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Archived questions from: August, 2010 (see latest in Troubled relationships category)

Troubled relationships: Help and advice

My ex is ignoring me and I had a weird dream about him. Does it mean anything?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5182 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Argh - I dreamt about my ex last night (I seriously did not think of him yesterday) although a week before - I had sent him an email sayin i missed his company and was hopin we could talk soon - he read my E-card but didnt respond.I find it funny ...

I don't know how to stop being insecure with my boyfriend!

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31 August 2010 (F) - hi hope you can help. i dont know how to stop being insecure with my boyfriend. weve been together for seven months and we get on really well. he treats me realy nice , but lately the last month im getting worried when he goes out that he'll meet ...

Her ex is more fun than I am!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5156 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - my gf openly admits her ex is more fun than i am, she says thats why she remains friends with him, he likes to wind people up and she finds it funny some times. she also says that her silly side comes out when hes around...i think this translates ...

How to get over my Casanova of a fiance', or stop him in his tracks!? Please help

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - How to get over your "fiance'" of almost 5 years? I have not ended the relationship Totally; not nearly set in stone. I have just showed anger. I believe I probably SHOULD end it... Yet!, I am weary to end the relationship because I feel i...

After our troubled relationship, why would he buy me such an extravagant gift?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5201 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - i really need to know how this guy i work with feels about me. when he started i was there for him always and have helped him no end over the past year. i have liked him since day one. anyway the last few months hes grown distant and become very ...

I'm struggling to love him! Help!

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5100 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - hi i cud do with some advice ive been with my partner 15 yr have 3 gorgous boys hes a lovely guy 13 yr age gap never bothered us the problem is i love him cos hes the dad to my boys and that will never change the thing is im not in love with him any ...

My husband's family hates me but he can't see it!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I have a very disturbing dilemma in my marriage.I feel,it might ruins it eventually. Hard to describe, but I try. My husbands family is giving me cold treatment. I mean,they dont swear at me or tell me what they think, but from all the comments, and ...

What can I do to toughen up or is it just that he needs to relax, or am I really that silly?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, Hi, I have been in a loving relationship for the past year and a half and we are very happy! My boyfriend has an incredibly stressful job, and is currently at a part of his life where he feels as though his life has become sta...

My ex husband is causing trouble for my entire family and no one can stop him!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I was married for a short time 27 years ago. We got divorced,he disappeared, paid no child suppport and I did not look for him, it was done. Three years later I remarried, my husband adopted my daughter and things have been wonderful for years. ...

One day I want to be with him and the next day I don't!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5096 days ago

31 August 2010 (?) - I've been with my bf for 2 years now. He is 9 years older then me. I in general tend to oscillate a lot. Well with our relationship is the same. One day I'm 100% sure I wanna be with him and the next I'm wondering rather or not I wanna be with him. ...

How to get him out of my brain?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5199 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Cutting a long story short.... my now ex broke up with me out of nowhere in a pub in front of all his friends (nice) and didnt speak to me for 2 weeks. When he finally did he thought i would fall at his feet and get back with him, as much as i ...

Does my boyfriend just want me to be pudgy? Why doesn't he support my weight loss and work?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5187 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I've been with my fiancee for 3 years. Since we've been together I lost 40lbs. I was on a mission to lose weight even before I met him so I lost a total of 123lbs. In fact, when we met I was jogging with dumbbells. In any case, he...

Do his greedy personal habits warrant me breaking up with him?

This question has 9 answers - newest was posted 5201 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I started a relationship with a lovely man about 4 months ago and it quickly became quite intense. We have both said we love each other and I do think he is a lovely person. He has lots of good qualities, he is financially sound, has a good job and ...

Be kicked out or have a happy girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - Hi, i met my gf when I was 19 n she was 16, for the first year I wasn't aloud in the upstairs part of her house let alone in her room and i wasn't aloud to stay past midnight.. When we had been going out for a year her mum let me go upstairs but i ...

I feel like I lost my good friends, to each other!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5201 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - Hi, i'm an engineering student.About me: A sentimental, and always wanted to joy person.I kept my 5 school friends as my best friends,one of them is more closer to me!Even more than,my college friends,family; i trusted him,i love him. While, i...

Ever since I had the miscarriage our relationship has been troubled

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5199 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - So me and my boyfriend has been together for a yr and 3 months, everything was perfect until recently about 2 or 3 months ago..around the time we had a miscarriage and i quit my job, we have been argueing alot about stupid things and havent been ...

