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*oi307
writes:Hey guys, you can call me boi, im 24 this year. my problem is... i met this girl on facebook around august last year, and we connected immediately. We started chatting and sending each other messages.. seemed like she had a problem with her marriage. she's 30. over time, i couldnt help but fall in love with her. and she claims she did so too.. i've never seen her, its all online because shes in a different country. initially, it was all good. we spoke about us,our careers, interests,ect. but recently (more than a month), all we talk about is her ex(her husband), its all we talk about. nothing else, and when the time has come for her to go, she leaves. and comes back the next day repeating the drill. i know she's going through a lot lately, her husband isn't the best man in the world. but she tells me she loves him. and she tells me she loves me too. but it hurts to hear about her ex all the time... because that's all we do. we dont talk about "us" anymore. i know im not supposed to be expecting much because we've never met in real life and she sometimes doubts my existance. but i've fallen in love with her. and im in so much pain.. :'( i dont know what to do. Am i being selfish?? Please help me. Please..
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reader, boi307 +, writes (29 January 2010):
boi307 is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much. I will consider this next time I talk to her. I will gradually let her go. Hopefully, i'll mend my heart too. thank you so much once again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2010): This relationship will go nowhere - she is not looking for anything more than a shoulder to cry on.
Gently suggest to her that she needs to sort out her problems with her husband, not tell you all about her problems.
Sorry to say but you are no more than a 'cyber-ear' that listens to her gripes and groans....
You are not being selfish, but why dont you go out and get yourself a real human girlfriend???
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