at my new job. If I’m hon...

Ex boyfriend treats me as his girlfriend

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3425 days ago

28 June 2015 (F) - My ex and I have been broken up for almost 5mos now. We didn't see each other for the first 3mos but within the last 2mos we have been hanging it out. We were together for a year. We did have sex a few times here and there but I don't feel bad about ...

Is it worth remaining in a relationship if you don't trust a person?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3425 days ago

28 June 2015 (F) - Is it worth being in a relationship if you do not trust someone? I love my boyfriend, very very much. Yet, I think he does things that are a little shady. Lately too, I've been wondering if he is cheating. He didn't want me to see his phone so...

Was it wrong that I wanted to share a dance with him? He's unhappy with me. My friends say I should leave him.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3425 days ago

28 June 2015 (F) - Hi all, so lately my friends have been telling me I should leave my boyfriend.. We've been together for a year and a half.. So this is what happened. We graduated and we had a grad ball for us to celebrate and have a good time. So a day before ...

We have an amazing connection but he says we'll meet up and then never contacts me till its too late!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3425 days ago

28 June 2015 (F) - Hey everyone,here is my problem So this guy I have been seeing we have been on 5 dates to now and it's been very on and off there is no spontaneity,no flow..he disappears then comes right back and ask if we could meet up!last date I told him I find ...

20 never had a boyfriend..am I that ugly? invisible?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3414 days ago

28 June 2015 (M) - What's so bad about me? Am I that ugly? Am I that invisible. It's so frustrating that I'm almost 21 and have never had a boyfriend and never had the opportunity to experience love. I feel like guys don't even see me or they just don't care. I ...

Should I wait while he works on his mental health?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3398 days ago

28 June 2015 (F) - Hi everyone! I split up with my long term boyfriend 2 months ago. Things started to go really wrong about 4 months before that and it all came to a head when I found texts from another girl on his phone. He has had terrible money problems 6 months ...

I know he's my ex. So should I be wanting to know all about his current life and what he's up to? How can I move on and not obsess like this?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3425 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - How do I stop being suspicious about what this girl is doing with my ex? My ex left me after a year, for another woman, 2 or 3 months back. It hurt me terrible and my ex stopped speaking to me over it. The thing is - I can't stop obsessing ove...

Mismatched libido. I feel she thinks her needs are more important than mine. I need help. What do I do?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3424 days ago

27 June 2015 (M) - My wife won't come on to me! We are the same age and for years we've only had sex once a month. I've always been the first one to initiate sex. If I don't initiate the sex we won't have sex. I've tried waiting patiently, I've tried explaining...

I lost it. Smashed a glass coffee table top. Was I in the wrong for anything? What should I do in this situation?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3426 days ago

27 June 2015 (F) - Hey all... got a dilemma in my almost 3 year relationship. When I first met him I fell in head over heels love with him. We had the very best relationship that made people jealous seeing how happy we were together. Until months went by and I fo...

I found my dad is cheating on my mom... AGAIN! What should I do?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3426 days ago

26 June 2015 (F) - Hi everyone I feel very sad and disappointed. I just found my dad has been texting another woman. This is the third time I find out he does this. The first two times I have told my mom about it and she tried to deal with it. The last time thi...

Please give me advice on how to deal with the looking at him thing and also his moods!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 3424 days ago

26 June 2015 (F) - Hi there :) I'll make this as short as possible... So my bf and I have been together for almost a year and a half.. And today we graduated high school... As he was receiving his award I was looking at him at all times and for a brief moment he ...

How could he go from being the (I thought) love of my life to marrying another girl five months after we broke up and leave me when I was feeling vulnerable?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3424 days ago

26 June 2015 (?) - Hi, I went through a terrible breakup in December. We were in a long distance relationship for 4.5 years at the time of breakup. Last year while I was finishing my masters I got placed at the first company that visited our campus (Top company in ...

