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writes:I really love my friend in the college and I had dreams about her.. she has an angel face I hope to marry her and she actually knows about my feelings and seems to be happy about that but my problem is that she has a big sexy boobs... they make me crazy when I look at them and I feel so (horny) specially when she bends over and shows her cleavage I hardly control myself ... sometimes she wears a lowcut blouse so I spend all the time looking at her cleavage... sometimes when we do some projects I try to stand or sit in a way let me see her boobs or cleavage...even when she shows a little cleavage or wears tight shirt I still confused all the day but when she wears skirts I don't feel like that.. it seems normal thing to me (my problem is just with her boobs) she has an angel face but she also has irresistable boobs and cleavage what should I doI don't want to look at her in just a sexually way and I really love her .she is very romantic person and I believe that she don't know about my sexual feelings about her am I a bad person
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2010): No, you are not a bad person but you do sound a bit like a sniggering 13 year old.
Women have breasts, and yes guys do look but you shouldn't be so fixated with them all the time.
I would try and be a bit more discreate other wise you might start getting a reputation as a guy who's just after one thing.
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reader, ivanichiaynus  +, writes (5 November 2010):
 Er...she knows that they are big and sexy - why do you think she puts them on display?
Very few women are unaware of what turns men on and they of course capitalise on that, which is why we are putty in their hands.
Don't worry about your thoughts, she knows perfectly well what you are thinking and it seems like she goes out of her way to help you have them; leaning forward in low-cut tops, etc!
You also know that there is more to your relationship than sex, so be happy that you are so compatible.
Ivan.
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reader, mrvhappy +, writes (5 November 2010):
Hi,
When you look at her, try to look into her eyes, that way you will not be tempted to look at her boobs
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2010): You sound like a horny junior high kid with a crush!
There's nothing wrong with liking some cleavage on a girl but please don't confuse it with true love. If you love her then you would still feel that way without her big chest. I think you've got mostly physical lust right now.
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (5 November 2010):
 I do not think you a bad person because you realize that these sexual feelings you have are not something to confuse love with and that is good.
Control your urges, control your lustful thoughts. If you have a lustful thought, look into her eyes and her eyes only, think about what you would say to her and basically distract yourself from all sexual thoughts you have of her until you have better control. Do NOT act on your lustful thoughts. The next time you wish to shift positions to get a better view of her cleavage, DON'T! You must make it a priority to view her in a purely romantic way and submerge your lusts in the past, bury them in your lost thoughts, thoughts that shall never be remembered. In this way, you can focus on thinking about how you will love her always.
I hope that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2010): You're not a bad person at all but do try and control yourself. There are plenty of boobs in the world so its not such a big deal to keep staring at hers whenever you see her as believe me-it won't take too long for her too notice. Us girls do tend to know when a guy is more interested in our chest than our face!
Cool yourself down a bit and get to know her personality by asking her about what shes interested in. By doing that you'll be showing her that you want to get to know her and not just oggle her!
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