The first time

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5178 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - the first time a guy beats you up is definitely not the last.l was in the most abusive relationship with a guy whom l thought loved me.well news flash he did not.he slapped me once and later on said that he was sorry and l believed him. l should ...

She sees her guy friends more than she sees me

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 4697 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - My girlfreind is constantly putting me second best to her male and female freinds. she seems to think that i try and make her sit at home all day everyday whilst i work, but this isnt true. i dont mind her seeing her female freinds whenever she ...

He used me for sex and I can't get over him

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Ive got a problem with a guy im seeing but and i really like him but he doesnt show any interest in me. The second time i slept with him he wanted to do what they do in da end of a porn movie in my mouth so i said hell no next day i called him he ...

We're getting serious, but I have questions about her past

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - First off, I'd like to like to state that being as this is anonymous I want to be as honest as possible. Sorry if i sound like an ass or not.. and honest / constructive feedback is appreciated! I have a girlfriend I recently met about 6 mon...

Is he not taking our wedding plans seriously?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - We got engaged on March and decided the date of our wedding to be March 19, 2011. I heard it's best to start planning 1 yr ahead and so that's what i started to do with my mother's help. However, he always seemed to get upset about it saying I am ...

I feel like the nice guy who always finishes last...

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - Ended a relationship last year that ran for eight years but we basically became roomates - hadn't had sex for three years. Felt ready to start dating again this summer and have been seeing someone who I thought was really nice. I have never been ...

Is there a good approach for my defensive girlfriend?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - My girlfriend sometimes turns my words around and completely misses the message I am trying to convey to her, and quite often gets defensive and angry. She'll cool down later and we are able to have a rational discussion about the issue. I aways ...

I want to divorce him but I feel guilty for not trying!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I have been with my husband since early 2008 and we have a 2 year old son and when i was pregnant i set up a fake profile of this 'hot' chick to test him. It was sneaky but all he had to do was say 'thanks but no thanks, my partner is pregnant' etc, ...

How do I get this cold and distant man out of my head, even while he's visiting our newborn?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - i dated this guy on and off for 2 years... i got pregnant and he left me. he said he was only with me for the sex and said he loved me because he felt pity... he always said he wanted to be there for the baby.. the thing is, i'm about to give birth ...

I treat him this way not because I'm arrogant but because of my bad experience with him!

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I had a breakup 2 years ago after having chilhood love (6 years)with a boy who lives in my neighbourhood. The breakup was very sudden and very rude on the ground that he was not ready to wait for me to marry (I wanted him to build his and my career ...

I have an uneasy feeling about her. Should I end this?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - TO STAY OR LET GO I have been in a relationship with my partner for nearly 4 years. She has two children, daughter 19 and son 13. They live with their father, why, because they choose to as their mother left father for me and he is good to them....

Tired of being dished the crap in relationships! How do I become a stronger woman?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - i need some advise. i am 28 yrs old and all ive ever done is let men run all over me in my relationships. how do i become that strong woman and put my foot down. im tired of crap...

My daughter is feeling left out! What should I do?

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Feeling Very Hurt and Left Out I helped someone out with her daughter lots of times, and I became friends with the mom. We went to our kids' activities together and we invited her daughter over as she was the same age as my daughter. M...

He doesn't make time for me anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Hi. I have always enjoyed reading this site as it seemed like people were always honest and nice, so im hoping someone can maybe help me. Ive been going out for my boyfriend for about 11 months and he's always been super sweet and nice, and a...

He doesn't say he loves me back anymore

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I feel like my boyfriend doesn't love me no more when I tell him I love him all he says is me too! He always use to call me babe and baby and beautiful but all of that has stopped,When we talk its so quiet its like he doesn't care anymore or he's ...

Jealous of his past .. does he still love them?

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - In the beginning, me and my boyfriend started off as friends so we discussed a lot of things with each other. He shared a lot of information during that time about his past relationships. He shared details about the sex they had, the parts of the...

No communication in a long distance relationship

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5203 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - Hi, I'm 21 years old and have been involved with the same person for almost about 2 years now. Its a long distant relationship, he lives in New York City and I live in Virginia. I met him when he was visiting Wash. DC for a concert his friend was ...

Is he flirting or am I being unreasonable?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend is wonderful to me and always does everything for me, however he just has one habit that really annoys me, he does seem to be too friendly with shop assistants and often engages in conversations with them while they are serving us. He ...

