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writes: Hi everyone...i need your help...Please...I want to be loved by my friends...What should i do?I be on my best behavior...All my best friends come and go...then they become my enemiesIm very very depressed...I behave really nicely...all the close friends i had all r my enemies right now..I dont want any enemies...i want friends...I understand them...their problems..help them...Im stressed please tell me how should i behave so that i make everyone love meI really really need your help...
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2010): Thankyou dear agony aunts
Ill defenatly keep that in mind :)
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reader, dannigirl1628  +, writes (6 November 2010):
 I absolutely know how you feel Ive been there but the best thing u can do is wait it out. If you were to change who you are then get friends you WILL eventually become unhappy with yourself, but if you just be yourself, no super good no slutty bad people will find you and those will be your true friend. There is a poem, I believe it goes something like this," A stranger stabs you in the front, a friend stabs you in the back, a boyfriend stabs you in the heart, but best friends only poke with straws.". The best thing for you is to be you, then the straw-pokers will come to you. Though it is bad to change who you are, you may want to put yourself out there. "It is best to know the pain of falling over and over, and the satisfactory of victory, then to keep on the ground and have emptiness in your heart. A while ago I was ready to do some very stupid and risky things with my life then I read those poems and did what I have just told you, and now I have four of the best friends I could have ever hoped for. I hope my advice works for you good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 November 2010): Be yourself and if they can't accept who you are then they are not true friends. Find friends that you have things in common with. Don't start trouble or rumors, Be there when needed, hang out, and just have a good time with them. Don't be on your best behavior just have fun and get crazy sometimes. Be the life of the party and just be great to be around.
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reader, AskChristy  +, writes (6 November 2010):
 Have you ever considered the possibility that you're being TOO nice. Yes it is indeed possible! If you spend all your time worrying about keeping them happy and solving their problems they (whether they mean to or not) will become complacent and start seeing you as somebody who is there purely to help them. You need to start doing things for yourself. You sound like a nice person and as far as i'm aware you have a sensible head on your shoulders. When you are young friendships come and go, stop seeing it as something you've done and appreciate that its just one of those things. Realise your worth as a person and stop thinking that you've done anything wrong. It will improve your confidence and therefore improve your qualities as a friend.
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