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female
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41-50,
*onely27
writes:I just dont know what to do, my boyfriend does not find me attractive anymore i dont know if its because i gained weight after having our son i just dont know but its mainly me with the sex initiating and everything i get no pleasure from him what so ever i am lucky to get a flick of the nipple. lol but i am only 27 and he is 31 and i guess he is dealing with someone else but normally i know because the sex changes. but its depressing and sad my self esteem is in the basement i just dont understand what there is left to do beside leave and then i will be by myself whats better being lonely or miserable???????someone please help me!!!!!
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reader, jodie-alice-x  +, writes (5 August 2010):
 You have a son, you won't be lonely. But I don't think walking away is the right answer, he could just be going through a patch in his life where he isn't finding sex interesting at the minute, or has a lot on his mind. I don't think you should pick up your stuff and leave, I think you should be there for him and the more your there, the more the attraction to you rises. Good luck sweetheart. xx
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