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Archived questions from: March, 2013 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Should I just ask him to leave my house and be civil for our son or should I try work on things?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - I'm mortified my partner has gone away for a weekend with a mate we have chatted every day like normal and made plans to go on a mini break together Except tonight he sent me a message asking me if we are meant to be together I asked him why he...

Is it hopeless or could he ever truly love me?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - I am absolutely heartbroken because I've found the person who I know is meant for me, and I know in my heart that I love him more than I'll ever love anyone. He's divorced (I know this for a fact) and has a little boy with his ex wife. I underst...

I feel like my boyfriend has double standards!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - Today was Easter and my boyfriend left me alone. Though I am not religious at all, it's a holiday and we had agree to at least see each other (actually, he even got a bit sad when I said I'd spend the day with my family, instead of with him). He i...

I've just found out he has a baby son! He never told me!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - I have been seeing a guy casually for nearly a year and a half now. I am developing strong feelings for him but now I have just found out that prior to meeting me he got a girl pregnant and had a baby son. I found out from one of his friends not him ...

I told her I needed space and now I find she's been having sex with the husband of one of her friends! I'm shocked!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

31 March 2013 (M) - My girlfriend and I have been dating for 7 years and recently I told her I needed some space because I am currently in school trying to finish my degree in Respiratory therapy which has been extremely stressful. We still see each other once a week ...

I agree to trying for a baby, then I panic and I just don't think I can handle it! Is this normal?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - Hi everyone, I hope this question is going to make sense, my heads a mess and I'm struggling to make sense of it all to put to you. But basically what it is, is that me and my partner discussed having a baby about 3-4 months ago, now we are in a ver...

Should I pursue this or drop the relationship?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

31 March 2013 (M) - Oh man this is a rough one. I hope someone can steer me in a better way of thinking! My current girlfriend, whom I have been seeing roughly 6 weeks messed up majorly. Now don't get me wrong, I really do love her. It was an instant feeling, and it ...

Girlfriend wants space but I don't get mine.

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

31 March 2013 (M) - Please be honest and tell me if I'm being unreasonable. Today my girlfriend told me that she wanted some space to spend with her friends, etc. I completely understood and said that that was absolutely fine. I left her at hers and went about ...

My married friend's husband keeps calling me! What can I do?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4235 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - Hi everyone! I first wrote for help here 3 years ago with the same problem and it is still going on. My friends husband used to ring me over and over again late at night begging me to talk to him or ring him back. Sometimes he would text. This...

Why did this girl walk away the minute she moved into the house with her boyfriend and not speak to me for a couple of years and then get back in touch, mess me around and fob me off and then shut me out again?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

31 March 2013 (M) - Hi there. Four years ago I had a relationship with a girl who was about to move in with her long term boyfriend. I know it was wrong but I was lonely and inexperienced and she had issues with her bf and had recently lost her father. We met at ...

My boyfriend enjoys sleeping with other women and swinging and I'm tired of some creep touching me because my B/f wants to sleep with his wife

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend enjoys sleeping with other women and swinging. Rather it be me and another girl with him or a full couple swap. At first I was alright with it, didn't put up much of a fight and probably even enjoyed it. But now it's like he's obsessed ...

What are the chances he'll come back home?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4213 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - Need advice please..sorry it's a bit long but l prefer to explain fully..... my husband and l have been married 14 years this year, back in 2007 he had an emotional affair with a woman who was supposed to be my best friend..(all 3 of us worked t...

How do I tell my partner nicely that I don't like what he does without even asking me if its alright?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - This is a difficult situation so please bear with me and read it all. My partner and I have been together 4 years, we have gone through alot together, his mum passed away and we took on her home/debts/ money etc. We have only just started to g...

How can I get this boring clingy guy to leave me alone? I'm not interested in him.

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - I need help. This friend of mine will not leave me alone. I think he's obsessed with me. He asked me out but I turned him down because he is just not my type and to be honest he's boring and clingy. Since then everything I have said that I'm doin...

What is really going on with my friend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4258 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - I met this guy a few months back through mutual friends. We after a couple of times hanging out, he asked for my phone number. Now he has become one of my good guy friends. We text pretty much everyday. When we go out he always checks to see if...

Why does she play this game of drawing my attention and then ignoring me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

31 March 2013 (M) - Hi Everyone so here it goes, 6 Months ago I fell in love with this girl to this day I am still in love with her, I used to obsess about her and when I finally became friends with her things started to get better but then I told her I liked her ...

Nothing seems to make her cum, she won't tell me what she wants, please help!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4257 days ago

31 March 2013 (M) - Okay so my sex techniques aren't good enough for my girlfreind . Before you over look this as me not going down on her or lacking basic no how, let me explain in detail. I have been with 8 women and made 3 of them cum (squirt, and p***y clench). My ...