He's amicably seperated but procrastinates about divorce

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3427 days ago

26 June 2015 (F) - I am in desperate need of advice. My boyfriend has been seperated and not living with his wife for five years, they have no kids. We have been dating for 3 and a half years. My boyfriend and his ex are friends and as a child of divorced parents ...

He sent this woman sexual text messages but he said he did it because he thought it was a friend of mine I sent to play a trick

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3427 days ago

25 June 2015 (F) - Hello i am a 37 year old woman and i have been in a relationship with this 50 year old man for two years. We've gad some rocky times but overall its been nice, we love each other and we had plans to marry, but last night i was on the phone with him ...

She says she will not sleep with anyone while we are "actively working on our relationship" How am I supposed to trust her ?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

25 June 2015 (M) - A little background on my marriage, we've been together for 10 years and married for almost 5 and we have an almost 6 year old son. Before this we had only ever been intimate with each other. Back in December my wife and I seperated. I was...

I just want someone to tell me if my feelings are justified?!! Or not?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

25 June 2015 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 2 and a half years now and things have never been perfect from the start but I chose to ignore the first warning signs. We met years ago then lost contact and started talking online again 3 years ago, we decided ...

I found a hotel key in my fiance's pocket. Help ! I don't know what to do

This question has 18 answers - newest was posted 3418 days ago

25 June 2015 (F) - I was doing the laundry last night and I found a hotel key in my fiance's pocket. The day before, he had gone off to run an errand as well as pick up the food shopping and he took so long I started to get worried about him. A trip that should h...

Advice on getting my lover back?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3429 days ago

24 June 2015 (M) - Hey everyone, this is my very first post and I would like advice and tips on how to get a long term ex girlfriend back. My best-friend of 4 years, girlfriend of just over 2 broke up with me over a month ago and I would like to get back with he...

Am I right to feel a little scared about a man I had a brief fling with?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3429 days ago

24 June 2015 (F) - Am I right to feel a little scared about a man I had a brief fling with? The thing is - he was lovely to start with, in the beginning, but then we fell out and split up due to his continual flirting with other women on FB. I called him a pl...

Should I leave my wife?

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 2864 days ago

24 June 2015 (M) - Should I leave my wife? I have always trusted her, but because she had gone out one night about 5 years ago and returned home at 4:30 in the morning, I had started to have concerns. That night, I was supposed to pick her up at 11:00. I had cal...

Why would he discuss plans and say he loves me, yet soon after he blocked me?

This question has 17 answers - newest was posted 3427 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - Why did he want something serious and then disappear and block me? I met this guy online. We hit it off and had an instant connection. After talking for a month, we met in person. He met my friends and hung out with us a few times. We connected an...

Is my behaviour really irrational, in the circumstances?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3429 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - hi, I am little confused with my boyfriends actions lately he thinks I am making a big deal out of nothing but I think it hurts me somewhere! Let me give you 2 instances Yesterday I asked his help to write a formal letter this was for my littl...

How could he throw in the towel and walk away like that?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3430 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - My recent ex bf is 49 and I am 39..we have been together a total of 4 1/2 years with a 1 yr break in between because he thought the grass was greener.. After making him wait I took him back and we dated another 2 1/2 yrs. we broke up almost ...

My Bf is happy to spend and hour or two with me and that's it. I want to spend more time with him. Is my request to him unreasonable?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3429 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - My boyfriend got mad at me because i've been asking for more time with him. He finds time for everything else then I get an hour here and there. He said he cant keep arguing about this and now won't answer my calls. What do I do? We've been to...

He wants time apart after our years together. Does this suggest that he's already seeing someone else?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3430 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - Why would my boyfriend after 22 yrs tell me that we need time apart ? i feel he has been seeing someone else he always makes me feel like im nobody to him ...

How do I get my head around the fact that he's rejected me because I have a child?

This question has 11 answers - newest was posted 3428 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - My ex and I were together for a year and we've been broken up for 4mos. He came back a month ago wanting a second chance but then changed his mind. He says that he doesn't want to be with me because I have a child. I'm trying my best not to cry w...

