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writes:Carrying on from:http://www.dearcupid.org/question/does-she-still-think-of-me.htmlShe texted me randomly last week and asked if we can talk on the phone, I agreed and we had a nice little chat, I then had to go but she text me later on saying that there was something that she wanted to tell me, this was that she knows she didn't make an effort before to give us another chance but wanted to give it another try, I told her that I want to be mates and whatever happens happens, she agreed and she wanted to see me the next day, well we went out the next day just a casual relaxing day, and then she called me to say goodnight at the end of the day which I really missed. The next day she had work so we had a little text chat and that's it, but on the next day, she called me and we talked for about an hour. Then I had to go, she never texted or called me ever again after that, it's been over a week, what can anyone make of this, I thought she was trying to make an effort until well she stopped?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2010): OP:
She lost her virginity by a mistake, it was a one time thing which she owed up to, she said she was drunk and upset, upset the fact she thought I was starting to like someone else, she didn't plan for it to happen and well it did. I know being drunk is not an excuse, but the thing is however much I hate her for destroying my life, I can't get her out of my head and I'm always so depressed due to not talking or hearing from her.
I don't know what to do, I don't want to take her back because she cheated on me and it all just replays back in my mind, and I also do want to take her back because I love her (We're both each others first loves) and she means the world to me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2010): OP:As a reply to the 2 comments below.She agreed that we remain friends and not to jump back into things, she even told me that jumping straight to adding her on facebook was a sudden move because I deleted her off it since I didn't want to see what she's getting up to, OK she might be busy but I can't ask her out again, I just have to go with the flow, which I was happy doing as long as she made an effort, she stopped all of a sudden which I'm trying to get my head around, and if I do ask her she might think I'm trying to rush things and then be pushed further away.If you don't know the whole story, she cheated on me a few months back , (lost her virginity to her flat mate) while me and her were with each other for 4 years, I gave her another chance which she turned down because,I couldn't take it and she was guilty. Then we ended up stopping talking because I kept on arguing with her about what she had done.
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reader, clickhere +, writes (5 August 2010):
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if you like each other then kiss and make up? Okay? People make things SO hard.
Just tell her to get to the point, or better yet, you can get to the point! Stop beating around the bush!
She might have been trying to make an effort, but after numerous hours of talking and not getting anywhere she stopped, I know I would...
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