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female
age
30-35,
*k202009
writes: iv been with my boyfriend for 3 years in July, but feel like im the only one whoputs any effort into the relationship, i always go to his house, he always expects me to get up realli early and go to his in the morning for sex, he hardly ever comes to my house. he never rings never text unless i pester him, when hes at home hes allllllllwwwaaaaayssss on the xbox i mean obssessed yet when i mention enything he brushes it off as if im moanin, it always me who invites him on nights out. he is my supervisor at work and sometimes speaks to me very disrespectfully, the other night i brought this up to him and said we never see each other and he just replied we see each other at work, but it isnt the same at work he doesnt see me as his girlfriend at work and im getting a bit fed up but i dont know what to do ???
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reader, xanthic +, writes (30 January 2010):
I agree with the other posters. If he was really interested in a relationship with you, he would make an effort to see you. As it is now, you're catering to him and he's reaping all the benefits without working for it. Leave him, find another job, and find someone that will treat you properly.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 January 2010): Tell him you are thinking about ending the relationship.If he is upset tell him he needs to try harder with u,if he isnt upset leave him and in time you will find someone who does appreciate you.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (29 January 2010):
Please dump him. He's not interested in you other than for sex.
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reader, Honeygirl +, writes (29 January 2010):
Hun, two pieces of advice...
Firstly, find yourself another job and secondly, find yourself another boyfriend.
Your current bf certainly has you running after him, so start thinking about what you want and do something about it.
Sorry to say but you are being used and taken advantage of.
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