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writes:I moved at the beginning of the year away from my friends and family to a different state for my partners work and it has been hard because he works really long hours and i feel so alone because i have no one here for me i haven’t made any friends here and i have no family to support me and on top of this i am very pressured by his family because in their eyes i am a city girl who can’t do anything right!!!On top of this i am now 23 week pregnant which we did plan and we are so happy about!!! Although lately things have been very hard!I am quiet stressed due to a high risk pregnancy and i know i have not been 100 percent myself and i have been a little moody but nothing over the top and i am trying really hard and think i am doing really well considering how lonely i have been! But my partner had started doing silly things behind my back and lying to me and i never in my wildest dreams thought he would do that because we always had so much respect and trust for one another but it seems like he does not respect me anymore. I am always honest with him and do as much as i can for him but it does not seem to be good enough.On top of this i am feeling really down about my body because of the changes of pregnancy, I always had a nice size 10 body D cup breasts, I was always a very confident girl and now i have put on a dress size and have size E cup breasts. I know it could be a lot worse but it’s just a shock seeing your body change so much! I have been worried that my partner dose not find me attractive anymore because of this, I recently found him pleasuring myself to one of my girlie TV series! Not even porn, It hurts that he has put on my dvd's just to watch other normal girls to get himself off.I don't know if i am over reacting but i am hurt and i feel like i have no confidence anymore and am starting to become very lonely and depressed i have talked to him about it but it is like talking to a wall.I don’t want to leave him but i am so sad all the time i don’t know what to do?
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reader, babybump +, writes (6 August 2010):
babybump is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you so much for your reply!! I will keep you updated on the situation :)
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reader, person12345  +, writes (5 August 2010):
 Lying and treating you like crap after you dropped everything to be with him and have his kid? This guy doesn't sound like a keeper. A dedicated man would find your pregnancy beautiful. He'd be grateful that you love him so much you're willing to change your body and go through all the unpleasant things to have his child. Pregnancy should be a beautiful thing (minus the morning sickness). If he refuses under any conditions to even talk about how you're feeling, there's really nothing you can do other than leave. You've already given him everything you can because you love him. Let him know this, that if he doesn't cut it out/make some time for you/talk about this seriously, then you're leaving. If he still refuses you need to get out and find some support. Call your friends and family for some phone support. Maybe they can help get you out. Even find a local women's shelter, that's what they're there for. Please take care of yourself.
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