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female
age
30-35,
*houghtless
writes:My boyfriend and I fighter a lot but in the end it seems we always make up. About a month ago he "kind of" cheated on me. Kind of like cyber cheating with like at least 10 different girls. He came clean and i forgave him. He said he cares about me and won't do it again and we'll discuss things. But for the last 2 weeks it seems that he really doesn't care what i think about anything or how i feel. He might do something rude and i'll tell him and he seems 2 brush it off. He says really mean things like "u always ruin everything" and such. I just don't understand. Every night he leaves me bad before we go to sleep. I am getting really upset. I care about him so much but I don't understand why he is treating me like. What do I do??={
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reader, Cerberus_Raphael  +, writes (5 November 2010):
 You leave him. You do not have to understand why he is treating you like when you have done nothing wrong. The fact is that he no longer seems to care about you as his girlfriend and he does not appreciate how lucky he is to have one as forgiving as yourself. You have given him a second chance to do right by you and he has failed and now the time has come for you to leave him and perhaps give yourself the chance to be with someone who will cherish his time with you and nurture your heart whenever it is bombarded by sorrow.
Why would one treat you like that? Perhaps love has faded and he no longer feels anything towards you, thusly causing him to view you as an emotional parasite which could explain why he says such things as "You always ruin everything". Whatever the reason, I stand by my suggestion.
I hope that helps.
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