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My fiance has sexual dreams about other women - is this normal?

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Question - (5 November 2010) 7 Answers - (Newest, 7 November 2010)
A female United States age 36-40, *exassmom3 writes:

my fiance has continuous sexual dreams of other women while he's sleeping and he wakes calling out their names. is this in any way normal?

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A female reader, nicoleray143 United States +, writes (7 November 2010):

nicoleray143 agony auntI am so sorry to be completly honest..but if your Man is Dreams about other Women this means in his Waking life he constantly thinks of these Women he is Dreaming about or other Women..so Yes its Normal if Dates lots of Different women, but i Have 1 Q for you 'Does he tell you he is having sexual Dreams about other Women or do you hear him talking in his sleep??

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010):

Absolutely normal.

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A male reader, Odds United States +, writes (5 November 2010):

Odds agony auntIs your mattress really old and lumpy? I know I had really vivid dreams and would talk in my sleep until I replaced it a year ago. Haven't had that problem since.

I have no data or scientific evidence that replacing the mattress works, just that anecdote.

As for dreams, we can't control what we dream about or what we say in our sleep. So long as you are his world when he's awake, life is good.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2010):

It's normal, but I sure wouldn't want to hear it from the one I love's lips. :-)

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A female reader, Honeypie United States +, writes (5 November 2010):

Honeypie agony auntOh yes. Don't tell me Brad Pitt or some other hunk hasn't snuck in any of your dreams in a sexual way?

No one is fully control of their dreams.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2010):

We cant control what we dream about as that part of us is accessed by a different part of our brain which we cannot say hey dont dream about this. Ill reco a book called blink to u that expands on that. Sometimes Ill have a great day then go to sleep and have horrible graphic violent nightmares...i just cant control it. If youre worried doll, just ask him for reassurance that he doesnt think of any other women in his conscious state so that you know for sure he's ur one n only lady :)

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (5 November 2010):

aunt honesty agony auntHi yes it is normal for partners to have dreams about other women, these are just fictional women and you dont have anything to worry about this is nothing to do with you or how you look, if you need more reassurance talk to your fiance about this.

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