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41-50,
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writes:Hi,I have being in a 6 months relationship with a lady banker i met at an online youth forum,shes 25 and am 30. It all stated well with about 3 weeks telephone conversation and on our first date we kissed and the following week we had sex.Months later i had a feeling my girl was seeing some else, I confronted her but she denounced it.she receives calls from diff guys but claim they re customers since she is a customer relationship officer at the bank where she works. I made her understand that what i hated most was to share my girl with another man which had almost become a theme song. today she came out to confess that shes being sleeping with some other guy she met before i came into the picture. am really confused cause ave proposed and introduced her to members of my immediate family. do i give her a second chance or do i just move on......................
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reader, dyeruz  +, writes (5 August 2010):
So either she doesn't love you enough to stop sleeping with someone, even when its clear how you feel about her, or this guy has some incredible sex she can't give up. Look you had a feeling something was off, point is you knew something was wrong and she still lied to you when you voiced your concerns, is this someone you want to marry? The trust has already been broken six months in, maybe the relationship moved too fast, have you told each other you're in love? Or is this more from your side? Even so the fact she was sleeping with someone else, then sleeping with you, and carried on sleeping with someone else probably says it was more special for you than for her. She lied..move on.
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