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My wife is being very secretive

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Question - (29 January 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 25 December 2010)
A male United States age 41-50, anonymous writes:

My wife and I have been married for 7 years and we have 3 children. My wife is on facebook and has a lot of guy friends on there and she will not except me as a friend I ask what are u hiding and she says nothing I talk to my girlfriends she has also reconnected with her ex boyfriend via text e-mails and phone conversations she locks her phone and she also recently reconnected with an old high school friend who is married to a guy she used to have sex with what do I do how do I handle this and should I be concerned

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A reader, anonymous, writes (25 December 2010):

open your eyes sir, your wife seems to be acting very secretly. Act now and stop looking at her beauty, insist to know the truth. Don't be afraid of losing her, don't let her go of your kids

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A female reader, Basschick Australia +, writes (1 February 2010):

Basschick agony auntYes you should be concerned. She is cheating, at least emotionally if not sexually and trust me it will lead to more over time. She must be bored or unhappy at home. Her behavior is not that of a happily married woman. Insist in couples therapy and ask that she either pull the account on facebook or include you so there are no secrets.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2010):

use this as a early warning detection system for CHEATING.all the signs are there. GO CATCH HER!

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A male reader, CaringGuy United Kingdom +, writes (29 January 2010):

Yes, be very concerned. She is either having an affair, or is very close to having one. These are all the signs. You need to talk to her now.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2010):

Yes you should be concerned, she is showing signs of either wanting to have an affair or is having an affair.

Time to discuss the matter with her, if she has nothing to hide then why not accept you onto FB and why lock her phone??

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