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male
age
36-40,
*rianDean
writes: There is a girl that I like and would like to get into a relationship with. I don't drink alcohol much at all. At a wedding or a special dinner I will, but not regularly. This girl is not a huge drinker but she likes to drink socially.Do you think she looks at me in a negative light for not drinking? Does she think that I judge her FOR drinking? (I don't).She knows I'm a fun person. I make her laugh constantly and she knows I like to go out and do things.What do ya think?
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reader, Lotsalove. +, writes (6 August 2010):
You havent got to be dancing on the tables, spewing in the alley or a paraletic mess for a girl to take notice of you. So you dont drink.. Big deal. If anything, she will like it. She knows your not going to be an embarrasment, a flirt with other girls or the next wannabe Rocky because you've had one too many. BUT don't be the wet blanket in the corner either, don't be the guy whose too scared to interact with the drunk people because he hasnt had a drop.
If you dont usually drink alcohol, then don't start just for her. If she likes you, she'll like you just the way you are.
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