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Archived questions from: 5 August, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

It seems like everyone just forgets about me, can anyone help me?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - Hi can anyone help me please? I have a lot of hurt in my life the last few years and during that time i have become quite ill and it means i am in hospital a lot. I still manage to hold down a full time job but i dont have a social life due to my ...

Cheating prior to marriage...

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

5 August 2010 (M) - Is someone who is vowing to keep the fact that he cheated on his fiancee before they got engaged a secret, actually ready for marriage? I know this guy who cheated on his fiancee less than a year before getting engaged. They've been together for ...

Would my boyfriend think differently of me if he knew I was molested as a child?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - Hey well me and my bf been dating sence february 4th, we love each other a lot. But would he think im gross or look at me different if he knew my brother and also my cousin (who is a girl) both molested me when i was a little kid? When ever he asks ...

Should I accept my girlfriend's interest in public fetish and bondage?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

5 August 2010 (M) - My girlfriend is very sexually experienced and I'm not. We're both almost 40. We have been together for about six months now, and we have been talking about moving in together in another five months. About a month into the relationship, sh...

I don't drink alcohol much...does that bother her?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 August 2010 (M) - There is a girl that I like and would like to get into a relationship with. I don't drink alcohol much at all. At a wedding or a special dinner I will, but not regularly. This girl is not a huge drinker but she likes to drink socially. Do ...

My wife wants an open relationship and I think it is just an excuse for her to be able to leave!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

5 August 2010 (M) - My wife proposed that we have an open marriage because she refuses to meet my sexual needs and expectations. She wants me to find a "whore" who is willing to attach herself to my crotch and she can find someone who will meet her emotional needs. ...

Worried my boyfriend is keeping things from me!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - I have been in a live in relationship for almost three years. I caught my partner last year emailing women while he was unemployed. I have tried to work through this mistake that he told me it was and he is home with me every night. I want to trust ...

Married life has become a nightmare. Please, anybody with any suggestions?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5224 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - I have been with my husband since i was 16. we have been married for almost 3 years now our baby boy is about to turn 3. He told me the only reason he asked me to marry him was b/c "it was the right thing to do". I know he is not happy. He tells me...

I want her, she wants me, her best friend wants me, but I don't want her, So confused! please help!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4891 days ago

5 August 2010 (M) - Four years ago I met this girl. I was in grade 8 when I met her and she was in grade 10. She told me she thought I was cute, so like any young boy, I got excited and went crazy. I started asking her if she liked me and telling her how much I liked ...

I'm always the first one to make contact!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - "OP Own Title" Been with my bf for 6 months, its been going good but at a fairly slow pace which is good as I came out of a 4 year relationship before this. One thing I have noticed is that he is a very laid back chilled person and likes to enjoy ...

How can I get my ex to talk to me and not be mad at me?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 August 2010 (M) - heres a good one for you guys. to make a long story short, my ex said she loved me when we broke up, now she hates my guts and calls me an ass and all this stuff and shes ignoring me. i tried to friend her new guy on facebook, not knowing he was the ...

Girlfriend is mad at me for not reacting stronger to this guy.

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - Hello dear cupiders. I have been in a relationsh ip with my girlfriend for four years on and off, and through a lot of cheating, lies and now a pregnancy we have managed to work everything out. But lately I feel like Im doing everything wrong...

My boyfriend works a lot and doesn't have time for me

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5218 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - I'm 18 and my boyfriend is twenty. I'm still in school and he's working. I don't have a problem with him working it's just I never get to see him because he works all day and then comes home late. I know he needs the money to survive and stuff bu...

I'm in love with my ex's best friend but still have feelings for my ex too!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - Hey guys, I'll give you the low down... The guy i'm dating is my ex's best friend. At first it started out as myself using him to make the best friend jealous, and I succeeded. Then I screwed up and fell for both of them.. 3 years into this ...

My boyfriend doesn't have his own mind!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - I have been in a relationship for 3 years with my partner. However we lack so much trust and paranoia for each other. This is down to cheating, and texting flirts. However, we both find it hard to get over what we have done to each other. But apart ...

I thought my ex was making an effort with me but all of a sudden she has stopped!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 August 2010 (M) - Carrying on from: http://www.dearcupid.org/question/does-she-still-think-of-me.html She texted me randomly last week and asked if we can talk on the phone, I agreed and we had a nice little chat, I then had to go but she text me later on saying ...

How do I get him to stop sitting next to me, without saying it directly to his face?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - C and I became friends late last year. Soon, I developed feelings for him. Around March this year, I heard from a friend that apparently he suspected that I had a crush on him, though he never talked to me about it. We remained friends. A few mon...

