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Archived questions from: 19 August, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

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Troubled relationships: Help and advice

Confused about what to do about the situation with my boyfriend and my best friend!

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19 August 2010 (F) - okay, you've probably heard this a million times over, but i'm really stuck. i have a boyfriend who i get along with pretty well and also have a best friend who's a guy. he knows me so much better than my boyfriend and we just seem to be able to ...

He refuses to go public with our relationship!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

19 August 2010 (F) - So I'm 18 and this guy and I have been off and on for about a year now, and things just started to get really good about a month ago. We hung out more, we talked all the time, and we're good friends and we like each other a lot. However, he refuses ...

Is it okay to cheat when you're not getting any sex?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

19 August 2010 (M) - [OP's original title] I'm a healthy 26 year old male with 2 great sons, ages 3 and 6 months. I've been in a relationship with their mother for almost 8 years (not married). Now we've fallen on somewhat rougher times with me losing my job (the cons...

I got into a big argument with my boss at work .. how do I act around him now???

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

19 August 2010 (F) - I had a huge argument with my boss at work today and now i dont know how to behave around him tommorrow. We work in an office and we work on the same desk. He has been my boss for a few months and we had become good friends. Always laughing,...

I got involved with the wrong guy!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5211 days ago

19 August 2010 (F) - Im not confused i jus need to hear the situation from someone elses point of view...I know i got caught up with the wrong guy. he cheated on his last girlfriend and when i didnt do anything with him last year he called me boring cause i would not ...

Why does she get to decide when we make love?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

19 August 2010 (M) - What could cause my girlfriend to make me feel really bad and guilty, almost like she hates me, when I ask her to make love but she doesn't want to? I've never even came close to forcing her. The only thing I will do is ask her why she doesn't want ...

Boyfriend has let me down again. How do I handle this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

19 August 2010 (F) - I think im at the end of my fuse! my boyfriend has let me down again tonight.... hes off to v festival tomorrow and when i last saw him on monday he said he would call round even if it was just brief to say hi before he went. well i had to text him ...

I am suffocating in my arranged marriage!

This question has 13 answers - newest was posted 5209 days ago

19 August 2010 (F) - Hi Its funny i didnt even think i will be ever coming to these site. i am asian i just turned 24 i have been married for 7 years now. i never approved with me marriage because it was forced by my parents. i just turned 17 when i got ...

I need cheating boyfriend advice! Long post!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5138 days ago

19 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 7 years, and although I've suspected for quite a while now, I just found out that he has been cheating on me. We moved to a new city about a 2 years ago, and he immediately struck up a friendship ...

I wanted him, then I didn't, now I want him back! Help!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5209 days ago

19 August 2010 (F) - so im a 16 year old girl and just about 6 months ago i lost my two best friends over a boy.. one of those friends had talked to this boy and liked him before so thats why we arent friends. this boy was my best friend until we started dating in ...

My dad is splitting up with my mum, this has destroyed me!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5211 days ago

19 August 2010 (M) - hi, im 22 me and my family have had a rough time the past few years with health and other things. i thought all the bad times had made us stronger as a family. i love my mum and dad to pieces because weve been through so much. then out of no were my ...

I've worked hard to change to get him back, how do I show him things will be different?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5213 days ago

19 August 2010 (F) - ive been with my ex fiance for 4 years, engaged for 3 and living together for 18 months. we were really happy before we moved in but after things went wrong. i started treating him badly unintentionally. i drifted from my friends and felt very down ...

My boyfriend is unemployed and I don't know what to do?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

19 August 2010 (F) - i have been with my boyfriend on and off for 3 years. all this year he has been unemployed. this has put a huge strain on our relationship because i have to buy all the food and we cant go out anywhere or do anything unless i pay, and i dont earn ...

How can I make our sex life better? I don't want it to feel forced and unnatural.....

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

19 August 2010 (M) - So I've bee going out with my girlfriend for almost two years now. We live together and enjoy many activities and hobbies together. I'd say that in general, our relationship is doing well. The only issue would be the sex part. I'm a male and do like ...

Should I go after my dream job which means moving away from my boyfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

19 August 2010 (F) - Hey guys, I'm currently bored to death with my job. It pays relatively well, but it's a dead-end street - no room for progression and no chance of a payrise in the next few years - they've literally spelled that out to me. I've been with my...