Should I be worried that he's still not over his ex yet?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

31 March 2013 (F) - I have been with my boyfriend for six months. He is 30 and I'm 29, and we started living together about a month ago. It was around this time when he first told me he loved me too. Things are going really well. We get along great and are very sex...

Could he be falling in love again with his ex? I am so afraid of being abandoned all over again

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 4242 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - So devastated I can't eat, or sleep, am an absolute mess. Suppose you're in a relationship with a divorced man... His ex-wife is aware of your relationship, and she harbors hatred and spite towards you... they get on well and see each other ...

He makes me feel uptight. Should I stay with him? I can't relax with him as he gives me "grades" on basic domestic skills

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - So this is probably going to seem like a really bizarre question but I want an outside opinion on whether this is weird or I'm just being uptight or something. So I find that my boyfriend makes quite a few corrections about my messy habits aro...

I don't love him now. He never takes me out. He lies to me. I feel he's dangerous too. How can I safely get him out of my life?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - Hi all I just need an advice on how to get rid of a very dangerous boyfriend in my life. My problem is I don’t love him anymore and when I tell him the true he fights with and ask me question like am I dating someone. I’ve tried to be honest wit...

I am in love with my good friend and he knows this. But he is not yet available. How can I deal with the despair I feel over this?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - I really need advice I am so in love with my good friend and he knows this Last year he confided he was having issues with his girlfriend of 5 years. He said he was really unhappy we got a bit close and kissed twice I was so happy Then he s...

Should I text the guy I had first date sex with?

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 4259 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - Hello I asked a question last week after I (stupidly) had first-date sex and I am still not sure what to do. This is my original post: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/sex-on-the-first-date-how-can-i34.html OK the thing is, we had sex and...

My manipulative friend is trying to split us up....what can I do??

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4256 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - I'm in a relationship with this amazing guy. we were set up through my friend and his cousin. This thing is His cousin went out with my friend but the friend was always unfaithful. She's manipulative, she wrecks peoples lives and she hurts peoples ...

Desperate to get help for my son who hates me

This question has 16 answers - newest was posted 4200 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - HI Cupid friends and aunts/uncles I don't know what else to do I am so afraid for my son because of his behaviour towards me and his life in general. I have seeked help with councilors, social services, the police just about everyone, and it...

How do I change my ways and become more social with my family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - What do I do, I feel so confused depressed, guilty, sad. I hate this. My dad always criticizes everyone so I go upstairs and go on the laptop to avoid any arguments. Iv gotten so used to this that I subconsciously do it. It's made me become very ...

I think my husband might be cheating

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - I just want to hear other thoughts to my husbands actions. Ok in december 2012 my husband was supposed to be at a certain place getting fencing post for a friends farm. ok so when he got home i noticed he didnt look dirty and i just had that fee...

The love and passion seem to have waned. He's always at the gym. What are my options for the future, and what would be best for my son and I?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - I need some advice and help! I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now, we have a little three year old boy- as you can figure this happened soon after we met and we decided to do this together. He is a great fathe...

Could his attitudes potentially drive a wedge between him and me, and affect me because of my own pet loving family?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4250 days ago

30 March 2013 (M) - Hi guys, I am so desperately looking for help So there's this guy I really like. And he expressed he likes me a lot. And everything is leading up to the possibility of us dating, except today he said one thing that makes me worried about ou...

If he refuses to give it up his drinking and his abuse, then would I be right to leave him?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend drinks of a weekend...not a problem but when he has a drink he either turns nasty and sometimes violent or the complete opposite...he stinks of beer and i hate it! we are arguing about this issue constantly, his reply to me 'nagging...

I don't know what to do! If I do break up, with the girl I love, how do I do it?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

30 March 2013 (M) - ok so my fiance and I have been dating nearly a year and we've been friends almost like 2 years. We've had ups and downs but for the most part it's been great She's my better half and I love her. Hell she's my fiancé! Anyways she shows me and tel...

Why is my friend reaching out to my enemy?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4255 days ago

30 March 2013 (F) - I "broke up" with my former best friend Margo three years ago. There's no love lost and I am very happy to have her out of my life. Not getting into the details, I truly believe that I was completely in the right to permanently cut off all contact ...

I love my boyfriend but I'm afraid I'm holding onto him for the wrong reasons

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

29 March 2013 (?) - Hey everyone, I've been pretty sad today and would like to try and get some opinions and advice. This is going to be quite long and I'm sorry, I just want to explain this as well as possible so please read it all. I am 19 and my boyfriend is 23 and ...

