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female
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30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey well me and my bf been dating sence february 4th, we love each other a lot. But would he think im gross or look at me different if he knew my brother and also my cousin (who is a girl) both molested me when i was a little kid? When ever he asks about them and why i act different with them i come up with excuses and when ever he ask about my childhood i never have much to say about it. Part of me wants to tell him and stop hiding it from him but the other part is im worried he will think of me different. Should i tell him? Thanks for your time.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): hey hi....
Your story is similar to mine... my advice would be... DONT.Atleast not now.
Guys are different from girls. They don't think like us.To know that their girl was with someone else,even been molested, been touched by someone else,they cant just take it. Even if your guy loves you a lot,he might not be able to take it.
I dont think you want to ruin a blossoming relationship just like that.
Ya lying would hurt, but you need to first realise how serious you guys are for each other, give it some time.. if you think that his love is pure and true,then go ahead,he'll surely love you the same even after knowing about it all. But if not, then you might not be able to take the consequenses..so think before you act!! Act from your brain not from your heart..
All the best..
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