I feel trapped and unloved, and I have no-one to turn to

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5214 days ago

19 August 2010 (F) - Ive been with my boyfriend for just over 8months now and it doesnt seem like he cares or loves me anymore and i dont no what to do. he starts an argument with me he doesnt no how to talk in our arguments, he says im the one that doesnt care anymore ...

Am I being paranoid or is this really happening all over again?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

19 August 2010 (F) - I just on here for moral support really, 3 years ago just before I became forty I found out my husband had been cheating with someone he new had tried to befriend me. For months I knew he was having an affair but just didnt know who with. Anyway to ...

Before she met me she sent a picture of herself to another guy, should I be mad at her for this?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

19 August 2010 (M) - Should i be mad at my girlfriend for something she did in the past? Me and her were not together at this time but she did something that really bothers me. She sent a pic(nothing dirty) to a guy because he kept asking and asking, he kept bugging her ...

What makes some men spend more money on one girlfriend but not another?

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

19 August 2010 (F) - What makes some men spend more money on one girlfriend but not another. I ask because my partner got into a lot of debt for his ex but he doesn't really spend much on me. What gives? Also, I'm not being biased but I'm a better gf because I'm more ...

Is she planning on taking a vacation without me?

This question has 8 answers - newest was posted 5174 days ago

19 August 2010 (M) - i saw on my gf's computer last night that she was looking at vacationing in st. thomas. the date she was looking at is sept 22-27. now, she hasn't mentioned it to me, so am i to assume she's thinking of taking someone else, or could it be a su...

Birth control is ruining my relationship once a month!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

19 August 2010 (M) - My girlfriend and I are very careful about sex so we use both condoms and birth control. She has been taking them around 9 months and I'm not sure what pills they are but we are both starting to see some negative effects. Before both control she had ...

Should I suggest we spend some time apart?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5215 days ago

19 August 2010 (M) - My fiancee tells me repeatedly that she loves me and can't wait to marry me, in both spoken and written word, yet her actions indicate she may be drifting away. Perhaps she is getting too comfortable in the relationship or she is getting bored with ...

Seven year relationship... now what?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

19 August 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend for close to 7 years. I know we both care for each other a lot. We've had our share of ups and downs, but for some reason, this time of "down" doesn't seem like it's going away... There's been times throughout our 7...

I can be with any girl I like but I cant move on while I am still thinking of this girl!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5214 days ago

19 August 2010 (M) - hi, everyone, am in a very complicated situation and seriously need to open up, i was in a kind of long distance relationship with a girl for almost 3 yrs, we had come close after a school reunion, after the intial fire burnt out i kind of lost ...

I'm pretty sure she was hitting on me, but I was so drunk I cant be sure! Should I tell my girlfriend?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5214 days ago

19 August 2010 (M) - Hi. Bear with me I feel you need to know all the details to make a judgement. 5 weeks into my relationship I went out to a club/pub without my girlfriend, and this girl with a bf approached me to initiate conversation, I bluntly told her to f***...

I'm not her verbal punching bag so should I confront her?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5214 days ago

19 August 2010 (?) - Whenever I talk to my friend, she always has to make comments that belittle me or put me down a notch. Tonight we were talking on the phone and she was talking about a guy she met. She then said, "He was cute, but he was more around YOUR age." Now, ...

How do I fix this relationship?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5213 days ago

19 August 2010 (M) - Ok. So The other day I made a big mistake. I broke up with my girlfriend when there was no reason to at all... We had gotten into a fight and my inability to handle my temper led me to grab my things from her house and storm off. It was a rough day ...

Break off the engagement?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5214 days ago

19 August 2010 (F) - I have been engaged for about 9 months now n decided to postpone the wedding for another year. Now I am not sure if I even want to marry him, here's why: I had a long term relationship of 5 yrs that I ended bc it was somewhat emotionally abusive. He ...

Am I wrong for wanting her to be more ambitious?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5215 days ago

19 August 2010 (?) - Hi, I am 28 and have been with my girlfriend for about 3 years now and I do love her to bits. However, I find her general lack of ambition in life to be a little bit off putting and this has been playing on my mind for quite some time now. I'll e...