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writes:what can i do to forget my ex-boyfriend? we had been together about 5 years,i still love him so much, i'm sure that he loves me too, but it's just that i can't live together with him becuase he is a hot-temper person to deal with sometime. i asked to break up with him last few months, becuase i have met another guy who is extremly love me, he cares of me more than my he did. i was so exited of what he had done for me.he asked me to get married with him, and it took about a half year for me to agree with him. i have thought over and over again, in my heart i still love my ex-boyfriend. i can't forget him out of my head yet, i don't know what to do. i always remember all the good memories that we had together, he cried so hard when i told him that i wanted to walk away from him. i am so much sympathetic him. but i didn't know what to do, it's hard for me to make a decision. Can you please tell whether or not i should go back to ex-boyfriend? or should i get married and be together with my new boyfriend?
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reader, Unknown0311  +, writes (29 January 2010):
I agree with Caring Guy. You do need to just put the focus on you. It's a little bit of a red flag when someone wants to jump into a relationship that fast. You need to take time to slow things down, get to know one and other first. When people skip those steps.. Normally not a good sign..
But right now, take time for yourself. Your ex is bad news. You still care about him, but you will get over him. Take the time you need to do that. Dating someone else won't erase him, but building your self-worth and self confidence will make you realize how much better you deserve!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (29 January 2010):
Neither of these two men are right for you at all. Your ex is hot tempered, so represents a miserable future unless he makes some huge changes. Which he most likely won't. As for this new guy, you know in your heart he's not the one. So how long until it goes wrong and he's left broken hearted? You're only young (18-21), so this is now a time for you do drop guys for a while, and focus on your own life and what you want from it. Your Mr Right is out there somewhere, but neither of these two men are him. Drop both and go and find yourself.
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