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30-35,
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writes:how do i choose between the guy who has always be there for me and the guy that give me butterflies? they are both so great in each way and i have dated both of them and they each bring something great to the table and i love them both so much ... what to do i am so scared and worried and i have no idea what to do !!!! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 November 2010): It's a lot easier for a guy to give you butterflies by not always being there. A guy feels less like less of a prize when he's always there.
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reader, idealist80 +, writes (5 November 2010):
I definitely believe that the guy who has always been there for you should be the one. Guys who give butterflies in your stomach won't and cannot produce identical effects five or ten yrs down the line (unless of course, he is marriage material and is serious about you). The guy who is there for you always cares about you and would do anything for you. That is love and people like them should not be let to slip away.
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