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writes:Hi there :) I'll make this as short as possible... So my bf and I have been together for almost a year and a half.. And today we graduated high school... As he was receiving his award I was looking at him at all times and for a brief moment he looked at me once.. The thing is, I wanted to look at him when I received mine, but the teacher shaking my hand was talking to me and asked me to face the camera so I couldn't do it. Now, I think my bf felt a little hurt that I didn't do that?? I told him what happened.. And then when I received another award off stage, he said he was looking at me and I didn't look at him.. That was my bad but I was so physched that I received a gold award and like I looked up to look for him but couldn't find him.. So now he's mad/sad/ hurt I suppose.. But before he told me this, after the awards, we got together and took photos and he didn't even introduce me to his mum.. I felt quite sad about that.. But like I let it go cuz like I understand he doesn't want his parents knowing about us.. And then he got upset that my father looked pissed and like made me panic and stuff.. So basically his moods were everywhere and idk what in the world to do. So please give me some advise on how to deal with my bf about the looking at each other thing and how to deal with his moods??? If you have any questions I'll answer them! Thank you so much! Ps I need a quick answer cuz I really want my bf and I to have a good prom night tmr.. HELP MEHHHHHHH THANKS!! Reply to this Question
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reader, Honeypie  +, writes (29 June 2015):
 You have been together for 18 months and he has NEVER introduced you to his family? At your age? That is odd. WHY would he NOT want his parents to know?
If a GUY hides you from his family, he is either ashamed of you... or he isn't SERIOUS about you.
Let this little drama-queen go.
He is so insecure that you constantly apologize for things you DIDN'T do wrong, just to placate him. Seriously. He needs to GROW up and you need to realize that it's NOT OK for any guy to treat you this way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2015): Hi there,
To me, it seems like he is overreacting and was then bitter about you not paying enough attention to him. You really don't want to be around someone who would hold a grudge over something so silly.
You apologized for the mistake and that should be enough. If it isn't, that's not on you anymore, that's on him. Sorry if that's a little blunt, but it's true.
Best of luck and congratulations on graduating!
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