Dating for three years and no sex despite my efforts to initiate! Why isn't he interested?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 3427 days ago

23 June 2015 (F) - Hi. I have a question about my relationship with my bf. We've been together for almost 3 yrs now and we rarely ever get sexually active. We haven't had sex yet. Neither one of us has had it before and when we try we don't get very far. He is 27 and ...

He claims to have picked me over all these gorgeous women but compares me to them anyway! Should I be flattered or hurt?

This question has 12 answers - newest was posted 3427 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - I've been seeing my boyfriend for a few months and there is something that is starting to get me down. I'd like to know if I'm right to be a bit upset about it. We met each other on a dating site, we get on quite well and we are both very open p...

Nothing happened, but I wish I could have slept with this old friend! What does that mean for my current relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 3430 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - I am in a long term (six years) relationship. I do love my boyfriend buthe works all the hours there are in his job. I see him rather infrequently. I met an old friend a month ago for a catch up. We got on really well and it was so lovely.to catch ...

He promised me he'd stop saving inappropriate pictures, but I caught him again and have threatened to move out! Is he being disrespectful?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - My man and I live together and have had a long term relationship. He started viewing nsfw pictures and saving them to his computer from a social site we both belong to. He promised he would stop but I found out he is doing it again. Sometimes ...

My boyfriend has been talking about a "two-year itch" and I'm worried he's had enough of me!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3430 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - Please help, im feeling really lost and starting to doubt myself. So been with my o/h for two years, prior to getting together we had been really close friends for about 13 years. We had been amazing for a while, but for about 6 months he has been ...

I have feelings for my biological cousin, but we're both married. Should I back up and run before it's too late?

This question has 14 answers - newest was posted 3424 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - I need help! I'm a 23 year old female who's catching feelings for her bio cousin. He is 22. We were raised together until about 6, when he was adopted out. I finally found him all these years later on Facebook. So here it is, a year later and we've ...

Has my girlfriend moved on? She doesn't return calls or texts

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 3429 days ago

22 June 2015 (M) - Let me preface this by saying that she has gone into hibernation or "no contact" mode for days or a week or two before on several occasions, but this time around I have a feeling that she could have "moved on". We've been dating for many years b...

Has he got a compulsive addiction? Dating him for 4 years. My bf's unusual obsession is joining free dating sites.

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3430 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - I have been in a relationship for more than 4 years. This has been held back by my bf's unusual obsession with joining free dating sites. It had been a good few months and I really thought he at last had learned his lesson. Clumsily he ac...

We've been having arguments over silly things. Is it frustration that could be causing me to get angry so quickly? But if his cousin speaks badly of me should he speak up?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 3429 days ago

22 June 2015 (F) - Okay, so I haven't used my dear cupid a little bit over a year. I first got it when I was in 8th grade or a freshman; when I was in my first serious relationship. I had put some stories on how I was pregnant at 16 and so forth. Anyway's, ...

My friend says it's emotional blackmail. My mother says breakup with him. He's my first ''proper'' relationship. What should I do?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 3431 days ago

21 June 2015 (F) - So I've been in a relationship for 2 years, I just turned 17 and I have known him for goodness knows how long, we went to primary together and I know people say going out with you best friend never work but I genuinely thought we did, until the last ...

How do I choose new boundaries when in the process of breaking up with someone?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 3430 days ago

21 June 2015 (F) - I feel it may be time for me to break up with my boyfriend, even though I love him, because we're incompatible in finances and maturity. It hurts me to think of doing a cold cut from him, especially since he's my longest relationship. When you...

Our 12 year old son shows no interest in family life and ignores Father's day and Mother's day. How should I approach these issues with him?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 3427 days ago

21 June 2015 (M) - I have a 12 year old son. He dosn't show much interest in spending time with the family. His life revolves around computers, video games, and similar devices. We have tried installing firm and strict usage rules, and even downright a "ban" on compu...