Married Man Keeps Staring. How can I stop this?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - This married man I work with is RIDICULOUS! Im young and single. At first it was flattering, but now it just makes me feel dirty. I just started working there a month ago and he stares at me ALL the time. I wont go into too much detail but its ...

Why do he and his friends watch me all the time?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4261 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - Why does he and his friends watch me all the time? Is weird? There's this guy that I really like and he's always staring at me when I'm not looking and he'd look away when I catch him. His friends watch me alot too. The other day he was w...

Why does everyone like this girl and want to be with her?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

29 March 2013 (?) - Dear cupid, there is this girl who I know of and I'm quite worried about her and concerned for my friends, but I don't know if I should stay out of it or start doing something about this. Basically, she is going around and fooling around a...

My ex has threatened to post naked photos of me on the internet

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4258 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - Hi there! I hope you can help me with my current situation. I was in a relationship with a foreigner (dutch guy) for about 6 mos. I decided to have full closure with him since I feel so bad about what had happened 2 mos. ago. He was like a nightmare ...

Feel unwanted and second best. Advice?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - Basically, I feel inferiour after an incident happened last week. And it was a real kick in the teeth for me after I have tryed to improve everything. I have always had really bad self esteem, and recently...

Is boyfriend's behavior common for a depressed person?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 4261 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - Okay so it's been a while since I last posted but just a quick back ground on my relationship. I've been with my bf/ fiancee for two years 3 months ( we got engaged about a year ago) we have a one yr old daughter and I'm currently 8 1/2 months ...

Want to break up with controlling boyfriend but I lost my friends, my support since he told me "you only need me."

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - Hey everyone im 18yrs old and i been dating my boyfriend for 3yrs. Its been an off and on relationship for years. At first he was everything i always wanted gave me all his love and affection. We use to have a billion and one things to talk about ...

Did she steal my boyfriend and what should I do about it?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4252 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - Me and my boyfriend were together for just over a year. He was my first love, I lost my virginity to him etc. He meant everything to me and was my best friend for a long time. 6 weeks ago he started talking to this girl who was interested in a ...

This is my 4th long term relationship. I don't want it to end but I am at my wit's end.

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - I am asking a question on behalf on my friend, who is 45. I am a guy in a 1 year 2 month relationship with a woman with 2 kids 15 and 18. My GF is 42 yo. We are in love and have talked about getting married and having a child although...

Dilemma--ex girlfriend pregnant wants me back but I'm dating someone else now

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4248 days ago

29 March 2013 (M) - Well, in late nov I met this rlly cute gurl n we really hit it off and we had sex for first weekend and we had sex again a week later n she told she took birth control. And she had her period in the same week. And then she blew me off n hurt me n we ...

How do I find the strength to move on from my ex who cheated and lied to me and his abusive GF who has also been very nasty?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - When I first started dating my boyfriend in college he introduced me to this female classmate of his and the three of us hung out together. Everything was great. Then I started to notice something strange... She and this other girl baked him cook...

Help! My Boyfriend keeps on hanging out with this other girl. Pays no attention to me. Should I break up with him?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

29 March 2013 (F) - Hey so I have a problem as my boyfriend is always hanging out with some other girl. By the way we are all in the same class. I always tell him to hang out with me but he never does. That's why I have kind of moved on from him I don't hang out with...

Should I back down in the face of my Gf mother refusal to have me in her home?

This question has 15 answers - newest was posted 4260 days ago

29 March 2013 (M) - Hi in light of my previous question I posted over a month ago I would like to ask if I’m right in thinking to stick to my guns . Basically My Gf Mother will not let me in the house because over 2 months ago my gf and I argued over something p...

Her crush claimed, to me, that he does not like her. Should I tell her?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - Hey so I wanted to know how to tell my friend her crush doesn't like her. My friend and I are very close and we trust each other. Her crush rides my bus so she is always wanting me to ask him questions so I do. Once I asked him if he likes her and...

How can I help my boyfriend and get him to open up about what is troubling him? Or does he need some more support than I can offer?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4262 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - Well I'm back together with my long distance boyfriend and everything was great, or so I thought. Lately he's been slowly going back into his old habits we talk less almost not at all and when I do talk to him his responses would be "i don't know" ...

Am I going through some teenager phase or could something seriously be wrong with me?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

28 March 2013 (?) - Hello, let me first start off by saying I know very well that the situation I am about to explain is very unhealthy and not normal but I want some opinions and advice, thank you very much in advance for taking the time to read this. I have be...

Boyfriend has stopped putting forth effort!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4261 days ago

28 March 2013 (F) - My boyfriend of a year and a half, with previous friendship of over two years has completely changed. Before, he used to text me literally every 5 minutes and was upset if we were unable to meet every other day. Now it seems as though he's fine when ...