This whole situation is messing with my head!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

31 August 2010 (M) - I met this girl at a big bon fire about a year and a half back. we started dating less then a week after we met. we dated for 5 months, she got drunk, cheated and we broke up. almost no contact for a couple of months. we started talking again an...

Pregnant and resentful of boyfriends other children

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - I am pregnant with my boyfriends 4th child and I'm becoming increasingly resentful of his other children. It's gotten so bad that I can't even bear to hear him mention their names and I dread them staying over on weekends. He doesn't seem to show as ...

Should I fight for us? or let us go?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5202 days ago

31 August 2010 (F) - hi my boyfriend has just broke up with me a few days ago, and i dont know how to feel about it! i felt like he put me second so i would moan and argue with him n he said he has had enough of me and doesnt want to be with me anymore! he ...

Difficult relationship with plenty of love and lack of trust!

This question has 2 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I've been with my boyfriend some time now and 99.9 of the time we are perfect. Were both young but very much in love. I'd do anything for him and he'd do the same for me but the crowd he hangs around with are not very reliable. A few of them have ...

I should not get back with him right?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I'm getting confused over my ex boyfriend. We broke up back in April, and got back together for like 3 days in May. Ever since, we've been broken up. During our almost 4 year relationship, we had many problems, because he was jealous of my past. Due ...

Why did I put up with this for so long?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5200 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I've been in a relationship for 6 years. For the first 2 years my partner's ex-wife and son lived abroad but have been living in the same county for the last 4. Just before they returned we moved to a different part of the country for better jobs ...

My boyfriend won't tell his female friend that he is dating someone!

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 4825 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I have been dating a guy for over 6 months, we've said that we love each other and spend most days/nights together. He has a lot of younger single female friends. He goes for coffee with them from time to time without me. Last night he went to ...

I am afraid I may lose my friends if I brake up with him!

This question has 7 answers - newest was posted 5196 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - Dear Cupid, I have been in a relationship with the same guy for a little over 5 years, we used to have sex all of the time but over the last two years I have lost interest in having sex with him. I'm not sure what to do about it, I know it's caus...

If he doesn't love me why wouldn't he let go?

This question has 1 answer - newest was posted 5202 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - Mod note:OP's own title I've been with a guy for almost a year now i do love him but he said it once and never said it again i used to say it all the time but stopped because i never got the response i wanted it is impossible to stay together, ...

Is our relationship doomed to fail?

This question has 3 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - Hello all. Im 21 and after a year and a half of a long distance relationship I ended it with my boyfriend (whose 24). Why? His friend spilt out everything to me, He told me how my boyfriend has repetitively cheated on me whilst we're apart. So I ...

I want to be with him , but be able to do things with other people!

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - My boyfriend lives way down in the country about 30mins. from my home. I leave usually every Fri. and go down and spend the weekend with him, but sometimes things come up like me having to be a church the next day early, which is located closer to ...

I keep finding things from his ex!

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I snooped in my boyfriend flat, wrong I know but I do not trust him. I found an big folder, the biggest one in the pile. His ex g/f was polish and it had all these polish to English translation. Also There were love letters...One said this "You...

Living with somebody's bad karma

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I feel Like I'm in this incredibly complicated situation.. I've been in a relationship with my boyfriend for 3 years and there always has been a presence of a women from his past. I'm in my mid 30's and my BF is in his early 50s. We both been ...

Am I doing something wrong? should I not be annoyed by this?

This question has 4 answers - newest was posted 5085 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - Is it me or him?? So last night, I was busy doing household chores, when my boyfriend said it was too late to do things and he wanted to spend some time with him. So I stopped what I was doing and went upstairs with him. We both showered but when I ...

Incredibly complicated question

This question has 5 answers - newest was posted 5203 days ago

30 August 2010 (M) - [MOD NOTE : OP's OWN TITLE] Hi all i'm a 27 year old man, 6 weeks ago my girlfriend of 5 years and I broke up, no particular reason, we hadn't been getting on for a few months, weren't looking forward to seeing each other and weren't enjoying each...

How can I show him we are still good for eachother?

This question has 6 answers - newest was posted 5181 days ago

30 August 2010 (F) - I am 53yrs old and just got back into the dating scene about 5 Mths ago. I reacquainted myself with someone I knew in my teenage years. We have been dating for about 5 Mths and now he says we have no chemistry, which somewhat he is right, but I do ...