Did my best friend betray me over a guy? Should I forgive her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - One of my best friends and I met 2 guys last year at a party and we started to go on group dates toghether. However her guy -X was always flirting with me and disrespecting me. I noticed she would grow quiet and look mad. I confessed to her That I ...

I was the most popular girl in school but everything seems to be going wrong!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - okay you need to know my story.. this is how it starts kay. well im voted as the most popular at my school,and other stuff and everyones loves me.. but something went wrong.. i told my best friend ever im maybe moving so shes comes over and my s...

Lies about her past........

This question has 10 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 August 2010 (M) - me and my girlfriend were talking about her past early in our relationship and she said she had anly slept with 2 other people only 7 times and only had oral once... i read her diary and it said she had slept with 3 guys and one guy was 7 times and ...

I really don't understand what he is thinking or feeling!

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5220 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - Hi everyone, I posted this the other day but didn't get any replies and more has happened since then so I thought I'd try again. So I posted a question on here a while ago, http://www.dearcupid.org/question/fallen-in-love-with-my-be...

I'm in love with my boyfriend, so why am I falling for another guy?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for 5 years and really love him to pieces. We've often talked about marriage and I know that he is proposing really soon :-). Over the past few months though, I've been kinda falling for this other guy. He's great, funny, ...

Was I right to lie?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - I apologize for the length of this. Please bear with me if you can. I was close friends with this guy in high school and he developed feelings for me. At the time, I wasn't able to feel "that way" about him, but screwed up by basically telling ...

I just don't want to feel this jealousy anymore because it drives me insane!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - Hello there, I'm a very jealous person, unfortunately. I am not proud about it. My partner is speaking to this particualar person and I know that they like my partner more than just friends. My partner won't stop talking to them and it makes me ...

My ex is pregnant with my baby but in a relationship with another man, how do I get her back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 August 2010 (M) - my ex i was going to get married to is pregnant with my baby and with another man now, and we both still are in love but she will not come back to me because she is afraid of hurting me again. how do i get her back and keep her so we can have our ...

My boyfriend cannot handle my dirty past, how do I save this relationship?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - Iam 21 yrs old and have a very nice and loving boyfriend for the last two years. We both are very serious about each other. Everything was very good between us,but then something happened.. he got to know something that i have been hiding from ...

He is married with a child yet his texts are flirty and he seems to take an unusual interest in my Facebook page...

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - Not sure if I'm reading to much in to this but here goes. There was a guy at work who I barely knew and we ended up going on a course together with a couple of other people from work. Since the course he emailed me frequently at work asking pers...

Pregnant and no confidence, and I'm lonely in another state with no friends or family.....

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - I moved at the beginning of the year away from my friends and family to a different state for my partners work and it has been hard because he works really long hours and i feel so alone because i have no one here for me i haven’t made any friends ...

Why have my feelings for my girlfriend suddenly changed?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 August 2010 (M) - I love my girlfriend but now my feelings for her have changed, i am no more enjoying our relationship what is the problem....

How can I be with my boyfriend and control my anxiety if he's the one causing it?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - sooooo im 16. ever since 6th grade iv been in love with this boy, we started dating in 8th grade and it didnt go so well. we went out again in 9th grade and it finally got serious, weve been together ever since. its been a year and 5 months ...

Do I say this friendship is over, or do I let something like this pass?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - So my best friend bailed from a kayaking trip the night before we were supposed to leave. I called the company and they said the 150$ had to be paid anyway and no refunds could be made. I told my friend this and she said "no it's your fault you ...

Are my feelings justified or am I just overly paranoid?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - Hello everyone! Well, I've been going out with my boyfriend for almost two years now (October is our anniversary). Okay, the first thing that had angered me was that he pictures of two girls on his phone. He said I was overreacting and I sh...

Am I too attached to my boyfriend?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - Hi. There's something, I don't know if that's a problem but I'm extremely attached to my boyfriend but in a very exaggerated way. We are together like 12 hr a day everyday, he wants to be with me all the time and I want to be with him too, w...

I feel like my 3 year relationship has been a mistake and a lie, am I wrong?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - So my ex and I broke up a year ago after dating for 2 years. We are still talking and we are still intimate, neither of us has been with someone else. Today I found out that he had kinda proposed to his ex saying "we will get married in the f...

My boyfriend says I'm fat

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - Ok. So, the other night me and my boyfriend were chatting on msn like usually and he suddenly said I'm fat! I firstly didn't know how to react but then I got really upset and like sad. He said it was a mistake, something he misspelled but I...

I feel like I have been treated like a doormat!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - I am seeing this guy who works a lot and travels very frequently. He's told me that he could not have a committed relationship at this point with his crazy work and travel schedule and I want to know if that is an excuse. We have had sexual ...

Should I still be friends with him when he made me feel "dumped"?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - I have a guy friend from work. We know each other for three years. From last July we started hanging out often and became really close friends. We had lunch together almost every day; we ran together couple of times a week; he asked me to go see ...

I cant get over the fact that my wife loved someone else before she married me!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 August 2010 (M) - hi, i am 36-yr old male but look like 27yr, i.e, everyone says as well as i know my appearance and I got married in my 29 and now I came to know after 7-yrs, my wife used to love somebody before marriage, who was muslim smart and handsome person ...

How do I get over my crush on one of my husband's friends?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 August 2010 (?) - For you women and men who have been cheated on and gave your significant other a second chance; I was cheated on by my husband a year ago, I was pregnant with twin boys and he couldn't have done it with a more disgusting person. I'm not just saying ...

What would make him stop talking to me so suddenly?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5226 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - Well, I met this guy at a party, he seemed like a relatively nice guy. After that, we met a few more times at a few different parties, alas I developed a crush. We then started getting close to each other, we'd see each other on a weekly basis, ...

I'm not even sure if we have broken up properly, what should I do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - So...8 months into our engagement I guess we are broken up. My fiance threw a fit my last week of college since the week before graduation is a big party week. He felt I didn't spend enough time talking to him on the phone, so he just didn't show ...

I don't know how to act around my boyfriend any more!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - Hi! First let me give you a little background. I am 26 years old. My boyfriend of 2 years got a really good job in another state, and because we were already living together and everything was perfect, there was not a question in either of our minds ...

Should I just accept the fact that I am the one who has to do all the driving in our realtionship? Or should I be more assertive?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5227 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - Hi Aunts, My boyfriend and I have a good relationship, we see eachother 3-4 times a week, if not more. He lives right near where I study, so it's pretty convenient for me to stay the night and go to class the next day. However, I'm the only one...

My Boyfriend cheated on me with his ex, did I make the right descion by taking him back?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - My man cheated on me once with his ex-girlfriend,,the next week he told me,, but he was feeling guilty and didnt know how to tell me at first,,he cried in front of a lot people didnt care who was watching i was suprise that he would do such a ...

Do I give my cheating fiancee another chance or move on?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5229 days ago

5 August 2010 (M) - Hi, I have being in a 6 months relationship with a lady banker i met at an online youth forum,shes 25 and am 30. It all stated well with about 3 weeks telephone conversation and on our first date we kissed and the following week we had sex. Mo...

Should I end my long distance relationship with my boyfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5228 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - Hi! I've been with my boyfriend/bestfriend for four years. The first year, I was with him and the rest, its an on and off long distance relationship. I only see him everytime the family goes on holiday to my home country. Most people told me ...

How to stop feeling jealous and threatened by my boyfriends girl mate.

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5224 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend isn't particularly social, but he does have a few close boy mates. He especially isn't one for particularly talking to girls. We met in an unexpected situation and have now been together for 2 years and 2 months despite our 2 hour ...

What is better, to be lonely or to be miserable in a relationship?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5229 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - I just dont know what to do, my boyfriend does not find me attractive anymore i dont know if its because i gained weight after having our son i just dont know but its mainly me with the sex initiating and everything i get no pleasure from him what ...

We've been dating a year but he still won't introduce me to his family

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5223 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - Hi guys i need your advice..we've been together for a year..i loved him and he loved me.we are both happy and satisfied in our relationship.but sometimes i was so confused,that he dont wanted me to introduce to his family.he felt like ashamed with ...

What might be the reason for his sudden change in behaviour?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5215 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - What can be reasons for a change in a guys behaviour....for example day to day/week to week change. Like one minute they will talk to you as if everything is fine and the next he will sit there talk to everyone else about anything but for some rea...

Seperated from husband but still love him and want him back. Suggestions?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5227 days ago

5 August 2010 (F) - Hi there. My husband doesn't love me anymore, or just can't say it. We have been married for 7 years, but have been separated for about 9 months. We spend time together, as we have 2 children. We are still sleeping together, and we don't live ...

I was a player in the past, I've cheated on my girl twice and just don't know if we should be together

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 4576 days ago

5 August 2010 (M) - Hi please refer to me as N3m0. I need help in a couple of areas in my relationship. I have been with my girlfriend for almost 2 years. I need help figuring out wether i love her as much as when i first started going out with her. I had a girlfriend ...